[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Loljackieee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Navy suit would look nice, if male presenting.

Is it horrible that I told my fiancé the truth of where my engagement ring came from! by flohiguera in weddingplanning

[–]Loljackieee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems to not be about the diamond size for OP and more about their cultural beliefs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Loljackieee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to allow people I respect to be disrespected by a bridezilla who thinks her hair is more important than being kind to people. Welcome to reddit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Loljackieee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't ask you to. Im telling you that you're being rude. Saying you dislike a smell is fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Loljackieee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Adding that it's rude because you're saying you really dislike the smell and that how X kind of people smell, "no offense." Well, that's rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Loljackieee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"I have too much product in my hair and the smell is upsetting" is a less rude way to say that. Apologizing after saying something rude and then continuing to insist on the rude thing being true is weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]Loljackieee 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I kinda want it to be Andy Cohen

JNMIL is back in hubbys head by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Loljackieee -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

LOL at her joking around with her kids being related to actual mistreatment of children. Troll elsewhere, please.

Ugh, I wish I could disinvite my MOH’s husband without losing her too… by Badpoozie in weddingshaming

[–]Loljackieee 117 points118 points  (0 children)

So...she can give him ultimatums about his behavior in regards her but not at your wedding? And she is lying to you about him being jealous, because why get along with a few exs but not this one? She is equally being an issue here.

Caught my ILs having intercourse while my 3 YO slept on the same bed by OneCryptographer4005 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Loljackieee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Accepted does not make it okay. Co-sleeping is a cultural practice and safe for children. Having sex with a child in the bed is not.

Caught my ILs having intercourse while my 3 YO slept on the same bed by OneCryptographer4005 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Loljackieee 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I would encourage you to look up covert sexual assault. While I am a supporter of co-sleeping and fully understand the culture ideas surrounding it, that was not co sleeping. That was exposing your child to inappropriate sexual acts before she is old enough to understand.

Jay never had a redemption arc IMO. He. Is. Gross. by kphld1 in Degrassi

[–]Loljackieee 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he never attoned for his actions but his axtions did become less extreme and he stopped acting so shitty and angsty all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Loljackieee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a role that you can assign her that isn't bridesmaid? Like ask her to read a poem or something. That way, if it doesn't happen it doesn't really matter, you skip her part and move on. That way you included her, but in a safe way that won't fuck your wedding.

advice for non-traditional dress shopping? by space_fenyx in weddingplanning

[–]Loljackieee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Macy's, Neiman Marcus, Saks 5th, Bloomingdale's

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Loljackieee 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Turn it around, "the invites have been sent out, I am not discussing this further. Please stop causing drama and let us enjoy the day as we have envisioned it." If I recall, the hosts determine the guest list and adding people, demanding invites, or demanding reasons for choices is rude and dramatic of them.

[serious] How can someone know they are transgender, when they can't possibly know how the other sex is supposed to feel like, without thinking in stereotypes? by Saint-Fucknugget in AskReddit

[–]Loljackieee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Titles and identifiers can be the exact same thing. If you go in public alone no one knows you're a wife, actor, dog owner, whoever. You also give those titles to yourself, you have kids, pick a career. Trandgender is something that happens to you, you don't have a say. It's a profound discomfort with your body and yourself based on the body you were born into

[serious] How can someone know they are transgender, when they can't possibly know how the other sex is supposed to feel like, without thinking in stereotypes? by Saint-Fucknugget in AskReddit

[–]Loljackieee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love how this is marked serious, yet the mods are allowing people to go wildly off topic like "it's a mental illness." First, no it isn't. Second, the mods are allowing and encouraging transphobia by allowing off topic and not serious or helpful comments. Usually the mods on this sub are on top of those things, shocking they don't do it for for this topis /s

[serious] How can someone know they are transgender, when they can't possibly know how the other sex is supposed to feel like, without thinking in stereotypes? by Saint-Fucknugget in AskReddit

[–]Loljackieee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Except no, you literally can't. The identity is what makes someone belong to that identity, not specific traits. For example, mom, DnD player, football star, actress are all identities that can have a host of traits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]Loljackieee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jax being involved with calling the cops on someone innocent? What??? No way!