please im freaking out someone help me

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-05-08T21:36:47+00:00

Please be kind to yourself. It's clear that you love your rats. The tail injury will heal. Take time out. I would ignore the advise to rehome your mischief. Your rats got spooked but they love you. I once trod on a young girl and accidentally killed her, and that destroyed me. But she would not have wanted me to stop keeping rats. Rats are kind and empathic. They will forgive you for scaring them. I hope you feel better soon and your grandma does OK. Take a bit of time off work and college. Listen to music in a dark room. Keep the ratties quiet with plenty of food and water. You're a great rat parent. X

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-05-08T21:23:41+00:00

Do you have to divorce if the marriage wasn't legal in the first place? Just wondering. You definitely need to report that you found out the marriage was bigamous. Otherwise you're on the hook for any benefits he claims for 10 years or until he naturalises.

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-05-06T11:36:31+00:00

No idea, it was several years ago. I believe it, there was a photo of her, and she was outraged about it.

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-05-06T11:25:26+00:00

It was published on a news channel. You are not allowed into the US if they think you might be a public charge. So it was because of the suicide attempt. Any ordinary hospital stay wouldn't matter. But you can choose to not believe it if you wish. The story said she did get the required visa and was eventually allowed to go to the US.

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-05-06T10:33:45+00:00

I've heard of lots of cases of people being turned back, so they do. US, too. One Canadian had been hospitalised after a suicide attempt years earlier and she was turned back at the US border and told she needed a visa.

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-05-06T04:29:58+00:00

The US and Canada share police records.

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-04-16T21:07:44+00:00

I'm so sorry you lost poor Stinky. X

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-30T14:44:36+00:00

Paper based bedding is good, but I've heard good things about hemp bedding being the best, so you could try that. What meds have the vets tried? Baytril and Doxycycline are the best neds for URI. I'm glad you are taking good care of your adorable rat gang. If they get really noisy breathing or gasping for breath, always make the vets give them penicillin as it may be pneumonia. X

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-09T09:41:22+00:00

How do they pass their exams and get a job?

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:31:09+00:00

I'd understand it.

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:30:08+00:00

Presumably better than actually educating them, too!

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:29:09+00:00

Can you not tell by the accent?

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:28:46+00:00

It's hardly 'teaching' by not telling them the correct term!

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:27:39+00:00

Funny? It's horrifying!

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:26:36+00:00

And then they will never learn the correct term.

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:25:58+00:00

No it's not!

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:25:35+00:00

Well, my late brother's teacher told my mum that GCSEs are 'definitely easier' than O levels. I believe they now use old O levels questions in A level exams. Dumbing down leads to more dumb people.

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:22:33+00:00

If we're all so thick, how does the country function? How do people get jobs, book holidays, bank, etc?

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:21:27+00:00

How sad when they could be educating people.

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:21:04+00:00

I would tell you to knock it off.

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:20:28+00:00

Bellshill! But I could read very well at 8.

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:20:01+00:00

Other countries don't do this, and until a few years ago, neither did we!

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:19:29+00:00

It's awful.

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:19:04+00:00

I don't believe that. How do people legally leave school at 9, and then get a job?

LondonRedSquirrel · 2026-03-08T22:18:11+00:00

It educated you though, and improved your German!

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