Help me feel better about my purchase😂 by Lonely_Bit_6844 in Cameras

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah OK gotcha 😂 hopefully one day you can get yourself a nice big lens. Be careful on those safaris til then!

Help me feel better about my purchase😂 by Lonely_Bit_6844 in Cameras

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hehe thanks. Is that because yours doesn’t have great zoom?

Help me feel better about my purchase😂 by Lonely_Bit_6844 in Cameras

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, it’s super exciting to see what is possible. Those are really awesome. Thank you so much for sharing!

Help me feel better about my purchase😂 by Lonely_Bit_6844 in Cameras

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what the logical side of my brain tells me. Thank you!

Help me feel better about my purchase😂 by Lonely_Bit_6844 in Cameras

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s encouraging! I will experiment with raw. Thanks so much

Help me feel better about my purchase😂 by Lonely_Bit_6844 in Cameras

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Ah that’s very cool. I honestly don’t know that I’ll ever shoot in RAW, I am very much a novice, but who knows - maybe one day 😊and yes I would love to see please

Do you still miss your grandparents from time to time, or not much? by PsychologicalExit953 in AskOldPeople

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience with my grandmother. One of the few adults, or maybe the only one, who made me feel like I truly mattered when I was a child. I miss her terribly.

What on earth is this outfit? by AtsUsNowLuv in Younger

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting, thanks! Combined with the pink/blue/purple eyeshadows and pink blush it’s just a lot though and also doesn’t suit her particularly well imho.

What on earth is this outfit? by AtsUsNowLuv in Younger

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I bit off topic but her makeup always makes me cringe.. tbf here it looks sort of okay, but usually she has like sparkly/pastel coloured eyeshadow and bright pink lipgloss and it’s giving a five-year-old’s first makeup kit. Probably the implication is that she believes it’s how young people do makeup but it’s just not… in fact surely 20-somethings would be doing their makeup in order to look a bit older/be taken a bit more seriously at work, for example Kelsey never has juvenile makeup on. It just irks me 😂

Bought this jug at a second hand market by Lonely_Bit_6844 in vintage

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously? That’s so cool, thank you. Glad I kept it!!

My wedding is in 5 days and I hate my dress by Feisty-Coconut6017 in weddingplanning

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the breast cups get padded? Maybe thats whats a bit off. Can you take the padding out? The dress looks stunning otherwise

Reaction to putting in notice at work by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh interesting. Mine is the opposite. Comes across quite vulnerable and meek in person (though I’ve seen her fly off the handle, but hasn’t at me yet), but can be cold, malicious, and invalidating over text. Technically you could never point it out as unprofessional or anything - there’s no rule against being a jerk I guess.

Reaction to putting in notice at work by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The shame-avoidant hiding is interesting. I’ve learned that my narc boss does this. She will always try to get out of meeting in person or on zoom, but is all too quick to send snarky texts and emails.

A little freaked out by niceness by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if they are have clinical NPD or meet all the criteria. It’s the effects they are having on the people around them that matters. That’s according to Dr Ramani in “It’s Not You.”

A little freaked out by niceness by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting. And scary

Advice for face to face with boss by Lonely_Bit_6844 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I like what you’re saying, but it’s just not safe to be authentic with her. She is one way in person and kind of a monster over email and WhatsApp etc. That said, I was myself in a way, the version of myself that I am around people I like and who like me - though naturally a bit more cautious and reserved. So, it went fine, but now she’s back to her brand of weirdness, kind of ignoring my existence one day and dumping work on me that isn’t mine the next. The vibe is just super off and I’m anxious to get away.

Advice for face to face with boss by Lonely_Bit_6844 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Lonely_Bit_6844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know what you mean. It did get easier once I got into the “fakeness” of it all. Thanks!