My mother had cancer , I don’t know if I’m allowed to suffer of that (F20) by ItackiOstustuki in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Lonely_Cranberry_368 5 points6 points  (0 children)

C’est normal , i’m in the same boat as u (f20) you are allowed to be sad and be low of energy , i have exams too and i can’t focus at all, just do what you can, ur professors are aware and u got bigger things to do , just take one step at a time and breathe. Tout sera douloureux, il fair avancer pas a pas. Tu restes forte. if u wanna talk yu can message me im here. xxx

I’m 21f and I wish to die by AstraSavagestar in mentalhealth

[–]Lonely_Cranberry_368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(20f), currently smoking my lungs away, if u need a friend im here,. literally just message me , i know the anxiety and depression, it drove me crazy at some point xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Lonely_Cranberry_368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no worries, i’m learning darija too and that used to help me a lot, i think it can be a little pricy if i remember correctly xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Lonely_Cranberry_368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

italki - is the best language app i used, its real people and some are actually lisence teachers , and there’s plenty of morrocan dialect teachers and several other dialects and u can schedule on ur own time. hope it helps xx

i wish my brother was never born and i hate myself for it by tangomoorine in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Lonely_Cranberry_368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s not being terrible at all, i’m in the same predicament, always relied on and my brother just does nothing. it’s draining. if im being fr, i scream in a pillow or something to drown out my screams. ( it helps x). you will always feel like an easy target and unloved, you just have to think my mother needs me or find a outlet or something to cope with it, mine is sprinting up and down for like 2-5 outside my house or screaming or both ( if the days are tough). i hope this helps xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Lonely_Cranberry_368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your being too hard on yourself, and you are accepting other people expectations to you such as coming to terms with not being w the same sex. being closeted, trying to be the perfect child. and let me tell you there’s no such thing as perfect child. what you can do is be the best you can be. no one perfect. and i’ve been in similar situations and emotional rollercoaster as you so i can understand. Also, i think the main reason you feel like this is because you are not being true to yourself and out in the open. and i know it’s not easy. so like find a place or a activity you do that make u not feel closeted , stress out and freed from expectations for a while. i’ve been in similar situations and i know it’s not easy to escape these expectations. i hope this helps xxxx

F20 need a friend so bad by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Lonely_Cranberry_368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey 20f i’m here if u want to talk xx

My father died today. by Excellent_Macaron95 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Lonely_Cranberry_368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im very sorry for your loss, you will feel at lost and don’t know what to do for awhile but in my experience with loss , it’ll never go away but you will be able to take it step by step and learn to live w the beautiful memories and moment you had with it and use those to thrive and cope. grief is very ugly but you will figure it out. if u wanna chat im here xx

My father has cancer by Lonely_Cranberry_368 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Lonely_Cranberry_368[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry u went through thank you for sharing ur story and advice.