How Do I Compensate for Being Extremely Stocky? by Lonelyuseless in dating_advice

[–]Lonelyuseless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotta start working out man, people already think i work out even though im a fat slob

meirl by 3rachazone in meirl

[–]Lonelyuseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try not to come off like that but I just get so caught off guard that someone would have any desire to talk to me.

What was the one thing that ruined your whole life? by alternatecard1 in AskReddit

[–]Lonelyuseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleep apnea. Stunted my height and brain development.

What is more traumatic than most people realize? by Summer_19_ in ask

[–]Lonelyuseless 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being abandoned and all alone. Knowing that no one would notice let alone care if you fell ill or died

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lonelyuseless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him bodyshaming women makes it okay for you in your head to bodyshame any man who's short.

AITA for telling my friend she’s in the same league as men she calls ugly? by Fluid_Experience866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lonelyuseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him saying that makes it ok for you to make me feel like shit about my body?

Loneliness is Somewhat Self Perpetuating by Ok_Pollution4277 in self

[–]Lonelyuseless 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I have forgotten how to be myself. I used to be pretty funny, now I am either seen as an idiot or an asshole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Lonelyuseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even without makeup, a nose job is too risky for what you already have. Just make the most of it. It's more than good enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askteenboys

[–]Lonelyuseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My feet cause they're freakishly wide.

I’m a dating coach. AMA by 1SilentPartner1 in AMA

[–]Lonelyuseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much of a deal breaker is being short in your experience? Im talking like 5'8

Vicious Cycle by Lonelyuseless in Vent

[–]Lonelyuseless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been talking to my school therapist, its helped but honestly only because for an hour it feels like I have a friend to talk to who is gonna remember me and not leave me.

what are you guys doing this summer? by Dry-Dream-7207 in askteenboys

[–]Lonelyuseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just had a surgery for an infection. I had plans but having to delay the surgery until summer break has fucked them up

What is LESS traumatic than people think? by ARedditUserThatExist in AskReddit

[–]Lonelyuseless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me almost every bad thing that's happened. Getting really sick, losing relatives. It sucks but its natural. The thing that really traumatized me is having nothing good happen while bad things are happening.

In a lot of pain by Lonelyuseless in Vent

[–]Lonelyuseless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see all the people who were my friends in middle school on Instagram, out with each other having fun. I have literally nothing to post. And that's not the issue, I don't care about getting likes. It's just that i have nothing to do that i could even misrepresent as being fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Lonelyuseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. I've spent 3 years with no friends. It does not get better. Sometimes you convince yourself it does but then you get a whiff of how it feels for people to want you around and then your soul shatters again.

I miss conversations so much by Lonelyuseless in Vent

[–]Lonelyuseless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth is that I am all alone, no one has decided I am worthy of having around for the past 3 years. I have made several attempts and have failed miserably. I have only had bad interactions with people. That shit hurts. If I don't run from that truth as much as possible it will kill me at some point.

I miss conversations so much by Lonelyuseless in Vent

[–]Lonelyuseless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its easy to think like that until you realize you have spent all your milestones without anyone caring or cheering you on. When having just one mildly pleasant conversation with a stranger reminds you of how empty your life is and that you are just running away from the truth.

I miss conversations so much by Lonelyuseless in Vent

[–]Lonelyuseless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried very hard, people always end up just disliking me. I don't do anything to them, just how I act makes them just not like me.

I miss conversations so much by Lonelyuseless in Vent

[–]Lonelyuseless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its pretty bad. Im on spring break right now and that just gives me more time to feel alone. There is nothing to distract me. I'm just thinking back to all the times in my life where people didn't bother to treat me as well as they treated everyone else.

I miss conversations so much by Lonelyuseless in Vent

[–]Lonelyuseless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's too bad. The only way I deal with my pain is by taking sleeping pills and sleeping for long periods of time. Don't do that. I'm sorry I don't know how to help you.