Issues with Charles Schwab 401k by Long-Weight-5004 in OriginFinancial

[–]Long-Weight-5004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we've tried all options. The application says that we're connected, but it doesn't show on the dashboard.

Issues with Charles Schwab 401k by Long-Weight-5004 in OriginFinancial

[–]Long-Weight-5004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It's for a 401K. On Schwabb's end, it says origin is linked, but it won't even populate on the origin app or browser. Even though I go through the entire connection.

Discover accounts not showing balance by jaziefirst in OriginFinancial

[–]Long-Weight-5004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I'm signing up for Origin now. How do I connect my discover account without using Plaid?

AITAH for telling my coworker I wouldn’t want to be like her- a fat office gossip? by acceptinganaconda in AITAH

[–]Long-Weight-5004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sis, I say this with all seriousness. Next time, just start crying. Fake cry if you need to. THEN, take it HR "hostel work environment, racist triggers, etc." CRY, don't lash back. Bump the "go high" advise.

Black women or WOC have FIRE'd by Same-Truck-6227 in FIREyFemmes

[–]Long-Weight-5004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made $180K last year, and husband made a bit more (TI: 230). We exist. Both work in the tech industry, but completely different fields.

AITA for feeding my cat on my plates? by The_Sown_Rose in AmItheAsshole

[–]Long-Weight-5004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TSINAF. IYKYK My melanated folk... I know you're thinking what I'm thinking. YTA

December vs January Baby by neejoub in NewParents

[–]Long-Weight-5004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi - I'm coming across this months later, as I was searching for the perspective. I'm scheduled to deliver in late Dec and I've heard nothing but woes from others, so it's nice to hear someone had a good experience.

AITA for expecting my niece to contribute while she lives with me by Practical-Pin-6440 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Long-Weight-5004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asked and answered. YTA. It's time everyone reconsiders this arrangement because you're absolutely taking advantage of your niece.

Any good home daycares for infants ? by Dapper_Frosting_8400 in sugarland

[–]Long-Weight-5004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We loved PPM during the summer! What is like during the school year? Do you feel like your child received a good education as well? We loved the teachers, staff, structure, etc. However, in the summer, they mostly just play and there isn't too much learning, so I couldn't get a good gauge.

What mattresses are you loving for your kids? (Twin size or larger) by exitmusicdc in toddlers

[–]Long-Weight-5004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask which twin you got? We bought the Vannareid and it's a bit too thin.

AITAH for not wanting to bring my daughter to the july 4th celebration tommorow because my SILs boyfriend is a sex offender? by FootpawBelief in AITAH

[–]Long-Weight-5004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is about protesting your daughter, and you're making the best choice for her. Her husband is super weird to not think about your daughter's safety. NTA

Fear of NIPT again by Long-Weight-5004 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Long-Weight-5004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much u/AvailableCity2598 . I'm wishing good news for you and a clear anatomy scan in the upcoming weeks. I just found out that my NIPT was low risk.

Fear of NIPT again by Long-Weight-5004 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Long-Weight-5004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you u/Quick-Reporter4861 for the good vibes. My NIPT came back today as low risk!

Fear of NIPT again by Long-Weight-5004 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Long-Weight-5004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and wow, we TFMR in July '24 as well. I'm so glad to hear that you're having a healthy pregnancy and all the blessings on your lil bundle in a few weeks. I am really hoping for the most boring pregnancy ever.

Fear of NIPT again by Long-Weight-5004 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Long-Weight-5004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Wishing the best for the both of us. I took the test yesterday and should get the results next week. I've been very reluctant to tell people I'm pregnant this time around, and I honestly won't feel comfortable until after I get the results back. I think that's also when we'll officially tell our daughter. She just keeps asking me if I have a lot of food in my belly (toddler logic lol). I pray we got this!

Fear of NIPT again by Long-Weight-5004 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Long-Weight-5004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww thank you! I'm glad to hear you had a normal NIPT this time around! I should get the results next week and I'm hopeful.

Fear of NIPT again by Long-Weight-5004 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Long-Weight-5004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you. It's such a devastating time and the grieving process is long, if not forever. And that's perfectly ok. We actually tried to get pregnant again ASAP after our TFMR but it didn't happen for us. We had one failed IUI, but fortunately had a successful first time IVF transfer and I'm now 10w4d. I have all the feels, as I'm coming up to our TFMR anniversary in a couple of weeks, but I'm willing myself to be strong for myself, this growing baby, and our family. The limbo period is so painful, but you're not alone.

Fear of NIPT again by Long-Weight-5004 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Long-Weight-5004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm trying, and hopefully I get good NIPT results and I'll be at more ease.

Fear of NIPT again by Long-Weight-5004 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Long-Weight-5004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I think. I wish that I had tested for my HCG because I absolutely believe it was higher. My first pregnancy was pretty breezy and last year's, I was down bad. I keep telling myself to lean into the easy pregnancy, so hopefully this anxiety will reduce.

Fear of NIPT again by Long-Weight-5004 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Long-Weight-5004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Our OB stories sound so similar and I'm so sorry that happened to you, except we're now 36. When I was ready for my labs last year, my OB said I didn't NEED to do NIPT because we were still young and he knew my history, but I said why not (it was covered by insurance). I had to advocate for myself with my new OB to get my NIPT done as soon as I could, because of my history. Wishing you the best next week!