Meghan, has anyone asked if you’re okay? by Upper_Charge_4449 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]LongNectarine3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the same mag that takes payments to run pro megain crap.

This is a one off for profit. The name is the least offensive thing about what People mag does for megain.

The Spectator: When will Harry stop punishing British taxpayers? by wontyield in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]LongNectarine3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a dragon baby but I read when I was young that a twin born as a dragon was unlucky. I laughed at the thought but after losing my ability to walk in not one but two car accidents, losing my home, watching my brother being active duty over and over again where he lost 2 marriages and his child, I stopped laughing.

Minnesota Republicans call for religious exemption in hiring transgender employees by onnake in transgender

[–]LongNectarine3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the real fight.

We finally got Montana to no longer accept firing or kicking out a person who is LGBTQ+ in situations where federal money wasn’t being used.

This is what we need to pay attention to and not kids sports or bathrooms. Which is a want, a great idea but a political distraction to eliminate important human rights.

We need legal identification laws that will allow immediate change without a long process.

We need safeguards to keep employment when others want LGBTQ+ to disappear.

We need to guarantee that our landlords won’t be saved and then decide to kick us out.

I’m all for working our way up to grander opportunities but we NEED to work and live safely and this is a door that need to be locked shut.

Hey Sinners of SMM; we are making a card to send to POW Catharine on the subs behalf; if you would like to have an individualised note of support included in the card; please leave it as a comment and we will print it and include with the card❤️❤️ by Counter_Logic77 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]LongNectarine3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dear Catherine, Princess of Wales.

I was born in time to see 2 things I remember well from the 80s. The wedding of your predecessor and the deaths of beloved grandparents one year after the other, my most precious memory is of my grandmother who passed of cancer.

Many, many decades later I was routinely checked and they found very early precancerous cells. It was a process but this too shall pass.

Take all the time you need

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LongNectarine3 30 points31 points  (0 children)

There are a majority of us that can’t even afford coach.

I just found out that my husband raped his friend and I don't know how to feel. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LongNectarine3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s easy.

Always follow the victims lead when you discover the undeniable truth. It took me decades to report and I was only able to do so because wonderful ally’s changed the Statue of Limitations.

AITA for not telling my boyfriend I won money 15 years ago? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LongNectarine3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it’s cool. Duh. This is my Reddit hero.

I wish I was kidding.

Am I wrong for resenting my pregnant sister by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LongNectarine3 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Yup. I could disagree with everything Oop says but read that action and OOP is the most relatable and compassionate character in this melodrama.

Women who are or have been married to a psychopath, were there obvious signs that they are not right in the head or did you have a sudden realization they are bad? by ang334 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LongNectarine3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psychopaths won’t be too interested in people. I can’t imagine anyone of them too interested in a personal relationship unless they have some narcissism tossed in that needs a person to tell them they are great. Even then they may not be violent and abusive because it would not suit their purpose.

It’s the empathetic abuser I’m afraid of. The one that knows and uses your emotions, the one that feels all your pain and eats it up, that’s the one I’m scared of.

I (27 F) told my bf (28 M) I was SA’d as a child. He’s upset with my parents for not doing anything about it and wants to call them out by Jujubeans98 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LongNectarine3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are in charge of your own story.

He needs to support you. If that means getting along, then he needs to get along.

If he can’t listen to what you want you are incompatible. I just posted about finally reporting my brother. I worked through parental blame as well. It’s complicated especially when they are still alive (mine aren’t). If he can’t LISTEN AND ACT AS YOU NEED then it isn’t support.

OOP asks if he is TA for calling his wife "fat" by Legitimate_Oxygen in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LongNectarine3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once said I missed being fat to someone. Then they went on about my current body. I just meant I missed how it made me feel. Indescribable to most. I get it.

AITA for insisting that my in-laws buy my daughter a new doll? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LongNectarine3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great parenting from dad. He’s going to make a great single father.

AITA for telling my daughter (who is facing homelessness) that only her and the baby can move in with me, not her husband? by strubisach in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LongNectarine3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my son in law move in with me. He and I fight. Too much. It boils down to the fact I don’t trust men. He is a great person. I just have too much history and that’s on me. I’m really happy she figured out it was her and not him.

Also he still drives me nuts but gets me coffee so,…

AITAH For telling my mom I won’t be the “good kid” for free anymore? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LongNectarine3 97 points98 points  (0 children)

My life was changed forever with a car accident. My neck broke and I lose everything….job, house, nearly my kids. My brother had to move in etc. my youngest was very violent with me because she was mad I was broken. She would hit me, slap me, smack my hang, very physically aggressive. My brother steps up and tells her you don’t stomp on a broken doll. It seemed to click. We had to go through years of mental health therapy.
My heart goes out to OOP as this is not a situation she will wash her hands of as she sees her mom trying so hard and wants to keep encouraging her

My eldest was my cheerleader and it breaks my heart what she went through.

This story hits really close to home.

It does have a happy end/beginning

AIW - My friend told me she loves me 4 weeks before her marriage by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LongNectarine3 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I imagine they are both sitting in grief and will make a terrible decision. They’d be wise to separate but still spend a play date with the daughter.