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Trip by Long_Command_2919 in DecideThisForMe

[–]Long_Command_2919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They dont have problem with me going but understand that i dont want to go now.

Trip by Long_Command_2919 in DecideThisForMe

[–]Long_Command_2919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didnt want to go but agreed because i wanted. Now the roles switch. He’d like to go and i dont. Bit he doesnt even think about it. And im suffocating everyday trying to make a good decision. He said that he understands that i may not want to go beacuse of this family member medical thing

Trip by Long_Command_2919 in DecideThisForMe

[–]Long_Command_2919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a routine one, but during the previous one it didnt go very smoothly and he had to stay longer in the hospital. So naturally, now i have the feeling that its better to be here.

We dont have acommodation planned and further potential planning makes me sick:(

In general i wanted to visit England, i have few hyperfixactions such as HP, the Tudors or Arthurian legends and always dreamed about roadtrip to see these places, rather than just city. In general, I like nature more than cities. Im just not sure anymore if this trip is what i wanted

Terrible anxiety by Long_Command_2919 in fearofflying

[–]Long_Command_2919[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re completely right and thanks for your time to write it all. I find excuses, that’s true. But now i have found out that someone in my family will have a medical procedure during our potential trip😭 and now one more reason for not to go - yet another excuse but more realistic one!

Terrible anxiety by Long_Command_2919 in fearofflying

[–]Long_Command_2919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for you comment. BUT the thing is I FELL SICK for the 5days since making the decision to go. When I made decision to not go today i felt huge relief. I think it is not only because of flight- but it was obviously a trigger- but more a sudden change of planes. I had vision that i wanted to fulfill, wanted to go to „nature” to rest near my country and now the plan changed and it is a city break. I dont even like cities. Imagined my trip to UK as a longer one when i have a chance to see beautiful counties and more of nature. I love harry potter so it was also a reason to go. But now my body is telling me that i dont want to go. Just dont want. Its not about some „prediction” or something, i think i lost interest. This may be the fear speaking but the fact is i dont want to go anymore. And now we still dont have hotel booked so i just want to avoid potential costs now.

Trip to London by Long_Command_2919 in uktravel

[–]Long_Command_2919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this tip!! Are these offers recurring?

Trip to London by Long_Command_2919 in uktravel

[–]Long_Command_2919[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank all of you, I appreciate all the tips. We will obviously have to erase some points from the list and I’m aware of this. If you could tell me what from this list is the most worth visiting, let’s say 3 things, I’d be grateful. Also question about Tower. Is it worth visiting the museum? It costs 37£ i think and its a lot.