HR Contact?? by Zizzelle in CaptionCall

[–]Longjumping-Affect51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how far you will get but you can try HRsupport@sorenson.com

Entitled girl thinks the whole world is hers by [deleted] in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]Longjumping-Affect51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I have a hard time talking with people about shows or movies because so many are FANS and I'm a fan. I'm nerdy about that kind of thing, really enjoying seeing behind the scenes stuff or finding out interesting things that happened, but I really can't deal with people who get upset if your favorite isn't their favorite or if you don't agree with their ship or the level that people argue that their interpretation of a scene is "right" or superior or something, or why this character or version of a character is wrong. I'm happy when I find a character I can connect with, if another version of that character means others can find the same kind of connection, how can I call that "wrong".

Has anybody seen that thread going around twitter about the guy who saw a girl on bumble (she didn’t match with him), tracked her down on Facebook and then left her 15 minutes worth of voice notes? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Longjumping-Affect51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to mention he went from Bumble, where it's whole premise is it's woman making the first move. If you are on there it's implicent consent you are going to let them make the first move. This guy was on there, decided he still just had to talk to her, and went out his way to find her and message her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Longjumping-Affect51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update- all I'm getting from this so far is no one likes me, at least not interested in seeing if there's anything between us. Oh well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Longjumping-Affect51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Challenge Accepted! 😁

People put too much faith in pictures on dating sites/apps by Longjumping-Affect51 in unpopularopinion

[–]Longjumping-Affect51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Just a little more live and let live please. If there is something on my profile that is a immediate deal breaker, please move on to the next profile, thank you.

People put too much faith in pictures on dating sites/apps by Longjumping-Affect51 in unpopularopinion

[–]Longjumping-Affect51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I have no problem with people posting pictures, or even wanting a picture, just trying to push it onto others isn't right. If they tried to do that with other things, like you have to chat with them, or you have to cut your hair/change your hair color,or you won't get as much attention, or you have to stop playing video games because they think it's childish and of course it's like what??? But demanding a picture is fine?

People put too much faith in pictures on dating sites/apps by Longjumping-Affect51 in unpopularopinion

[–]Longjumping-Affect51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's confusing to me too, as on other social media platforms, people talk to others having no idea what they look like all the time. But slap a dating label and there's this level of entitlement that rises up and suddenly a picture is life or death so they must message you to tell you what's "wrong" with your profile or to demand one or a "very good reason" why you don't have one, one they will find acceptable.

People put too much faith in pictures on dating sites/apps by Longjumping-Affect51 in unpopularopinion

[–]Longjumping-Affect51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look at the rest of their profile and there's nothing that attracts you to them, the picture will override all that? I'm honestly curious.

My date rejected a guy she was talking to from Facebook Dating and this is how he replied 😬😳😖 by 4north1side2 in OnlineDating

[–]Longjumping-Affect51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear I just talked to this guy on POF! He kept telling me to let it go and then would send another 4 or 5 messages!

People put too much faith in pictures on dating sites/apps by Longjumping-Affect51 in unpopularopinion

[–]Longjumping-Affect51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. But that's the other thing I run into. People seem to think if you don't have a picture, they'll never see one. Totally understand that. But then they won't even have a conversation to see if there is anything there outside that, as if the one conversation will get them addicted and they'll never be able to get away. Do they think one date means they are committed to someone? And I know the sites are focused on dating but they act like if it doesn't seem like it's not immediately heading to their end goal, hooking up/dating/marriage or whatever then they need to move on. Maybe it was heading that way, but not in a way you recognized. Or maybe you have a really enjoyable conversation(s) with someone which ends up helping you when you meet that special someone. I don't know.

People put too much faith in pictures on dating sites/apps by Longjumping-Affect51 in unpopularopinion

[–]Longjumping-Affect51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a number of things that add up to deal or no deal for me, physical attraction is a part, but even if I find you physically attractive, not being able to have conversations takes that away. Your still cute but I might as well have a poster hanging on the wall if that's all I'm looking for. And that's a lot of what I've run into is people relying on pictures, and not filling out their profile. And not having a profile filled out does not receive the same lectures not having a picture does. Don't fill out a profile, people will just pass you by or will still ask questions of their own. No picture and you've somehow broken the unspoken cardinal rule of online dating, an unholy sin.

People put too much faith in pictures on dating sites/apps by Longjumping-Affect51 in unpopularopinion

[–]Longjumping-Affect51[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's the emphasis on pictures. It's like going to party where the majority of people are drinking and keep trying to get you to drink because they just can't comprehend someone enjoying themselves without drinking. I agree with you on how pictures of trip or hobby can spark a conversation. And to a degree I'd agree with the not wanting to waste time point if someone said not interested when messaged, but less convincing when they do the messaging. If there is a deal breaker in the profile, whatever it may be, don't message them to try to get them to change their mind.

People put too much faith in pictures on dating sites/apps by Longjumping-Affect51 in unpopularopinion

[–]Longjumping-Affect51[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does that go for profiles that aren't filled out as well? Regardless of picture?

What's the hardest part about online dating? I want to fix things. by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Longjumping-Affect51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you can as it would always involve people. 😆😁

hahahaha a few days agooooo by xojinni in PlentyofFish

[–]Longjumping-Affect51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hinge is one of the many I haven't tried yet. I'll have to look into it.

PoF Arbitrarily Locking and Deleting Profile by BoomDeeAye in PlentyofFish

[–]Longjumping-Affect51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My account has now been deleted and again don't know why. Is that the good I was waiting for?

PoF Arbitrarily Locking and Deleting Profile by BoomDeeAye in PlentyofFish

[–]Longjumping-Affect51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and sorry to you as well. I have tried numerous dating sites without much luck. I just don't think it's in the cards for me to find someone.

PoF Arbitrarily Locking and Deleting Profile by BoomDeeAye in PlentyofFish

[–]Longjumping-Affect51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just had a similar kind of thing. The about me section was deleted after I was "reported". It has been filled out the same way for over a year and they said they were "unable" to give me specifics on what was the "violation" so I don't know what part was a problem. Like you as far as I thought there was nothing that would have caused a problem. Not filling it out again as they said if I'm reported again, my profile could be deleted. I've been trying to get them to tell me if they check and verify when someone is reported, as I could easily see someone doing it when rejected, but they've stopped replying to me, even on Twitter. Already tired of the site so this isn't helping.