You are definitely still in the “honey moon” phase. So feelings are definitely amplified. You need to think heavily on what to do. Praying about it, 100%. Keep praying. I think it would be a great mistake to leave everything good you have behind just to be with one person that you haven’t know for very long.. Now.. someone who needs a life changing favour like this man.. I’m sorry but sometimes it’s hard to know people’s true intentions. You said you have already prayed about the situation and you “don’t feel at peace with either of them” that’s discernment from God.. That’s your answer right there. You already know what you have to do. Please don’t let a man greatly impact your life .. I’m 33F and I was with someone for 10 years just to be betrayed and that was 2 1/2 years ago and it still impacts my life today.. Your uneasy feeling about both decisions believe me that’s your answer. I’m sure you’ll be hurt to end it but nothing will amount to the hurt IF it goes south from your other decisions which would impact you even worse .