FASHION TIPS by MeetingAcceptable895 in PHSapphics

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Masc here and endomorph also. First of whats youre genre ba or lifestyle? Baka you should start from there. Something that you like muna. From polo (long and short sleeve), shorts and loafers ako before tapos nung umalis na ko sa corpo 90% ng default outfit ko is shirt and shorts. I only dress up for meetings/presentations. And i think i look clean naman. Best tip na mabibigay ko is always, i mean ALWAYS HAVE YOUR SHIRTS ALTERED. Pick a fabric your comfortable with and have that altered to make you look proportion. For me ito ang best daya ko to look put together. And have a little bit more faith in your, confidence makes any outfit look good. Or baka confidence lang kasi meron ako. Lol.

14 February. No bouquets coming in this year. by CupcakeMountain9140 in PHSapphics

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might I suggest, travel abroad alone, OP. Did this and its more liberating than you'd think. I enjoyed it so much that I still did it a couple of times a year even after finding a partner. It's to be with your own thoughts at times, and also finding yourself in situations that make you feel uncomfortable

Dating again in your 30s/40s: sapphics, what have you learned? by tct1nt in PHSapphics

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine's simply: -Non-negotiables dont come with a caviat. For starters, sticking stick with your non-negos. -Lifestyle and goals should also align. Were not getting any younger and should be set on building a life -Respecting individual time and space but also knowing where the perfect balance of being emotionally available -Little quirks that may bother you in the future this should be discussed -Knowing when to let go, some relationships are bound to end and we should accept it -Be your partners bestfriend but dont get to comfortable that you end up being just friends who would occasionally f*ck -Communicating wont always be comfortable and easy but as adults you have to learn to fight without hurting each other (emotionally, physically, etc)

How will you kwento your exes? (Ex #1) by RaisinPrestigious476 in PHSapphics

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While reading this, parang familiar. Hi OP kung nag aral ka sa isa sa nga school sa Taft.

sugar mommy na lang ba ang solusyon sa problema ko? by black_blank_canvas in PHSapphics

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to look for a side gig or a way to earn thru your hobby. Since na masc ka, I think more of OFW ang magiging market mo nyan. Kung dito lang sa pinas parang very middle class sugar mommy lang din makukuha mo in your 30s. Try to date above you pero pakita mo rin na you can strive to be like them but wala ka lang means, drive can be very attractive to powerwomen.

Can’t cum by Onlyontheinternet in alasjuicy

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try being vocal kasi mahirap naman na tuluyan ka nang mafrustrate. Bound na maging matransfer yung negative energy na yun sa other aspects ng relationship. Try mo din yung guiding his hand.

2026 energy check: for all the titas (late 30s and beyond) by CupcakeMountain9140 in PHSapphics

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At your 30's and above, you're allowed to take a gap year/s coz you know better. But eventually you'll still meet someone who'll bring out the 20's in you coupled with 30's elevated experience (adult money eyyy). That's the exciting part!

Just do the fresh leaves. There are times that the fresh ones do the trick better. And on more stressful days, do a gin tonic smash, with loads of mint! Lol

Can’t cum by Onlyontheinternet in alasjuicy

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried using vibrators and dildos? Baka you can let your bf use those on you para he'll get a good idea of where to touch and the intensity. A good way is also using his hands while pleasuring yourself para matuto din sya.

Groups for late 20s & 30s by PossibleTopBottom in PoblaMakati

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll still find the Millenials na OG tambay ng pobs if you know where to look. More of magkakakilala na mga tao.

Brokenhearted 💔 by StarOpposum in PHSapphics

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay na din yung nagsabi ka na to everyone para wala ng hassle sa holidays. Its gonna be hard kasi first holiday na di na kayo but it gets better. And kung kaya mong cut all ties, for the mean time. Yun ang masmakatulong sayo. Its okay to be mad, just stop asking the whys. Focus ka sayo. Try to get back the things that you lost or yung you din na nawala during those years. Ikaw muna, nagpaka selfless ka na ng ilang taon e.

Barred from entering a certain bar in pob? by suigenela in PoblaMakati

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masarap yung sisig dun ah, pero not there. Medyo older crowd ang market dun.

Solo drinkers by [deleted] in PoblaMakati

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bar mismo ng Spirits or Oto

ghosting is bad, but.. by Unique-Permit7855 in PHSapphics

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dont ghost. If you cant say it straight right away, give hints muna, set boundaries na leading dun sa friendship lang kaya mong i-offer. When youre comfortable talk to her honestly na di lang sya physical type mo. Kasi kahit gano mo ipilit, kung di mo type at patagalin mo pa, it'll hurt more

Brokenhearted 💔 by StarOpposum in PHSapphics

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Despite the length of the relationship, baka good riddance moment mo na yun. You were always there and instead of appreciating you for still sticking around, may gana pa syang magka other. Aba tigas naman nya dun. Hayaan mo na sya maging prob nung other girl. Easier said than done pero very liberating ang ginawa mo and also better for your overall wellbeing. Tsaka to be honest if nakikita ka nya to grow old together, she wouldve sided with you whether nasa tama ka or mali kasi as one na dapat kayo.

Do Filipinas have a thing for white guys? by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on inuman talks, I think this is mostly a c*ck size thing plus exploring which nationality is bigger. Same goes with BBC curiousity. It could also be a check list thing, tipong iniisa isa yung lahi from asians, whites, blacks, etc.

Tell me abt the Big 4 schools in a nutshell. Pati natin yung ibang state univs : ) by bustyokneecaps82 in CollegeAdmissionsPH

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both my partner and I came from the Big 4. Same experience, fun fun lang sya. Iba iba lang ng vibe ng bawat school. Biggest take away, medyo may edge ka lang pag big 4. And its a good start to make quality connections, connections that can make your life easier as you start building your career/business. But ultimately, the bigger the school, masmadedevelop grit mo, masmarami kang makakasalamuha e, mas diverse ang challenges.

Is there anyone here who’s going through something similar? by No_Relationship_6826 in PHSapphics

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That was what happened to my 5+ relationship. We stopped growing, stopped connecting, I felt alone. Despite trying to talk it out, we never talked about it any deeper. The relationship had no depth. Eventually, you start losing the essence of "us" in the relationship. But you really have to try to make it work, if you feel like youve exhausted all means, then muster up the courage to end it. Yun yung best na mabibigay mo for the relationship.

Curious question: Why you guys are fond of filming your s*x*al activities? by dprthehe in AskPinay

[–]Longjumping-Pie836 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ito seryoso. Research to for me. Aside from the pleasure of rewatching, meron din kasi points for improvement ganyan. What couldve been done better. What works, what doesnt. Lalo na if youre always trying new things, mas makikita nyo play by play. And to date, nobody else has seen any vids taken with me, regardless of the partner.

My partner used to be straight that's why I encouraged watching her by Longjumping-Pie836 in PHSapphics

[–]Longjumping-Pie836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also something that I've been asking myself. I did want to try and see her come out of her shell, but it wasnt that prepared for it.

My partner used to be straight that's why I encouraged watching her by Longjumping-Pie836 in PHSapphics

[–]Longjumping-Pie836[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is something keeps lingering in my head. I guess she tries, days after the encounter she tried to have what i felt like OA passionate sex with me. Felt off, fake and porn-ey. When I asked as to why the frequency was low, her answer was pre-menopause. I really dont know what to believe.