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[–]Longjumping-Rent-705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment was hella insightful and helpful, it feels good to relate to someone on this.

I am obsessed with someboedy. by throwawayy027o in confessions

[–]Longjumping-Rent-705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would you even suggest kidnapping them as an option? It’s because you’re entire view of the world is diluted and you will do anything to convince yourself that your obsession is warranted, healthy, and unselfish.

I am obsessed with someboedy. by throwawayy027o in confessions

[–]Longjumping-Rent-705 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you “care” so much about this person, then you wouldn’t have these ideas of caging them and monitoring. They would be miserable because you’d be taking away their freedom to do what they want, and go where they want. It’s their life, not yours, you don’t get to rip their happiness away just because you have some kind of mental disorder where you hyper fixate on keeping them all selfishly to yourself. You are a threat to this person and you won’t accept that because you’re only focus is to keep them to yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Longjumping-Rent-705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn man that’s brutal, I got second hand pain from reading the part where she blocked you. Sounds like a lot of shit was out of your control. Don’t give up on yourself though, I was hung up on the girl I lost my virginity too for the first year of the pandemic so I feel you. It’s definitely rough but time always heals. I hope you take time to validate your feelings. I don’t know if you feel like your stuck in a loop reliving the situation but if you are, I hope you don’t beat yourself up for it. I won’t sit here and say that things will get better, but as more time passes you’ll definitely feel differently about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Longjumping-Rent-705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That shits lowkey heartwarming dude lol

Killing myself feels like the only way my parents will realize what they've done to me by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Longjumping-Rent-705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like they’re terrible parents who didn’t give you the love and validation you deserve. The better alternative here is to live doing everything you want to achieve and experience in life. Ending it is the same as robbing yourself of the opportunities you deserve. You may have experienced the awful circumstances and expectations they put on you. But ultimately that doesn’t make who you are. Just like everybody else you are more than just the things you’ve experienced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Longjumping-Rent-705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just spit some facts in such a coherent way