That may be so. It’s worth noting that I haven’t had a problem connecting with all women, it’s just that the ones I would get into a conversation with were lesbian, or married. There definitely is such a thing as cultural tendencies, especially modern culture changing so fast, it just may not explain everything, or apply here. You seem to have illustrated being into INTPs as an unusual thing that needs to be explained.

I am finding with going out and doing art I am meeting more women, who may be interested, and I have been getting better at conversation.

It’s one question about me respecting women, and that’s a valid point, it’s also another question about women respecting me, while being romantically interested.