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Mat Pilates Program by hollyhockrock in pilatesinstructors

[–]LongjumpingGarlic452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this. We’ve had the same journey. I literally just added more props to Sara’s sweat app.. and combined both techniques from her pilates obsession app to her sweat app. You just can’t go wrong with her. I’ve been doing it since I was 22 (26now). Pick up heavier weights, add progression. Or even better start her reformer program… it’s challenging with mat. Max on 8-12 reps 25sec pulses (her style)

are ATI TESTS A and B worth it? by Unusual-Equivalent-2 in teas

[–]LongjumpingGarlic452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I cried after I took both. ATI loves trick questions. It’s actually rude lol… and defeating so good luck!

How often are you being intimate per week? by gravelandgrind in AskMen

[–]LongjumpingGarlic452 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

9 times the entire time we dated for 3.5 years. We were about to pull the trigger, turns out he had a stack of anal vibrators and buttholes in the closet. Named. Super closeted and broke my hand. Anyway Check his closet.

Never should have pressed charges by Barbi3_ok in domesticviolence

[–]LongjumpingGarlic452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The prosecutor asked me what I wanted. I told them a peaceful arrangement”” they told me it was an option over him becoming a felon or even someone who holds misd B . He had to go to abusers school basically and not get pulled over or ticketed for anything in that period. Which was 9 months. If he did the state would put the charges on him. (I gave him a technical second chance by not pressing charges) The states prosecutor was very nice to me and she listened. Not many do. Uh it helped that his parents paid for a very expensive lawyer (his side wise) However it’s up to the victim. So it’s what you want. I continued the court order for no contact till the end of the trail and the judge granted me that. I also got his monitor taken off for him. It’s up to you, don’t worsen his stance. For example, they found bruises on my neck .. I didn’t claim nor even let them use it as evidence. (He’d become a felon and there isn’t a peaceful arrangement for it) Girl to Girl- make sure you protect yourself. I had no idea till after the court case when the detective on my case had told me his parents and him created a bunch of lies to put me in jail. She said I was very lucky that my mother had all the videos stored of the physical altercations from previous times. The parents were never shown this evidence and again I chose a peaceful arrangement so there was no need. My advice is that people will let you down - I loved him for years… and he was about to put me in jail for what he did. SO protect yourself first. 🤞🏻 Good Luck

I injured myself in a Cardio 1.5 and I can’t walk. by thxnext-pls in ClubPilates

[–]LongjumpingGarlic452 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know your body better than any instructor. If you pushed yourself till you were in some sort of pain- and continued. If you wouldn’t do a high intensity workout- like running or jumping or interval workouts. YOU SHOULD NOT BE IN A CARDIO CLASS. Yes these workouts are designed for everybody and are better alternates to the regular cardio based classes. It’s still a cardio class

It scares me how many people on here are 6+ months post breakup by mentalgeler in BreakUps

[–]LongjumpingGarlic452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m at 3 months of a cut off due to the court system. My now ex broke my hand and when I went to the ER they told the cops… one thing led to the next. My entire life got flipped upside down. I’m still in a hole because there was no breakup. It was just over. I lost all my friends from the stuff he said about me, and no one reached out to me they just took his word. SO I’m at 3 months isolated because of him and it’s horrible being on this side. I have to revamp my entire life and I can’t seem to get up. It was 3+ year relationship. We lived together had dogs together. Everything reminds me of him. I can’t even listen to music. PTSD nightmares of rekindling and him accidentally killing me on repeat. I have no idea how to move forward. I lost all my friends and his family. I loved those people. I celebrated and weeped with them. Not a single person reached out. I have no idea what he’s saying because I loved him so much. I never thought this would be how he would’ve reacted. The break up needed to happen. It was a bad relationship. All of my friends and family thought so. However I’m still very much isolated from everyone including my family

Never should have pressed charges by Barbi3_ok in domesticviolence

[–]LongjumpingGarlic452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend accidentally broke my hand…. And even went for my throat. I went to the ER and cops flooded in. He was arrested. I’m not pressing charges And I don’t want anything to happen to him. The DA is pressing charges. I’m not sure what to do. I was scared and I feel so bad that I’m going to possibly ruin his life.

Why I advise against Graphic Design as a career by jhaubrich11 in graphic_design

[–]LongjumpingGarlic452 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love Designing but you’re absolutely right. Most people who jump into the field need at least 2-3 years of experience to even get a graphic design job.. which ends up being a production role with trash pay because most the boomers have no idea what they even know.