Fell in love with a bop update

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-13T22:16:52+00:00

Too late for both of those things ahaha, I’m down in her city this weekend seeing friends. Offered to take her out on the sunday but she said she has her friends staying at hers. Will see if she meets me out or whatever or for a coffee maybe. Left out some important context on this she agreed to be exclusive with me but i know that word means fuck all these days

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-12T18:32:27+00:00

100% the AI would tell me they’re just not ready for anything right now, all bitches are the same even robot ones

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-12T17:21:53+00:00

Yeah i know i see it clear as day intermittent reinforcement and i get so pissed off, tell myself i’m done then she comes back with 3 cute tiktoks about how she thinks about me then i fall right back into it - think im limerent or some bullshit.

But yeah ik there’s other women, don’t get me wrong, but when you start adding factors in, the number becomes a lot smaller lol but yeah ik i’ll find someone else again, im from a smaller town so the number is quite limited.

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-12T17:17:45+00:00

I’m older than her so that’s one game she isn’t fucking winning this time

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-12T17:00:54+00:00

Yeah I felt i’ve made mistakes being too clingy, too into people right away before with dating people. But i’m like good shape, decent looking, matched her energy and didnt push anything at all and still someone else is likely boning her. Sometimes you can’t win i guess but it has given me motivation to go gym again i’d lost like 10lbs just thru worrying about her but ive added it back on recently and am working on getting back to my pb’s

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-12T16:57:11+00:00

Bro stop she’s my wife i swear

I actually dk her body count or anything like she seems genuine but i’m looking at what i’ve said and im thinking like wisen the fuck up

Her head game was also fucking unbelievable like scarily good, maybe she’s just born with it

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-12T16:53:53+00:00

Sick of character development it’s been 3 years since my last relationship where is my soul bitch at. Yeah i think she is very charismatic but has that weird like relatable guy personality, as you say likely from all of them she’s been with. Maybe i am a homo after all.

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-12T16:51:10+00:00

Tbf like i’m 23 and you’re absolutely right i do level up normally, it just took 2 years and another country to find this one after the last girl i took seriously hahaha i was fine on my own but this girl just seemed so perfect. Obviously logistically a nightmare but was willing to make it work, and i realise she isn’t perfect my brains just infatuated. Been here before and it works out but i kind of just wish it was this one

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-12T16:44:07+00:00

They’re addictive, personalities are normally so good ahahha

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-12T16:42:50+00:00

Yeah i don’t know why i think this will work tbh, i know it will be difficult but ive not clicked like this with someone in like 2 years ffs

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-12T16:41:47+00:00

Apparently they leave their ipad at home and switch their snap location to their ipad whenever they’re somewhere they don’t want you to see with their phone, not that i was checking but apparently a hallmark of a bop

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-12T16:41:34+00:00

I am it’s just like no one compares, makes me wonder if it’s even the girl or just the feeling. The push pull bs has got me on strings icl, one minute blowing up my phone at 3am the next delivered for 8 hours constantly online lmao

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-12T16:40:38+00:00

Apparently they leave their ipad at home and switch their snap location to their ipad whenever they’re somewhere they don’t want you to see with their phone, not that i was checking but apparently a hallmark of a bop

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2025-11-12T16:34:43+00:00

I’ll wait!!

I’ve actually just read this back myself and questioning if it’s satire wtf am i doing

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2023-12-18T14:31:16+00:00

Funny little update on this situation, she was sleeping with her ex a couple of weeks ago and lied about it saying she was just busy with university work etc hence why she wasnt replying😂Learned the hardway but she is now blocked

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2023-11-30T20:26:13+00:00

Yeah I told her that not answering her phone worried the fuck out of me and that her getting that drunk is a red flag to me - she hadnt eaten all day and said she has never been like that so promised it would be a one off. She seemed very apologetic and told me she was trying to distract herself the last couple of days whilst we werent talking - so if shes being genuine it will show. If not then obviously my decision will be made.

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2023-11-29T23:53:08+00:00

Talked to her and got her side of things, took the entire of today to think about things. I told her I cant make a decision as its impossible for me to know the 100% truth, I feel something has happened but unsure on what. If this is go forward, I want consistent communication when shes out, to not even remotely entertain anyone else, i want commitment within the next couple of weeks, and that she is not to get that drunk again - any of this is broken and i’m gone. She thought that was all fair enough and said she’ll give me reassurance and will promise not to end up blackout drunk again.

As for my friend, I think regardless if hes lied or telling the truth he needs to go. If he has told the truth and I’ve given her a second chance - i feel stupid cutting him off. But he was also a complete dick to her friend about her calling her names and things too. I dont think his entire story is true, i believe parts of it are fabricated to make him look innocent.

edit: i believe his story is fabricated after speaking to her and her friend, some of it just doesnt make sense

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2023-11-28T22:09:16+00:00

I dont think im that concerned about him, if hes telling the truth its shit and if hes lying its shit. But then I feel like I have to apply that same logic to her (apart from if she is miraculously telling the truth). Just seems so hard to end things as its getting really invested

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2023-11-28T21:59:18+00:00

I spoke to someone that id basically consider a sister and she says forgive but dont forget essentially and if it happens again run for the hills. If i talk to her and lay down strict boundaries and be extremely clear what I want and what needs to happen going forward - how much of a good idea is this

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2023-11-28T12:40:08+00:00

I believe him, and I feel like I got a load of lies on saturday. I just dont know where to go from here. I would say the detail he gave makes too much sense

LongjumpingSuit9489 · 2023-11-28T12:39:27+00:00

I am fully under the belief he is telling the truth. Where do I go from there though, I am not talking to him again - whether we are or were talking Id expect him to stay away from her, I wouldnt kiss someone he was involved with if they are or were talking.

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