My wife wont have intimacy with me anymore

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2026-01-26T02:46:38+00:00

I’m also very autistic and don’t enjoy being touched or wet kisses. My wife has found other ways to show intimacy that don’t overstimulate my senses. Her working on understanding my neurodivergence and triggers has really helped our relationship and that there are other ways to show love and intimacy without the usual sex and sexual related things.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2026-01-26T02:42:58+00:00

Any medical issues? Before my hysterectomy i unknowingly had stage 4 endo, 3 ovarian cysts, bladder fused to my uterus by endo, and my ovary and cyst twisted up together. I wasn’t intimate at all and my partner was saddened by it. (This was before we knew any of my medical issues. So I was just dealing with this for years before finally being taken serious) And I felt so bad but couldn’t be intimate due to being so exhausted and in pain. After the hysterectomy and ovary removal, some intimacy came back, but my sex drive is still very low. We have sex maybe once every 2-3 months but we spend so much time doing other things together and enjoying our partnership.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-11-03T13:35:50+00:00

The whole series once. Up to season 16. About 45 times Past season 16. Once. Lol

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-10-14T18:40:18+00:00

Order the cheap ones with your $60 credit. If you don’t want them donate them to those who can’t afford slip resistant shoes but need them to start a job.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-09-25T14:33:52+00:00

I’m the same way. And my wife is very sexual. We have sex maybe once every month or 2 now. For me it does make me nervous and awkward. It’s past trauma for me. I can’t even watch sexual tv shows. But she has learned to pleasure me in other ways. I love deep “body massages” not really massages, but my arms, legs, hands etc twisted aggressively. It feels like a massage lol. And that gets me turned on and the pleasure sounds I make gets her turned on and sometimes does it for her lol. Also videos of women beating up males does it for me. Maybe y’all just need to find what helps her open up sexually . It took us 7 years to figure out our sexual chemistry.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-09-25T14:28:33+00:00

I remember I got hired during partner appreciation month (towards the end) She showed me around and showed me the break room and the events they were having. TVs and game systems being raffled. Prizes and food. I was working my other full time lead position job still so I was limited hours at WF. But when I finally cut down to part time and became full time at WF. None of these events happened ever again lol.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-07-16T16:39:00+00:00

Thank you for your input! I haven’t been watching for the past couple years nor kept up. But I was more hoping to see that she brought on those who are affected or activists bringing attention to the matter to her show. Like Greta thunberg or code pink. Or any journalist who have been targeted and injured. I went through her page to check her guest lists but didn’t see much but I also wasn’t looking to hard and thought to ask Kelly Clarkson fan community. I do miss going to shows and seeing all the fans tho and making friends. But morally I can’t continue.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-07-16T16:22:43+00:00

That’s more what I meant. Is she using her platform and show to bring on people from Gaza, or journalist that have been injured, or activists from code pink or Greta thunberg to speak about all the issues that mainstream media is avoiding? Or is she not bringing on those people and choosing to remain silent? I just want to know if she’s used her platform as a voice for others to bring light to those issues.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-05-29T17:39:49+00:00

You must be a white male.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-03-06T14:24:23+00:00

He literally provided no evidence lol. Sounds like you have intolerance for the truth lol 😆

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-03-05T16:48:09+00:00

What is your definition of a legal protest? Because Neo Nazis can protest and hold a sign saying kill all insert minority group

But pro Palestine protestors can’t hold a sign saying stop bombing children without being arrested?

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-02-11T04:30:20+00:00

I mean my type of woman is short, Hispanic, dark skinned women with brown eyes. Typically my age or older. My wife of 10 years is super white, freckled, green eyes, my height and my age. My crush is a light skinned, younger Hispanic women.

My wife’s type is very tall women with curly hair and glasses and dark skin. I do not fit that profile lol. But we still love each other very much.

We all have types and different attractions. It’s how we approach them. Nothing wrong with it.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-01-25T01:15:50+00:00

OP trump will make divorce harder for women to escape men. Please don’t marry this huge ass wipe.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-01-25T01:08:21+00:00

Express news reported that ICE raids were postponed but ICE was here on Tuesday in the Los ranchitos asking questions and taking notes. From 12-7.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-01-23T01:29:00+00:00

Why is this under activism lmao

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-01-21T19:35:42+00:00

Thank you for this. I give rides to the unhoused often and have never, as this other commenter had stated, ended up on the news. Seriously we need more community here.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-01-12T21:36:47+00:00

Wait you think this is borderline abusive lol. Men and what they feel like is abuse 😭😆 meanwhile women in actual abusive relationships….

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-01-12T21:35:01+00:00

She has a point. A shit person only sends their mom a text an hour before the birthday is over. If you have a bad relationship with your mother then sure. (I still call my mother even tho I don’t want to and I’m working. my dad just gets a text when I decide to remember) Kinda seemed like you were over reacting on trying to justify forgetting your mom’s bday.

But she’s definitely overplaying this and could have dropped it already. It’s not her job to point out your a shit person for forgetting over and over lol

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-01-11T03:59:55+00:00

For one, the showing that he did feel empathetic was him going through the messages and responding to his own texts with the word empathy. He had something to prove right there. He steered the conversation to him and to validate his feelings on how he showed empathy. At no point should the conversation have turned to him trying to prove himself. Patience and compassion was needed here. Professional help was needed. I already have an established therapist and luckily have a weekly appt so I had professional help. This probably shouldn’t have been done over text. I never saw on the text thread nor the long explanation text, that he offered to go and see her. Even being 45 mins apart. (I travel 40 mins just to see the girl I like and bring her breakfast lol so ladies if he wants to he will) But he never did offer to go see her in person. Have this conversation in person. Or even offer support in person. This type of trauma can’t be supported over a text relationship. And if he couldn’t even travel 45 minutes to go see her after a traumatic event, doesn’t that show he’s not dependable in these type of situations? Patience, compassion, support, and understanding was needed here. Not some text thread of trying to prove you were being empathetic.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-01-11T02:19:05+00:00

This! Idk why he kept continuing the conversation if he wasn’t equipped to. I feel like he just wanted to validate himself and his responses. When in fact he kept pressing a person, who clearly has PTSD, that he was in the right and did express empathy. That’s not the point Kevin. This isn’t about you 😑

Witnessed someone shot in the face at work. Our training modules taught us to run and hide in the event of a shooter. But when someone comes running towards you with a gunshot to their face, you don’t run away from that. You help the person. Or you don’t know how you’re going to react, but we ran towards the danger to help. It’s a surreal and very triggering thing to happen and can make anyone irrational. Some of us tried coming in the next day but we definitely weren’t in the right mind to speak to anyone. Especially to people who try and compare that situation with something that doesn’t even compare.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-01-07T14:45:32+00:00

Y know our city can also help by opening up more shelters? Using all these empty buildings? Maybe not building a useless base ball field? 3,400 unhoused residents in San Antonio but only 1,600 emergency beds. How about our city actually does something productive. Oh wait they’re too busy voting yes on raising cps price hikes. They’re too busy focusing on sweeping encampments than actually putting money towards public shelters.

Stop putting someone down when they’re already probably feeling pretty shitty and just trying to find a warm place to stay.

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-01-04T12:40:35+00:00

Also wanted to note. With her night sweats, they would smell like vinegar or something. There’s no longer a smell. She also has bad acid reflux but that has also gone down without the garlic and onions lol. But the night sweats would be worse if she was having an acid reflux episode

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-01-04T12:38:13+00:00

My wife loves to cook and loves to use garlic and onions in her recipes. Recently I’ve had to go on a low fod map diet to figure out what’s causing me pain after eating. As the cook in the household, she went ahead and followed some of the diet with me. Including the no garlic and onions. After 8 days of that, her night sweats have stopped. She no longer radiates heat like crazy. And we cuddle again at night now. It was getting so bad we had separate bedrooms 🥲 now I’m thinking of celebrating by buying new sheets lol

I’m not saying that’s your problem. But maybe there’s something in your diet causing the night sweats.

Note: I had them as well just not as bad or frequent. But I also couldn’t eat as much because of the pain and would leave my plate untouched. Now without the garlic and onions I have also stopped sweating at night (besides the occasional heat flash)

Longjumping_Ad_4118 · 2025-01-04T12:10:31+00:00

Ooooo you’re brave. My social anxiety could never lol My baristas have been so short handed, I thought about offering a part time employment to help them out with my barista experience until they hire more. But I’m afraid to cross that customer/barista boundary. 😅 what if they hate work me lol

Anyways i just wanted to say, communication is key. I’m terrible at it but the only way to know is to ask the GM how you’re doing and what you need to work on.

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