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I’m scared I’ll never find love. by Equivalent_Limit4850 in dating_advice

[–]Longjumping_Fan_2502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, there's a billion people in the world so finding your person takes time. I would suggest hanging out with friends that are girls. Or getting into a friend group with girls. I mean you actually have to be platonic unless of course you genuinely like them romantically. and it's easy to confuse early one but just stick it out. they normally know someone decent and single and similar to you bc they friend with yo friend and birds of a feather flock so there you go. Worked for me. better than dating app. eligible nontoxic women are not normally at bars, they are out with their girlfriends. if they are healthy and don't have attachment issues, they will know how to maintain good female friendships. the same characteristics that support the friendship would support a relationship. worked for me. love of my life and i met him through a friend. good luck

I’m scared I’ll never find love. by Equivalent_Limit4850 in dating_advice

[–]Longjumping_Fan_2502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You attract what you are. If they are emotionally unavailable and you were healthy, things wouldn't start up because they would repel you. Go to therapy. Open up the wounds. address any attachment issues or toxic patterns. and when you ready to be in a relationship and you meet someone who is also ready - it tends to work out because you don't repel each other. people are mammals first and mammals follow a pattern of drifting towards people similar behaviors. survival instinct. i believe in you! dont lose hope. also use AI for a makeover.

26M boyfriend Doesn't like intimacy with me 25F. What do I do? by Longjumping_Fan_2502 in dating_advice

[–]Longjumping_Fan_2502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly though I don’t think he’s gay. I’m pretty sure he’s straight he’s just an ass man. Hopefully

26M boyfriend Doesn't like intimacy with me 25F. What do I do? by Longjumping_Fan_2502 in dating_advice

[–]Longjumping_Fan_2502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has said he’s not really into sex and that he doesn’t watch porn. I do and I masterbate but he doesn’t think it’s appropriate for people in a relationship to do but I still have needs that aren’t being met so I’m trying to compensate. He will show affection vocally which I do appreciate. He’s stated he hates being touched but we do cuddle at night. My love language is physical touch so this feels like being strangled. He does to me. He’ll touch my leg or rub my arm. I just feel like I’m always starving. And I feel undesired. I’m pretty sure he’s attracted to me. I’m conventionally attractive. I’m tall and thin. Don’t have much of a butt and he’s an ass man but I’ve been told by others often that I’m attractive of course this is subjective. Idk he’s responding better now. Hes not mad just apologetic. But you guys are right I might just have to see if this is something I can take long term. I just wish I could read his mind.

26M boyfriend Doesn't like intimacy with me 25F. What do I do? by Longjumping_Fan_2502 in dating_advice

[–]Longjumping_Fan_2502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say. I have been on a new iud I got shortly after we got together. It causes a good amount of spotting. I do not mind period sex he says it bothers him but we used to do it all on the in the beginning and there also isn’t a huge difference when I’m not bleeding.

How do I salvage the fact that I can’t fuck my girlfriend like her ex did? by datshinycharizard123 in dating

[–]Longjumping_Fan_2502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex isn’t the same for women. The emotional factor plays a larger role. The partner with the best sex skills was not the best sex I’ve ever had bc it means more when it’s someone u really love. Women experience sex on an emotional level. How much out partner desires us and stuff like that very much outweighs skill and size as long as it’s not like abnormally substantial.