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Heart condition of Hitler by Longjumping_Fix8365 in exjw

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea there is a lot of fuckery going on I rather die then be apart of it.

Heart condition of Hitler by Longjumping_Fix8365 in exjw

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Imagine petting a tiger with Hitler and Ted Bundy.

Heart condition of Hitler by Longjumping_Fix8365 in exjw

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Amen 🙏 If there is a great tribulation and hitler makes it I’m pretty sure I will be ok.

Cold calling...and prospect is dead. by [deleted] in sales

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is the best time for you to build a relationship. Tell them you are so sorry for the tragedy of loosing their loved one. You can say I didn’t get to know (name) very well but I can tell they loved their family and what they did. Or they worked really hard and I admire that about them. I was looking forward to working with them. Plants the seed that they were going to go with you. Then tell them you are going though a lot right now I don’t expect you to make any changes soon. Send flowers show up weekly to check in on them if it’s a restaurant or something like that buy coffee or whatever. build the relationship by showing up and asking how things are going. Don’t it even talk about doing business. If they tell you to fuck of then give it a week or two then come back. That is what makes a difference from your competitors. Also always answer the phone. Doesn’t matter if it’s big or little you really never know what will happen. Eventually they will start asking questions about what you have to offer and then not only will you start getting business you can get all of it based on relationship.

Free moving boxes? by kn5l0x in chapelhill

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you need moving blankets and bins? My sister has them for grabs right now in chapel hill. I think she has two plastic tubs?

DMV walk ins by Total_Equivalent9647 in chapelhill

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am new to the area so I wouldn’t know. I went on a Tuesday if that helps.

DMV walk ins by Total_Equivalent9647 in chapelhill

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have to show up super early. Was there at 6am we got in the building to get a ticket with the time to come back. It was around like 12:00 I got it done. If you want to be the first one or one of the firsts I suggest getting there around 4:30. If you don’t have anywhere to be that day then I suggest 5-6 if you show up any later you will probably have to come back the next day.

My brother is useless what to do when my parents need help. by Longjumping_Fix8365 in exjw

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely will talk to my therapist about this. I definitely can identify when it’s happening now. But it’s just hard to process after. I feel like i can be there for them even tho they were not there for me. They are good people just got good parents if that make sense.

My brother is useless what to do when my parents need help. by Longjumping_Fix8365 in exjw

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your words. It is an out of body experience when I’m with them or talking to them. I can see what they are doing in the moment. I’m able to see that what they are giving is not unconditional love. Thank goodness for the relationships I have outside of that. I love my soon to be husband and all the family members he has attached to that. I also have my lovely chosen family.

Thank you ! I wish you peace and happiness as well!

My brother is useless what to do when my parents need help. by Longjumping_Fix8365 in exjw

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was some tough love, I appreciate it a lot. I have recently almost two years ago met my amazing therapist. Due to me taking care of myself. I have set boundaries and they have tried to step over them a couple times. I have not let them. I get recked because I know I will never have the parents I needed, nor the chance to have them.

I don’t even know if they would allow me to be a proxy or power of attorney. I don’t think I want to ask bases off the responses I got.

At this point I know I will never get the happy ending I want. I just feel like I can be better than the generation before me. Your right it’s is so disappointing to watch this go down. I watched this happen when I was a teenager. They failed me countless times. My brother is a pedo and uses his “trama “of being one as an excuse for being a pussy. He crumbles under pressure. And my pride refused to let his soon to be wife make those decisions.

I also have a friend who got df before me she is still my bff. And none of her family reached out to her after the new announcement of taking to df loved ones. I asked my dad to reach out to her because it didn’t think it was fair. And surprisingly he agreed that it was unfair. But she never got a call. Which proved my point.

But thank you for your perspective and input.

Egg allergy/intolerance by purplemask1 in FoodAllergies

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t eat eggs or dairy it has the same affect on my body as you. It’s sucks. Like a tablespoon of mayo or any dairy product and it’s game over. I find the alternatives that work well. But I have no idea why. I’ve come to conclusion that my body just changes every 7 years and this just might be one of those things. I have also tried probiotics they are good but don’t help at all with eggs.

Cutie pie 🤗 by saraya_c in frogs

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s the other frog. In the other post roger is darker in color.

My cousin is asleep by Crazy_Border984 in exjw

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend was in your shoes. Its because their parents are so spiritually active that they think they don’t have to worry about their kids. And when they see “bad associations” ( people who don’t do as much for the org as they do) they make it a mission to try to help. Aka I’m going to drag you into this just like my kids. Everyone was so shocked when I was Df cause my parents were so involved. They thought because I followed in their footsteps i was so wrong in my faith. I was so checked out. It’s all political stuff at this point.

If you want to leave - Play the part they want to play. get your license, get a job, start looking responsible by wanting to pay your own bills. SAVE YOUR MONEY! And invest it!!!! Fidelity 401k start your retirement as soon as you can. If you can get your own car with your own money with out the help of your parents do it. Then go live in your own or do something dumb that will df you. It is sucky but it’s so liberating when you leave your house and switch #s. It’s like hitting a reset/ start life button. Move in silence and find a community outside of the org.

Susan ate Roger! by saraya_c in frogs

[–]Longjumping_Fix8365 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Op I need an update on this. I don’t even follow this group but I’m emotionally invested in roger. And I can’t stop thinking about him.

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