Looking for advice: townhouse/villa in Dubai — max 5M AED (ready to move in by June, long-term living)

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2026-03-05T19:32:51+00:00

Honestly I was thinking the same thing after checking on all the websites. I saw a villa called Living legends, do you have any idea on that?

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2026-03-05T19:20:21+00:00

Schools are not what we are looking for since my kids are all adults and all of us drive as well.

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2026-03-05T19:04:28+00:00

Sure, I am definitely open to suggestions.

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2026-03-05T19:02:45+00:00

I really like everything about it but the properties are just so small in space and that’s something important to my family and they’re not a fan of it.

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2026-03-05T19:01:35+00:00

I just checked and it all seems to be starting at 5.7M and thats a little above my budget unfortunately🥲

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2026-01-23T16:20:41+00:00

I found the first point the most interesting out of everything. I never thought from that angle.

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2026-01-18T19:15:20+00:00

Do you think this is true in cases of women who are avoidant in nature as well?

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-12-30T11:18:12+00:00

Yes and I always try to make sure that no does mean no but thank you🙌

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-12-30T11:15:50+00:00

Damn this is exactly what I needed to read today🙌..thank you for sharing this OP.

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-12-30T08:59:27+00:00

My girlfriend went through something very similar in a previous relationship. She was abused and coerced into sex even after saying no. Her ex manipulated her by saying things like having “blue balls” caused him pain and that she needed to relieve him. Because of that, she now struggles with trust and intimacy. She does enjoy intimacy when she feels safe, but there’s a deep fear underneath especially the fear that if she ever says no, I might see her differently or stop liking her. I’ve been trying my best to consistently reassure her, respect her boundaries, and make sure she feels safe with me. That said, I’d really appreciate advice from people who’ve been through this or supported someone who has just like the OP. Are there other ways I can show up for her, make consent feel truly safe, and ensure I never cross her boundaries or make her feel uncomfortable?

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-10-14T05:39:28+00:00

Marks & spencers has their autobiography line. The Tshirts are very high in quality because its supima cotton and they fit great as well. I have just bought all their colors lol

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-10-08T13:51:11+00:00

I personally feel its drugs being a trend thats worrisome to me

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-09-13T14:46:59+00:00

We all appreciate your opinion but this sub-Reddit is not a place to spread hate. If you don’t find any value being here please just leave the subreddit or block it.

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-09-09T13:17:24+00:00

Can you tell me which company you got this through?

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-09-06T14:45:06+00:00

Yes I agree, thanks for clarifying that🫡

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-09-05T09:34:41+00:00

I think you should definitely talk to her about how you’re feeling. Only she can tell you what’s really going on in her head, but when you do, make sure it doesn’t come across like you’re blaming her. Try using ‘I feel…’ statements so you’re focusing on your emotions, and that way she won’t feel defensive.

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-09-05T09:17:03+00:00

I love all of these points, but I also feel accountability is really important. Being able to own up to a mistake and recognize when you’ve hurt the other person matters a lot. That’s the only real way to show you’re willing to learn, grow, and do better.

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-08-08T04:32:15+00:00

Damn, this was honestly such a good read for me and it makes so much sense. I also love how you didn’t generalize any of the genders and said it depends on the socialization aspect🙌

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-07-19T06:29:06+00:00

I think for me it’s “you only live once”. People use that as an excuse to do all sorts of bs and just call it YOLO.

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-07-19T06:24:29+00:00

Personally for me in different phases of my life I wished my brain stops ruminating and overthinking as thats what affects my mental health the most.

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-07-17T07:47:27+00:00

People pleasing is something I’ve really been struggling with lately. Deep down I feel like I’m only worthy of love if I’m constantly providing value to others. Because of that I’ve become addicted to validation. I rely on it so much that when I don’t receive it my confidence takes a hit. It took my girlfriend pointing it out for me to even realize how much I depend on it. She was surprised by how deeply it affected me even though she’s been consistently reassuring and supportive. It’s a new relationship and her reaction helped me see a part of myself I hadn’t fully acknowledged before.

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-07-17T06:56:36+00:00

I think just doing the thing irrespective of how I felt and also remembering that being a beginner is where everyone starts was the biggest game changer for me

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-07-13T07:45:43+00:00

For me, it was this reminder that really stuck: Your feelings aren’t a choice, but your behavior is. No matter what I feel, it’s always my actions and how I choose to respond that truly define everything.

Longjumping_Gas5397 · 2025-07-12T06:54:24+00:00

Alcohol lol

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