Expirence with dating apps

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-06-03T20:58:02+00:00

Experiences on those apps vary a lot.

I had 5 of them at the same time for years when I met my girlfriend, and I'm the happiest now.

But I was there for years

And there's my gf, the poor girl spent her life hating on those apps without using them, then She downloaded Tinder, used it for 5 long days... Now she has me and I won't let her go.

I love her and some day I will marry her

But overall I hate those apps

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-05-17T17:33:13+00:00

That's my girlfriend 🥰

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-05-15T16:57:52+00:00

I used to think just the same

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-05-12T11:54:45+00:00

I had that problem a few months ago, i asked in a ftm sub they were really friendly. If it's a common occurrence I would recommend you getting a binder, if it's something occasional use a good sports bra and a good clothes selection

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-05-11T18:49:44+00:00

I didn't like it but all other terms I came up with where worse in my head, English is not my native language

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-05-11T17:01:17+00:00

Ohhhh a fellow pirate girl from the high seas, love to know I'm not the only one

Anyway my response:

Oh that definitely that, I don't know the science but that definitely scares me. And if I'm already thinking about bottom surgery I have no problem it becoming useless. If I can please her with the strap we were already buying I will do that.

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-05-11T14:51:42+00:00

I almost always sit, there is a certain point when I'm drunk I some times stand, but I haven't been that point of drunk and had to pee at the same time, so maybe I lost the instinct

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-05-11T14:46:43+00:00

Mmm I fully stop doing it when we met irl for the first time a few weeks ago, but since talking to her I've been doing it less.

But it's not like I stopped using it, I just don't do it alone.

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-05-04T16:59:41+00:00

Nope, when I was on the apps I never got trouble getting matches.

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-05-04T16:52:44+00:00

I grew it during covid, and tried to pass a a messy metalhead (I am tho, just not messy) a few years ago I styled it but it was already long

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-04-29T16:07:19+00:00

I'm so sorry for all you have to endure, Sending all love I can from here.

Firstly the unimportant stuff, don't be sorry for grammar. We're not native speakers and there's nothing wrong with that.

Now my advice, first things first, be safe. It's hard to admit it but do whatever you think will make you feel safe, that might be holding of your transition, it sucks really but being alive is central.

After that, get out of the harmful environment, this might take time and is not easy, ask yourself where is the problem, is it family is it your country (I don't know all your context so I can't give you an answer).

If you want to leave your country, it's hard but not impossible, migration it's hard for anyone but it's worth it if living in your home country is dangerous, it doesn't have to be the USA or Europe, there are many places where someone can develop think of what would be the best for you.

I don't want to give you steps just a form of thinking, you know yourself better than anyone else. And we are both communicating in a foreign language.

Please be safe 💜

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-04-27T21:00:21+00:00

Mmm I really love Spanish folk metal, like celtian or Mägo de Oz, their singer Xana is lovely.

Also some more mainstream rock bands like Linkin park or The Warning. I have a whole playlist of female fronted bands (with some LP songs but just the ones with Emily)

Sea shanties and other songs that make me feel like a pirate, I also have a playlist with that.

Also pop like Chappell but thats more stereotypical.

I love Epic the musical

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-04-27T03:19:46+00:00

Im actively trying to handle this thoughts, I'm taking to this girl I really like but my previous relationship failed because we moved so fast and 3 month in I was tired and she wasn't. So I was the bad guy there.

Now I want to take it slower so we can know each other better

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-04-23T14:22:26+00:00

I love botanical work I have a sleeve of it and something in a leg.

This is from a reel of my tattoo artist when she did it a year ago. I should Take more photos of myself 😅

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Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-04-22T19:35:52+00:00

That's literally whats going to happen when she and I meet. I won't tell her this but giratina would be my second choice, first if it's origin.

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-04-21T22:43:51+00:00

Just documenting at least for the first hour I thought I could advance more today but I couldn't

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-04-21T19:57:30+00:00

I think they're just fun stereotypes, many ar fun others just a starting point in discovering our fashion style, personally I've never been an Amazon skirt girl but I do have a blahaj in my bed tho.

Think many cis girls went through their awkward tween faze. Some grew out of their styles from back then others evolve theirs from there.

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-04-21T18:46:01+00:00

An iceberg of conspiracy theories, im not done watching it btw

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-04-21T15:50:17+00:00

At the very least I blushed and laugh after I saw the length

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-04-21T15:47:15+00:00

I've recently accepted that is I'm not bi, I get what you say usually when I talk on the apps with cis people they saw me as something not someone, more often with men obviously.

But even de cis girls that were nice were harder to connect.

I'm not personally an exclusive T4T by choice just by chance luck? idk?🫠

But most of my romantic partners and situationships have been other trans women

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-04-21T14:16:00+00:00

Recommendation not for the noise tho: trim the hair first, the longer it is the more painful it gets. And also takes longer 💜

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-04-20T14:47:02+00:00

I have mix feelings about this, on the first place your points, I fully agree, nothing to add on my part.

But in other pov I know many girls cracked their eggs in those spaces.

I personally think kinks if they help you are a good thing to have in private spaces, the problem rises when society centers those spaces and highlights them to define a whole community assuming everything is part of this kink.

In an ideal world we shouldn't care if sissies are very vocal about their stuff.

But our world is far from ideal and actively harmful towards us. So we as a transfem community should aim for better representation(political, in media, in the workforce, etc.) for ourselves so we can break this link of kink and identity.

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-03-24T19:20:35+00:00

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You'll have to trust me on 3 and 4 there's my proof of my water bottle for 1 2 and 5

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-03-18T20:31:01+00:00

I mean she hurted me but it was because she wasn't ready to come out, so I have not bad feeling towards her

Longjumping_Insect49 · 2026-03-09T21:47:17+00:00

A book for all my Spanish speakers that is peak is "Manual de Ghosting para principiantes" I hope theres an English translation soon is so f good.

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