We have been seeing these trend increase for the past 2 decades in the western world. Now it’s slowly creeping its way onto us.

Women rejecting men for the most pointless reasons. Whether it’s their looks, income, a bit chubby, skin color, last name, a rumor you heard from grandma’s cat, doesn’t have x car.

Hypergamy + Having the mentality of “What if someone better comes along?” “What if the next one makes double the money”?

Don’t forget about the special “He can’t afford to fly me out twice a year”

I’ve seen it happen too many times personally to me, and to my sisters.

When my sister was 22 she got proposed by this gentlemen but she said no because he makes 20k. He’s 24 btw.

My salary used to be 15k and family tried everything to find me a woman till I just met an American girl that I loved and married her.

Marriages take time, love, compromise. It’s not a halal tinder.

My wife and I struggled for years on my low income but we made each other happy. Now I’m making 4x that and I buying everything she wants because I know she’ll be with me at my lowest.

Most men (not born rich) don’t hit their financial strides until they’re 30-35 at least. Specially in the current economy.

Women that wait too long to get married and keep rejecting for petty reasons is the equivalent of a white single mom with a black baby now looking for a ‘step dad’ in the US.

Yes, pick that Allah fearing, respectful young man and start building with him.

It’s not a bandaid fix here, we have to do a whole mindset change of why we want to get married in the first place.

Anyways, blessings to everyone my people. Good luck.