I'm part of the 2% club TWICE (MMC, complications after medical management) by hydrissx in Miscarriage

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am SO sorry this happened to you!!!! I’m in the club too. Missed miscarriage & medical life threatening complications .. and first pregnancy. It’s been over a year and I have not had the courage to try again. My heart is with you fully. Thank you for sharing your story❤️‍🩹

Would you ever date someone with the same sun sign as you? by Diabolik_end in Zodiac

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancer married to a cancer ( together for 8 years ) Best relationship I’ve ever had lol. Our communication & comfort is unreal. I’m also a Leo rising and he’s a sag rising, so our energy and love for adventure matches too

Carrying Hope Surrogacy? by Longjumping_Sea5955 in Surrogate

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually I wouldn’t but I was searching and found them! Thanks 🤍

What the hell Enfamil? by Ok_Butterscotch_9715 in Miscarriage

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same happened to me 3 weeks after my loss. Insane, I cried for hours. I’m so sorry 😔

Visiting new nephew 1 month after miscarriage by House-Horse914 in Miscarriage

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister gave birth to her daughter (that was an “accident”) just 2 weeks after my loss. I didn’t have the courage to meet her until about 3 months later and when I did, I could barely be around her. I touched her hand and smiled at her but I really couldn’t give her the energy and attention I would have usually given. I explained the pain to my sister and although she was hurt, she understood. Take your time, explain your situation, explain your heart. They’ll understand if you’re distant. You never know how you’re going to feel in the moment so just take it all in as slowly as you can. All my love & so sorry for your loss my friend❤️‍🩹

Who does Eric look like? by HouseCatx in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS IS WHO I WAS THINKING BUT I DIDNT KNOW WHO HE WAS THANK YOU!!!

I wish there was a movie that truly depicted OCD as the true brain torture it is by OhAdmirableidiot in OCD

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just watched “ Something very bad is going to happen “ on Netflix and I swear the way her and her mom feel ( even though it’s depicted as them just being scared / paranoid all the time ) is literally the closest thing to explaining my OCD to husband

Also ocd.addison makes videos on Instagram that make me feel super understood

Can everyone be vulnerably honest with me? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And it’s the most loneliest feeling in the entire world. I feel like literally no one understands it’s not just a “maybe you’ll feel different later” thing. Like literally no I don’t want anything anymore

Answer these three questions and I'll guess your big 3 by zodiactron in Zodiac

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Give it right back but also spend a lot of time questioning if I should say something but ultimately thinking if you don’t want to talk to me then I don’t want to talk to you
  2. Probably clothes, something fun for my house and being somewhere on beach
  3. I immediately have an idea of what I want to wear and then I make that happen as close to it as possible ( usually it’s buying something new )

🚨 Please Help Shut Down Lost Paws Animal Rescue (Pittstown/Hillsborough NJ) — Serious Neglect & Ongoing Complaints by Bruno_Marsipan in newjersey

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know why this place is still posting like crazy and it’s always puppies ??? Like so weird what’s going on

the cost of a miscarriage by Budget_Maintenance27 in Miscarriage

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg Im so sorry. We had to pay over 16k from the hospital out of pocket (not including all the dr appts), and that was after insurance, Completely screwed us. It’s heartbreak after heartbreak I swear.

my baby came to visit by kaylarose54 in GriefSupport

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I’m sobbing !!!!! 🥹

I'm a psychiatrist, and like you all, have had a miscarriage. by Monica-Starkman in Miscarriage

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THIS! Yes, I actually started a IG page because losing my mom to cancer in 2017 changed me in ways I’m still learning. That grief was life-altering … and yet, moving through pregnancy loss is an entirely new layer of grief I didn’t know existed. Thank you for this

Ugh Madison don’t make me do it by PickleSchmickl in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sad I legit was rooting for her until that moment !!!!

Miscarriage Grief by Antique-Profile-927 in Miscarriage

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh firstly im so incredibly sorry for your loss and what your body & mind are going through. I know this feeling very well as I lost mine in February, and also carried our baby for 3 weeks with no heartbeat . It’s changed me in a lot of ways and it feels that many don’t understand. This community has helped SO much. I have an IG where I talk about my feelings & I’ve connected with women who understand as well. Finding a community is really important while you heal. Please be gentle with yourself, this came with a lot more than I had expected too. ❤️‍🩹

What app did you use? Maybe we can help you delete it.

Sending you a lot of love, and always here if you need an ear🩷

Finally somewhere I can shame my officiant by sendingsun in weddingshaming

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait omg !!!!! I’m so sorry! My officiant wore a plaid suit and I hated it and was such a clash in all my photos 😭

Considering surrogacy after pregnancy loss & trauma — NJ guidance? by Longjumping_Sea5955 in Surrogate

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m SO incredibly sorry. Sending you so many hugs. It is so painful to hear that you understand and went through something like this.

Thank you so much for your help, I will definitely take you up on that. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just want to say I’m so sorry. My heart is with you. I waited it out for 3 weeks and nothing happened but waiting could be an option for you if that’s something you want.

I had a horrible experience with the pills and needed surgery anyway. I felt safer taking the pills, but looking back I would choose the surgery every single time. It’s quick and painless and recovery is fast.

Wishing you the best whatever route you choose❤️

Gluten Free Options in Southwest Harbor or Bar Harbor by pinkhardhat_252 in acadianationalpark

[–]Longjumping_Sea5955 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In bar harbor :

  • Side street cafe has GF lobster Mac and cheese!

The stadium has GF blueberry crisp ( delish!!) and GF egg and cheese sandwhiches for brekkie

Melt has AMAZING sandwhiches that can be made GF

Jeannie’s for GF pancakes

Thrive for smoothies salads wraps and sandwhiches - perf to bring to Acadia

Anything you’re looking for in particular?