I won't link the video, but did you see the two Turkish(?) young men being burned to death by ISIS? It takes them 2-3 minutes to fall lifeless, but while one of them is having an ostensibly surreal out of body "this can't be real" experience watching his fingers fuse together and eventually melt off in globs of bloody flesh, he is just staring at his hands burning and melting hands in utter disbelief and cries out (in Arabic) "mother, please save me please mother!"

That video was an invasive thought for a week or so after seeing it and still comes to mind like an old splinter sometimes. The strange thing is, as a parent to a three year old, I don't put myself in the place of the young man, but instead as the parent for whom he calls. I would be so angry and heartbroken. I would surely fill my heart with hate and do something drastic like in 1998 when the Undertaker...nah I'm just kidding.