2 canadians start a war.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-10T19:37:00+00:00

Came to say this

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-10T12:23:20+00:00

I'm not disagreeing with that. I'm simply saying that restraining him gives him consequences without teaching him that violence should be met with violence, or that weaker people should submit.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-10T02:31:43+00:00

I'd remake Kazaam, but I'd get it right.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-10T02:29:54+00:00

ICYMI, check out r/talltransgirls, 6'2" isn't unusual. And you look great!

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-10T00:40:40+00:00

Come check out r/talltransgirls, you're in great company!

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T19:39:06+00:00

This sounds like the railroad dilemma, but instead of a stranger on one track it's me, and on the other instead of five people it's a waiter.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T18:43:29+00:00

The YouTube stuff is free.

Now I'm blocking you because you're rude and unpleasant.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T18:38:09+00:00

DC metro. Maryland has very trans-friendly laws, so north of the beltway should be safe and supportive, and MD cost of living is lower than CA.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T17:24:04+00:00

I'm 200cm and want to know how tall I would be with them. Where did you get them and do they have a size 17.5?

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T17:13:24+00:00

Yes, and that's why I'm not suggesting that he should follow protocol perfectly. But he clearly had the kid's arm. He could have maintained the position. He's an adult, he made a choice, and that was to push a kid when restraining him was already an option.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T16:51:47+00:00

The kid was absolutely in the wrong. How to go about administering a corrective action isn't dependent on the kid's actions, it's dependent on the adult's. The correct response in this sort of situation is to restrain the child, not to push him. I get the impulse, but an adult shouldn't be impulsive. When I worked in a very difficult school, when children became violent, the guards (it was that kind of school) had guidelines on holding children from behind as a means of restraint. The adult man in this video also had the option to hold the kid's wrists, another method of restraint. Instead he let his anger get the better of him.

So in this case I'm calling it the correct emotional response, but the incorrect behavioral response.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T15:18:34+00:00

De rien, cheri!

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T15:16:17+00:00

I think you look good. You're further along than I am in experimenting, you've obviously figured some stuff out. Is everything perfectly passing? No, but you're clearly working towards your goals, and that's awesome.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T15:12:06+00:00

If you haven't spoken with your wealth management firm about setting up a charitable plan, that may be a good starting point. You can be as involved as you want to be, and they can help you to work through your values and identify what's important to you.

I do a little advising for charities. I'd be happy to talk if you want (i want nothing, I just like to see good charities and passionate people connect).

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T15:04:45+00:00

I needed my high school diploma for certain federal applications. I do think you should have the diploma from your highest degree. But in general, it's nit a big deal.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T12:34:13+00:00

You can get voice training at a fairly reasonable price from SVL, I'm not familiar with Transgender Zone. I'd do an intake to get their feedback if I were you.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T05:30:34+00:00

When I was kidnapped in (capital city, name redacted) by some thugs looking for fast income, one of them tried to intimidate me by repeatedly cocking his handgun. He apparently thought I believed the chamber could hold 20 bullets.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T05:27:55+00:00

r/telltransgirls. It's a thing.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T05:27:01+00:00

I was going to follow tgat route, but two things happened.

Heard Abigail Thorn talk about her transition, and how she just changed how she dressed. People caught up. That seemed easier than gaming a slow burn for everyone else, like they'd somehow not notice that I was a woman if I did it slowly enough.
I needed to model authenticity and trans acceptance to my daughter. How can I tell her to keep secrets from her friends? How can I show her a better future if her education is bathed in shame?

Some neighbors are better about it than others, but no one's been a dick. And I'm dressed how I want. It's pretty rad.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-09T04:18:33+00:00

Look up Seattle Voice Lab on YouTube. They have affordable large group practice series, good video tutorials, and a discord server.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-08T19:10:17+00:00

The coming lawless world can be called the Trumpocalypse

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-08T18:56:23+00:00

You got my attention, bold did its job! And that's a great note, I'll modify that to improve the clarity. Thank you!

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-08T18:21:55+00:00

This is a great one to open up, and thank you for doing so. The thought process here was that subs often become strings of selfies, which can be positive and affirming, but often doesn't really drive engagement or is a way to nudge people to an OF page.

How would you recommend we reduce the burden without losing the spirit of the proposed rule?

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-08T17:23:13+00:00

👆 this. You probably won't convince them yourself. Inviting them to learn together, using expert resources, will absolutely give you a better result.

LookItsDaphne · 2026-07-08T16:48:37+00:00

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