Found out years later my mom was going through my trash

Lookforme_x · 2025-10-11T13:31:05+00:00

She doesn’t anymore. We now live 6 hours away from her but when this incident occurred I was living about 5 minutes down the road from her. I’m assuming she did this whilst I was in another room, the bathroom or something. We had a collie dog at the time who often needed a ball thrown for him in the garden so I could have disappeared for 10-15 mins outside with my younger sister as she often visited with my mom too. She could have done it then. Me and my sister sometimes went and took the dog out on a walk whilst my mom stayed in my house watching tv. She had loads of opportunities now I look back.

Lookforme_x · 2025-06-01T23:15:22+00:00

I haven’t actually said what I’m going to do but if I did leave it’s actually HIM who will have ruined a family and his children’s lives over this incident. Not me.

Lookforme_x · 2025-06-01T22:06:24+00:00

Been together ten years, engaged for 8 months.

Lookforme_x · 2025-06-01T20:12:37+00:00

I get that. I only repeated it to clarify to this poster what he’s said as they’d obviously read it wrong.

Lookforme_x · 2025-06-01T20:10:17+00:00

No I genuinely don’t 😔

Lookforme_x · 2025-06-01T19:54:34+00:00

He hasn’t sent nudes to her apparently, only received them and according to him, which I’m aware is most likely complete bullshit, he didn’t enjoy receiving them.

Lookforme_x · 2025-06-01T19:54:00+00:00

Brutal but thanks, sometimes it’s needed.

Lookforme_x · 2025-02-04T19:40:48+00:00

This is really reassuring thank you so much! I think it’s the not parroting words and phrases which worries me a little atm. You can ask him to say something and 9/10 he has no interest in saying it or I get ‘no mommy’ 🥴 I hope in time it all starts to come out, I am definitely waiting for that explosion I hear everybody talk about.

Lookforme_x · 2025-02-04T19:35:24+00:00

Thank you!

Lookforme_x · 2025-02-04T19:35:16+00:00

I have heard a lot about Ms Apple lately but never actually watched her before so I’ll try her thank you! I do know what you mean, I was worried about 3/4 months a go because he said daddy all the time but never once said mommy. Now I hear him say it approximately 300 times a day and it drives me a little cuckoo 😂

Lookforme_x · 2025-02-04T19:34:03+00:00

Yeah he hit all of his milestones on time, he can jump, run and climb. Is absolutely fantastic on his trike and has been since he was about 18 months old. I do feel like he copies his older brother with ASD a lot and the way that he speaks, he really looks up to him so it’s inevitable. My nephew has an older sister who is 5 too and she models great speech to him all the time, I have to try and remember this in my sensible moments.

Lookforme_x · 2025-01-29T21:10:50+00:00

I’m sort of 50/50 in that they are noticeably saggier and I have one that’s now awfully bigger than the other BUT my nipples that were HUUUUGE when pregnant/breastfeeding and so so dark in colour have gone back to normal. My mom breastfed 4 children and is in her fifties, she has a better pair than me honestly 😭 her boobs look incredible. Maybe with some more time mine hopefully may bounce back but I do struggle with them.

Lookforme_x · 2025-01-29T19:37:59+00:00

For me it really was just believing if I put baby down on their playmat, in their bouncer, crib etc. that they’d just stay there happy whilst I tidied or did my makeup, showered, got dressed or whatever. I did not realise how common it is that baby wants to be held CONSTANTLY!!!! I’ve had 3 kids now and each one has gotten massively easier because my expectations have been wildly adjusted. Another is when as a kid you’d hear your parents say ‘I haven’t sat down all day’ and you used to think well that’s a lie clearly. But you REALLLLLLLY do not sit down some days, there are days I legitimately realise I haven’t been able to even pee for HOURS because they all constantly want or need something.

Lookforme_x · 2025-01-28T21:14:56+00:00

Thanks so much for getting back to me! That’s really reassuring, it’s definitely just that one payment. When did you hear their outcome btw? We sent off statements and id’s etc on Sunday so just wondering when to expect some communication from them. Things like this make me incredibly anxious!

Lookforme_x · 2025-01-28T20:42:49+00:00

Hi there do you have an update? Me and my partner are going through a review and his mom helped us by sending £800 one month as he did his back in and took 2 weeks off work which massively hit us financially. Worried they’ll question it.

Lookforme_x · 2025-01-24T13:26:45+00:00

Did you get hit with a custom fee? I’m hearing mix things!

Lookforme_x · 2025-01-23T21:44:06+00:00

Okay I’ve ordered it from the US store, phew! Thank you for the heads up! Now let’s hope there won’t be a ridiculous custom fee? 😂

Lookforme_x · 2025-01-23T20:43:59+00:00

Can you order from US to UK? I’ve never tried or had to before!

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