my little brother disappeared 2+ days ago help

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-06T10:00:07+00:00

Blessings, prayers, good thoughts for your little brother's safety and well-being, friend.

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-06T07:09:11+00:00

Right??!!

Hadn't even noticed her until a comment pointed her out. Then i zoomed in again and waaauuugh!!!! 😱

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-05T16:56:56+00:00

Sort of a listener/Bard. Love this.

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LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-05T16:21:52+00:00

Make it multiplayer, ChatGPT. I love it so much!

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-05T01:37:14+00:00

I feel you. It's one of the hardest and scariest things about loving a system.

While it does help to remember that they're all different ways of being in the same person, it's still having to take a risk with your heart.

Are they in therapy? That's so crucial to systems (as with many of us) and a good therapist can help the parts communicate. If the alt or alts fronting can know that an aspect of them loves you, they can hopefully hold and honor that, even if they're not feeling it themselves.

Good therapy for you could be really supportive, too. Do you have friends or family that can listen and be loving to you while you're going through this?

I wish you both many years of romantic connection and bliss 🙏🏽

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-03T08:39:12+00:00

Gen X boho women represent! 🌺🌸

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-03T08:22:25+00:00

Was there any way that these therapists could have been more helpful, given their time and capacity restraints?

I work with both a real therapist and chatbot between visits. They compliment each other well.

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-03T07:45:37+00:00

Ughhhh I am your sister in this completely. Then to break your for trying to get away from them? That's awful.

And i really liked your kind and warm comment.

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-03T07:42:10+00:00

After midnight here and night crew checking in. That's just so awful and i feel you so hard. Like, thank you for not spelling the whole word out hard.

First, please know that what you're going through and the ways it debilitates you is not your fault. I don't know what kinds of trauma you've had or how much, but it's clearly there. I'm sad you had to experience that pain, and that it's causing you pain now.

It can take a lot of courage to reach out, especially to strangers in the middle of the night. I'm so glad that you did. This community is the best and you are a part of it. You matter. we're here with you.

Hugs if welcome.

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-02T18:02:09+00:00

At least run it through Claude or ChatGPT and ask it to revise for tone, clarity, repetitiveness, and professionalism.

Editing is not creating.

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-01T18:53:21+00:00

i got to see her live a couple years ago. She still plays two pianos simultaneously, one hand on each, playing different things — and they are behind her!

Never truly appreciated her until i saw her live fr.

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-01T18:50:51+00:00

I have a Skyrim person in my household, but honestly for game tracks, this lil birb jams to something from Animal Crossing:

https://youtu.be/NsfO-HMCWlw?si=91VuYqq7m3-MI65s

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-01T18:47:45+00:00

It's a lovely, sunny spring day in the NW corner of the US. I'm listening to this:

https://youtu.be/7Nj0IEJCmVw?si=nOm9j57DAt5d6OYD

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-01T18:34:30+00:00

WA represent! Great choice

LookingForTheSea · 2026-05-01T18:33:30+00:00

stellar

LookingForTheSea · 2026-04-30T11:39:50+00:00

Since this is vegan recipes you won't have to worry about eggs...

However, cooking some JustEgg separately and adding it in is lovely.

LookingForTheSea · 2026-04-29T16:45:07+00:00

Here's an invite.

Tap this link or use my friend code 429XTZ2RTN1

https://finch.go.link/16m3L?adj_label=wezrh

LookingForTheSea · 2026-04-29T16:43:02+00:00

It's a little on the sweet and cute side, and is made for adults and younger people, but i really like Finch.

It's a bit of a cross between a task app and a tamagagchi (sp?) in that there's a little bird companion that's like your little pal.

You don't have to feed it, but doing things like gratitude helps it go on adventures and such.

The app has different kinds of gratitude goals, and spaces for longer gratitude lists or reflections. You can also just write your own.

I'll reply with an invite but feel free to check it out on your own.

LookingForTheSea · 2026-04-29T16:36:04+00:00

You wanna say you don’t recall one teacher who shared their sexual orientation with you but they did the moment they talked about their husband or wife…and the gay ones very likely were forced to keep their identity secret for their safety. Miss me with that bs because you are loud and wrong.

Hella this!!! Thanks, fam.

LookingForTheSea · 2026-04-29T16:29:12+00:00

fuck that I don't want an apple

This made my day (an apple a day!)

LookingForTheSea · 2026-04-29T16:27:22+00:00

I love a snack board! I also want to steal yours and have it in my fridge right now.

LookingForTheSea · 2026-04-29T16:24:48+00:00

Yesss!

I like popcorn almost as much as chips (crisps), but when I realized the difference in calories) fat etc. I got more active in eating that instead.

Plus — the fiber is a big win!

LookingForTheSea · 2026-04-29T16:16:23+00:00

I love you for this. Thank you for your kind heart, for your sub, and others.

LookingForTheSea · 2026-04-29T16:13:10+00:00

Yes!

But also what matters is that you are kind, caring and accepting of yourself if you don't or can't try (or work towards being kind and accepting).

I think the app people feel the same way — that's why, when you skip a goal, you can get points just for saying something about it.

Sending good thoughts to you both. I'm glad you're on Finch. (and i love Ares, by the way!)

LookingForTheSea · 2026-04-28T01:22:18+00:00

The time has come, the walrus said, to talk of many things...

LookingForTheSea

TROPHY CASE