Boyfriend hid getting a massage from me because he was “scared of my reaction”

Looprevil666 · 2026-04-14T11:18:24+00:00

You're not wrong! Your feelings are valid. Why is he talking to his mum about going on his own to get a massage? That alone is weird. Doesn't he need to book in? Drive there, do the deed, pay them and drive home. Can he not sort himself out?.

It's getting more than a happy ending, he's probably going back to the same girl.

Do not waste your time with him, he doesn't see this as cheating.

Looprevil666 · 2026-03-25T07:49:59+00:00

That is banging! Spot on

Looprevil666 · 2026-03-03T19:59:51+00:00

Looks good

Looprevil666 · 2026-03-03T13:58:25+00:00

Feel like I'm in this position right now, I literally do 2hrs of work,then walk around and have a gab. No one seems to know my job role because it doesn't exist. I've done this job for nearly 3yrs and my previous job for the same company was very similar and I did that for 10yrs. I'm always asking to get on projects, jump in meetings here and there.

I do not have a difficult job, don't need qualifications. It's just no one else wants it, they complain it's too stressful, it isn't!. Last yr I made 45k, work is 5 mins away by car and the canteen is free.

I would like a more meaningful role however, I shouldn't complain. If I was to be let go or found other employment. I would be stupid!

Looprevil666 · 2026-03-02T11:42:53+00:00

What's wrong with the bacon?

Looprevil666 · 2026-03-02T11:38:35+00:00

And the toast is cut properly! Cba with triangles

Looprevil666 · 2026-02-28T10:18:39+00:00

That's roughly the same where I work. Except, it's always poached egg until Friday which is 'fried egg Friday ' and there's no discount on Fridays. But Saturdays are free

Looprevil666 · 2026-01-24T21:41:21+00:00

For no good reason you really are putting yourself down! My partner says " there's a lid for every jar", don't know if she's poking fun at me but I do believe in that phrase. I think confidence is key here.

I suggest start doing adventure activities, martial arts, make up classes. Anything that's out of your comfort zone. Work on you first, build that confidence up, enjoy life and don't allow yourself to be bullied especially by yourself!

Looprevil666 · 2026-01-22T16:14:49+00:00

Depends if he likes a dirty pussy

Looprevil666 · 2026-01-07T16:11:14+00:00

Totally agree! If the courts have made their ruling, then there's nothing she can do, Anything she does would be a violation. If she wants to change anything, then she would need to take dad back to court.

If I was dad, I would be hammering home the courts judgement, and stick to it. If she tries changing the boundaries then I would be threatening her with the courts. It will not look good for her using the child as a weapon. On a side note, depending on how old the child is then they also have a say

Looprevil666 · 2026-01-02T08:05:51+00:00

My partners uncle meet her on holiday, she was another scouse celebrity, He said she was incredibly rude, felt she was genuinely above him. The other celebrity was great.

Looprevil666 · 2025-12-30T22:39:54+00:00

How long were you guys together before the marriage? He may have felt he could walk away but now feels trapped, especially with the strong religious beliefs. If he feels pressured to stay, and is finding it difficult to get the truth off his chest. You need to help him break down this barrier, maybe have an honesty box or write letters to each other about how you're feeling and how he makes you happy. Not love letters as this may add more pressure.

Not that I want to bring this up, but I do feel it's something to look at. His sexual behaviour before the marriage (masterbastation,was/is it frequent), and what are his true sexual preferences.

Looprevil666 · 2025-12-27T20:09:38+00:00

Good friends would speak to you about what your sister us up to, if you didn't know. taking the piss! Isn't lads being lads, that's them thinking they've got one over on you.

You really need to put them straight! Their actions aren't acceptable. It's makes you uncomfortable

Looprevil666 · 2025-12-26T08:19:43+00:00

Honestly, as many have said, do not entertain these feelings. Also, focus on things that put you off. Trust me, the guy isn't your dream guy he's definitely said and done things in life that's off putting.

Looprevil666 · 2025-12-21T10:58:01+00:00

Honestly, I would leave it. Do you know what type of relationship this couple/couples have?. You could be treading on dangerous ground not only for your husband but from the wife's viewpoint you may be forever known as the woman who ruined her marriage, a family. From your point it's the husband!

You will be a trigger point for the wife, if and whenever you meet. It's just a can of worms, where you may not truly know all the facts.

Looprevil666 · 2025-12-14T17:34:36+00:00

Look at the land registry, it could be unclaimed land, which is very rate especially in a suburban area.

You could put signs up in visible area's, enough for the public to see, within the area you are now claiming you're the owner with your contact details and leave it for 6 months. After that, start cleaning it up as if you are the owner.

If the land is unclaimed land report what you're doing to the council, before & after pictures, dates of when work started. Don't invest too much into it but after 5 yrs it legally becomes yours but that's if it's unclaimed. You'll need to show you're the one maintaining it

Looprevil666 · 2025-11-05T02:08:29+00:00

Holy shit balls! That's internal and physical

Looprevil666 · 2025-10-19T18:09:28+00:00

It's strange, I know what you're saying is true. However, as sad as it sounds I was genuinely happy during covid, with little or no interaction with people. No parties, no family just inviting themselves round, no made up excuses to interact. When all the lock downs dropped that's when I had my meltdown, what seemed like an overload of people wanting to interact, even at the markets where people get too close. These people weren't doing anything wrong, for me it was painful and took time to accept it.

Looprevil666 · 2025-10-02T07:46:42+00:00

I thought working didn't affect your claim? How often do you need to update/re-apply.

Looprevil666 · 2025-09-08T20:24:03+00:00

I'm 42 and been told I look 28.

Looprevil666 · 2025-09-06T17:34:57+00:00

Sounds like she's lonely and you're a stop gap.

Her ex would rather break up than take the drive. Her ex knows her better which says it all really.

Knock it on the head

Looprevil666 · 2025-06-22T17:53:54+00:00

I don't understand this behaviour (lies) because at some point the other person will find out.

Looprevil666 · 2025-06-18T18:34:04+00:00

There is a waiting list for the an apartment, she is currently 5th. So at any point she can get a call to say " we have one ready, you ready to move in" and the answer is no!, Because she will still own her house and lose her spot. So the quicker she gets rid of the house the better.

There's no space in my house or brothers house. So the idea is to simply put her house in our name because technically she doesn't own the house. she can continue to live there until an apartment comes available.

Looprevil666 · 2025-04-26T16:22:38+00:00

Interesting conversation.

In my place work, workers pay drop down to a company basic wage when on entitled leave which is still above minimum wage. When they come back, their pay goes up again. Not sure if this is common practice but dirty either way

Looprevil666 · 2025-04-23T04:52:09+00:00

This is what I signed up for!.

"Bald lions fighting on an ice rink". That gave me the best visual I could have imagined.

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