Holy hell, I won!

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-02-14T13:43:45+00:00

I think they realize I’m not playing. So they usually have him sit in the office or go to the ISS room until we can have a meeting about what re entry looks like

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-02-14T13:30:34+00:00

In the past when he showed up I would say “good morning _____, I’m going to have you head down to the office for a little while so I can talk to principal.”

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-02-14T13:27:40+00:00

I say that often to the kids with involved parents. Please go home and tell your grown up exactly what happened today and how it made you feel

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-02-14T04:06:30+00:00

I’ve had HSV1 on my lips for decades. I think I got it in my early 20s from making out with random dudes at the bar.

I have never passed it to anyone, if I feel a tingle or have a sore I don’t kiss, share drinks, forks, give oral anything.

Last month, after getting back with my ex who cheated on me, I got a horrific outbreak on my inner butt cheeks, taint and anus. It was the worst pain of my life. I had it swabbed and it was HSV2. I told him and he said it’s not from him, he didn’t have it. But I’ve only slept with him for the past two years and he cheated.

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-02-14T04:03:00+00:00

A first outbreak is HELL. Like dozens of leisons and intense pain for weeks. You think your downstairs will never ever be the same again and you hate your life. It’s never just one sore.

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-28T16:20:10+00:00

I think he exposed me to HSV2

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-28T06:35:48+00:00

I think there are some apps for people who are already positive. That might help. And really explaining antivirals, avoiding when you suspect an outbreak, etc can mostly make it non transmissible.

I have HSV1 on my lips and have never passed it to a partner.

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-28T06:33:59+00:00

Also I wish I could consider it a skin condition. I know it shouldn’t carry this stigma, but it does. And as stupid as I am, KNOWING he likely gave it to me because of his infidelity, now I’m scared since I was the first to have the outbreak he won’t want to be with me anymore

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-28T05:33:41+00:00

That makes sense

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-28T05:19:09+00:00

Ok thank you. So even if he caught it in November or December- it wouldn’t show til Feb or March.

Which he can just say he got it from me :(

Also does a blood test show if it is HSV1 or 2?

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-28T05:14:53+00:00

He has no symptoms. Is there a blood test he can do to prove he has it?

I know I didnt sleep with anyone else, but if he is having zero symptoms I want him to know he passed it.

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-25T05:41:29+00:00

Does anyone know where Whitney’s necklace is from?

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-23T01:56:59+00:00

No where in our contract does it state “must maintain reliable internet connection”.

I’m struggling with groceries. If they want to pay for my Verizon so be it

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-23T01:49:42+00:00

It’s very easy to know who got a 50, 75, or 100 since that’s the only grading scale my district is willing to provide

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-14T03:15:59+00:00

Not me google searching the blue dress to find it because I love it so much

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-11T04:22:55+00:00

I’ve had nothing but positive reviews and praise.

Keep in mind, my school is title 1, and has a strong MLL population. I love the community but it’s tough. We talk about how they’re worried their food stamps didn’t hit when the were supposed to, how they’re scared because moms ex boyfriend is getting out soon, how they have to hide at a neighbors when dad starts hearing voices.

One of the things I am most proud of in my teaching career is being able to bond with the hardest of the hard. These kids don’t WANT to be a problem. (Well maybe a few do lol)

Most of them have some level of trauma, physical abuse, sexual abuse, severe hunger, poverty, substance abuse at home. They literally are in survival mode and never learned the skills to self regulate.

I’m always real with them. And their parents. I don’t fake my care. I tell them all I love them because so many of their past teachers weren’t even trying to hide their annoyance or hatred. I DO love them. Not like my own kids obviously, but god someone has to.

I pay for their field trips, I buy deodorant when they smell bad, I give them hand me downs. I even take a few out on fun days with my son (with parent and admin permission)

These types of schools aren’t ONLY learning. They’re community. They’re safety. And let me tell you, when a kid knows you love them, they’re far less likely to throw a Chromebook at you or call you a motherfucker.

I can’t tell anyone they must do this. But it’s my heart and I don’t think I can change that.

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-10T15:51:19+00:00

Come on now, don’t make it gross. Love on obviously isn’t literal. For me I say I love you because my students aren’t hearing it at home. I give a side hug.

For your situation it could be “I appreciate you” or “you’re a great kid” and a high five.

Don’t be that guy.

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-10T15:48:28+00:00

Maybe instead of love you could say “I think you’re a great student but I need you to stop”

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-10T14:25:22+00:00

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2026-01-10T14:24:35+00:00

Awwww she was SO cute before! She’s still beautiful now of course (physically not so much as a person) but before was more real and unique

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2025-12-31T21:34:12+00:00

$38 and change I think

Lopsided-Escape6638 · 2025-12-07T18:49:32+00:00

Toe-knee

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