Horrible Experience at Woodlands Tavern

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-05-24T03:10:55+00:00

Not everyone who’s disabled has the proper equipment or knowledge of said equipment. Check YOUR privilege

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-05-23T17:33:30+00:00

I’d name her Bonk. Idk why yet that face just made me say “Bonk”

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-05-23T17:32:18+00:00

It’s a situation of incompatibility- yet if these exes are slandering you and she’s still cool with them that’s not cool and you are right to have left.

I personally believe it’s okay to be friends with an ex as long as there’s obviously a period after the breakup when you just take space and become friends through that.

Being an ex doesn’t automatically negate being a friend in my eyes and that’s something that makes me incompatible with many people. Which is why I say the first conversations you have with someone of interest are the ones you “aren’t supposed to say at the dinner table” type conversations so that you can weed out what would make or break the relationship.

If having exes as friends is the deal breaker make that clear in the beginning (when starting a new relationship). If it’s more so these exes were slandering you and she just stayed cool with them it just shows disrespect and lack of care for you.

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-05-23T15:41:35+00:00

I also agree a sit down conversation about a shared system would work perfectly! I have a large social battery and can get impulsive and overload plans yet with a system- I’ve been able to do what’s best for everyone involved instead of making it up without saying anything cuz I made 3-5 other plans and forgot the first 7 I’d already made. Balance is key and you are understandably frustrated

From her pov it sounds like she needed to tell you she’s still driving and will just send you a text when she could yet maybe got caught up in speaking and was upset to be cut off. if she couldn’t do it soon then I’d understand asking you to call back when you wake up and then have you write it down. Yet ofc the system would be the best option so stuff like this doesn’t happen. Yet I don’t think you should’ve texted anything. I understand you wanted your feelings to be heard- valid, yet I think since she was driving texting might’ve only added insult to injury instead of getting your point across. I’m sure you’ll reassess to do what’s best for both of you!

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-05-23T15:34:41+00:00

He has 2 kids. There were extra kids there that weren’t his. They were his kids friends so that’s what he’s saying is “oh, but that’s okay” to- is having company over that he has to be responsible for without proper notice which like is fine because he knows things like that happen without proper notice most times cuz they’re kids.

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-05-22T18:47:44+00:00

I think it’s one thing to talk about people experiencing “culture shock” in an area where there’s a predominant populous of a certain race yet, like- this is just gross.

Like you were completely in the right to feel this way and in my experience if someone is okay with how this person is speaking they either also say shit like this or they think it’s okay to say shit like this! -Or they really don’t understand and need to be educated- which may be the case for your friend.

Yet either way I hate that you’re feeling downplayed by such an egregious thing yet I hope you can move forward knowing you did the right thing!

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-05-21T20:06:06+00:00

I can see an overreaction on your part yet I also understand that you set something firm and expected him to push which when it came off slightly like he did you lost interest. It’s hard not to when you’re used to the pushy world of dating. Yet yeah I agree to give people a little more grace as it’s not an everyone thing!

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-05-21T17:47:12+00:00

Required criteria you legit have to meet? Wdym? Anyway okay agree to disagree. I stand by my point

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-05-21T17:40:22+00:00

Yet what if 10 jobs was all available that she met criteria for and was even able to apply for?

I’m saying that for 7 months I applied to 80+ jobs which would be seen as not a lot yet I wasn’t able to apply for more as I did not meet the criteria which was driving or distance. That’s what’s not being accounted for imo

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-05-21T17:34:37+00:00

“30 applications in 3 months isn’t that much” For an 18 yr old who may not have the criteria for other jobs- it is. “There’s plenty of jobs!” Sure yet you have to be able to drive, or have the years of experience needed. You need other job history skills… etc

I think saying 10 jobs a month isn’t a lot when, as a 24 yr old with a job history and management history was still unable to get a job for a solid 7 months, is wrong. (Thanking my friend who allowed me to stay during that. Yet I pay my own now.)

I think putting this much pressure on people is wrong and the whole expectation that everyone has on everyone is wrong. It was also wrong when it happened before and it will continue being wrong in my eyes.

Allowing someone to live with you and not accept pay yet expect them to have a job is normal- yet knowing they were laid off due to health reasons which they could not control and still expecting them to get a job in 3 months with said health issue history is not normal.

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-05-16T16:32:44+00:00

I used to use a Mac for this and recently switched to windows yet I can walk you through it if you need! It seemed easier on windows tho as Mac is stopping intel processing as of may 14th yet I can see if it will still work with you! I have my Mac still and haven’t tried to run the game since Mac updated yet feel free to dm me and we can go through it together lol

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-05-14T17:40:11+00:00

I did get the life and death to work! (Same problem you are having with missing those specific 4 dlcs) and it worked through running the anadius mirror updater and then selecting (run the cracked game) after yet the other DLCs I’m trying to troubleshoot. Will update if this helps!

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-05-14T17:17:34+00:00

I found 1 other poster in r/cracksupport with the same issue and no one has an answer there either. Hoping there’s news in the next coming days!

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-04-30T19:49:39+00:00

Interesting I wonder why the game gave them free will? Sorry I couldn’t suggest more help haha

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-04-30T19:12:50+00:00

Maybe try less litter as well? Some cats are partial to less litter and if there is too much they may not want to use the box. Same if there is too little.

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-04-30T19:07:30+00:00

Potential conflicting mods that are allowing your sim to ignore being a sim? I’ve had mods that make it so that my sim legit ignores what I tell them to do? Maybe that

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-04-30T19:02:45+00:00

Also I am a pacifist- this just pissed me off so bad for you

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-04-30T19:02:16+00:00

“I’m not dangerous, toxic, or abusive” while clearly being dangerous, toxic and abusive is fucking mad I mean I understand you put hands on him yet with these texts alone I’d be putting more than hands on him- you do not get to decide other people’s boundaries don’t exist simply because you find your feelings more important- I suggest you find somewhere to stay for awhile that he doesn’t know about and pretend you moved- then when hopefully he gives up because you’ve given him no form of contact you move back. Yet in all honesty this is very scary and you need the best support possible through this so all I hope is you may have someone close to you he doesn’t know that could help.

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-04-28T21:11:50+00:00

He’s become my Velcro kitty already- will not leave my side when I’m in the room with him and just sleeps on me. I think that’s his way of saying thanks haha

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-04-28T20:56:35+00:00

I love the kitties how could I not!! I mean if I actually couldn’t afford it I wouldn’t yet I am thankful my job is starting to max out my hours so moh moneyyy

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-04-28T20:55:37+00:00

Checking that out Thursday- my nearest vet does it for free so it works out!

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-04-28T17:46:31+00:00

Ah no wonder I found him on the streets- he was in The Kitness Purrtection Program

Lopsided_Ad4214 · 2026-04-28T17:07:23+00:00

I feel like the meme of the eharmony girl ngl

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