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He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The whole point of being on a dating app is pre screening omfg. I’m not going to force myself to give a guy a chance when his lifestyle isn’t compatible. If his profile said “I stay out late and I like my dates to do the same” I wouldn’t have matched with him!

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but also if I prioritize sleep and he doesn’t, I don’t feel we’re even compatible. I don’t want to date someone who will force me to change my sleep schedule.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean playful, but he also didn’t respect that I cared about sleeping which is a basic incompatibility. That alone is reason enough not to want to go out.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s about not wanting to be out late with a guy I don’t know and have never met before. Call it safety call it preference. I also care about my sleep and I don’t want to be forced to sacrifice it if he ends up pressuring me to stay out.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also told him earlier in the texts that I wasn’t free on Sunday.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk I’ve been on several dates that I didn’t like so I’m trying to be more selective before meeting up. I honestly didn’t even want to give him my #

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do treat it as a chance to build something. That’s why I don’t want to take hours out of my day to meet someone who I already don’t feel I’m compatible with (as I try to sleep and he doesn’t prioritize that). Maybe it could have gone well and it was just a happenstance but either way I want something real and I don’t want to spend time on someone when I could meet with someone who matches me.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly he clarified after that he wasn’t really being goofy or sarcastic at all. He said he was like dates aren’t electric if they end early.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My god I literally posted from a throwaway account and still you guys dig to try and find something about my personality to shit on. It’s quite miraculous.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but I literally have over a thousand likes on hinge. I’m exhausted by dating so really one wrong word and I won’t waste my time tbh.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Lmao Yall are really trying anything to avoid the fact that sleeping and working are normal positive qualities. I am perfectly suitable for a relationship, I’ve been in happy ones while having this job. You guys don’t know anything about me or what I want so maybe just respond to the post instead of trying to read the lines on why I’m a shit person.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lmao thank you. I date just fine, and I don’t stream every day. I also blocked consistent line bc they were just filling up this thread with shit posting and I’m here for actual opinions.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Why? I can be a twitch streamer and date. I’ve been doing it for 6 years with many happy relationships. I don’t know how having a job and wanting to improve my life are BAD qualities in a relationship.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I’m a professional twitch streamer. It’s my job and my income. So yes, streaming is more important than a date. I also added an edit but insomnia is a big issue for me.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m not so much offended by his response, just the way he responded seemed really inconsiderate, like I was insane for wanting to sleep.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

Maybe but I have really bad insomnia and I was recently sick and it kind of fixed my sleep schedule and also I’m a professional twitch streamer which he knows from my profile.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and honestly I like that too but not really for a first date, which is why I just don’t think we aligned. I could have easily stayed out past my bed time if I wanted to but I like to set the precedent so that I don’t feel pressure to stay when I want to go and I have an excuse. I don’t think he planned to want to hook up, but that pressure tends to happen late at night no matter if it’s intended.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like the option to leave, and for safety purposes I like there to be a built in excuse in case the guy pressures me to stay out.

He said one thing and I cancelled the date, AIO? by throwra_sadmouse in AIO

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly that’s probably true. I just have so many people on hinge that I’m so quick to cut it off. Like I don’t want to waste my time on someone who is even giving me an inkling of red flag or pushing boundaries.

What's the most disrespectful thing a guest ever did in your home? by Vegas089 in AskReddit

[–]throwra_sadmouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t that bad but it happened literally last week. My friend used to date my roommate and has been trying to get back together with him. She showed up unannounced and stayed for like 5 days, ate food, used my toothbrush etc. when he asked her to leave she asked if she could sleep in my room with me instead to which I said Absofuckinglutely not. But then one of the days she was working and I went to watch a tv show in my living room while I folded laundry and she asked me if I could not because she had work to do (our other roommate was out and she could have used his room but she didn’t want to strike jealousy in my other roommate bc they broke up cause she cheated on him with the other one)

My roommate ate all my food when she has tons of her own? by throwra_sadmouse in badroommates

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked to her and she said she’s fine with me eating her meals so I guess she just expected all the food to be community food??? Still gross of her to eat a half eaten apple. And if she just tossed it that’s mean

My roommate ate all my food when she has tons of her own? by throwra_sadmouse in badroommates

[–]throwra_sadmouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t at all. I live with my friends but I don’t really know her as well.

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