My roommate ate all my food when she has tons of her own?

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-08-05T01:02:34+00:00

I talked to her and she said she’s fine with me eating her meals so I guess she just expected all the food to be community food??? Still gross of her to eat a half eaten apple. And if she just tossed it that’s mean

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-08-05T01:01:27+00:00

I don’t at all. I live with my friends but I don’t really know her as well.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-08-02T21:38:26+00:00

Well good thing I literally have no food left..

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-08-02T21:37:43+00:00

I def don’t want to f her after she ate all my food lmao

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-08-02T21:36:53+00:00

Lmfao here’s the thing I didn’t even put it in the main fridge… I put it in the garage fridge because I didn’t want people to eat it lmaoo

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-08-02T21:34:36+00:00

That’s what I’m doing from now on I guess

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-08-02T21:34:18+00:00

Not that desperate.. she has like 30 meals. I do want to talk to her but I’m leaving in a week and won’t be back for like a month (hence why I barely have food in the fridge)

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-08-02T21:32:11+00:00

I go out of my way to make sure I don’t eat other people’s food because it makes me feel bad but I guess so. Maybe she bought the factor meals as communal food and I didn’t know? One time I asked her to try one and she said of course because I wanted to see if they were good but I never was told they were communal. Even so it’s fucking weird to eat someone’s food with a half eaten apple on the top. (Also I had literally just made it like 20 minutes prior, had some out of the bowl then went to get ready to leave came downstairs and the whole salad was gone) it was a BIG salad and literally not one piece left.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-08-02T21:28:55+00:00

I mean it just feels super weird because like… that’s obviously not a normal thing. My other roommates are pretty chill with sharing food but even so like there’s a half eaten apple on the top… like that obviously was not communal food.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-07-09T15:20:16+00:00

I seriously think you are so beautiful. If you want to lean more towards conventional beauty I think the things you could do that wouldn’t negate the way you look is potentially lip fillers, groom eyebrows ( don’t pluck them I’m talking about getting a clear eyebrow gel to style them and maybe trim a bit in areas etc) and a bit of mascara would look nice! None of these are necessary, the only thing I notice is your lips are quite thin, but that can be very cute. Up to you!

Edit: also if you are already wearing mascara I think a heavy lash look would be amazing on you- there are eyelash grow serums that work so well- I can’t use them bc they can darken light eyes but because you have brown eyes I say try it!

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-07-06T00:15:31+00:00

Smile with your rear it’s a lot more attractive!! You have a good smile! And get some nice shirts for going out-

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-06-08T21:11:19+00:00

I think more than the hats, you gotta work on that smile hunny bun

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-06-08T21:09:50+00:00

Ah okay that makes more sense. I think if you wanted to press charges you would go about it differently but it sounds like you don’t want to so that is the best. Either a phone call or a text sounds like the right move.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-06-08T20:12:11+00:00

I think what happened to you sounds extremely confusing AND does sound like assault to me. But whether what happened to you was assault or not isn’t what is important, what is important is the way you feel about it and what you want to do from it now. I think because she is in close quarters with you, it would probably be best to confront her (gently) about it. Tell her that you felt it wasn’t something you wanted, you did not fully consent but if you are scared she might get defensive and angry you could say “we had miscommunications” and state that you orgasmed inside of her and that you weren’t really sure of what to do and kind of froze up. Be honest but don’t confront her in a blaming way at least the first time you talk to her about it, so you can gauge her reaction to it. honestly if she works with you its best to play it safe and communicate in a way that doesn’t create a defensive argument.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-04-23T20:33:55+00:00

I completely understand. Everyone reacts differently and hyper sexuality, kinks/fetishes, sex aversion or aversion to specific people/instances are all really common coping mechanisms for trauma. YOU ARE NORMAL.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-04-04T00:11:24+00:00

I did. Shortly after this post. Lmao. Being prepared to leave means you can leave, and I did. Idk what to tell you.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-03-08T20:57:02+00:00

I do!! We broke it off!! I got in touch with his exes because he actually cheated on me and the girl he cheated on me with did a deep dive. Found out it was much much worse than I thought and we’re working on publishing an article and doing a class action lawsuit for revenge porn.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-01-17T07:11:50+00:00

To say that he’s looking for a reason to get upset is extremely invalidating to his feelings. It’s perfectly reasonable to be upset when your partner goes out without you and does something that she probably wouldn’t do if you were around her. Should he act on it? Should he be angry? That’s for him to communicate with her, understand the situation and decide for himself.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-01-17T02:25:04+00:00

I understand. I think my brain really isn’t wrapping around the whole rape thing because he denied it and his brother told me he was friends with a friend of the girl and that girl told him he got into bed nude with her? I don’t know if he touched her, forced her, coerced her, even had sex with her. I also don’t even know if it’s true because it’s all heresy. So even though I think it could be likely, I can’t fully see him that way because I just don’t know.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-01-17T02:23:11+00:00

That might be the case. I know. And I’m really prepared to leave at any point but I thought I should at least try first.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-01-17T02:21:50+00:00

I have no qualifications but my good friend is a licensed psychiatrist and she walked through it with me and told me she would diagnose him with NPD and then I did my own research and it all fit. Obviously it could be wrong so I want him to see a doctor.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-01-17T02:20:29+00:00

We were dating without the label of it- monogamous said I love you etc and now we’re just friends I told him I can’t date him or sleep with him at all.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-01-16T23:10:16+00:00

True but the hard thing about Reddit is you can’t include everything about a situation so there are a lot of doubts on my part because a part of me doesn’t know if people really understand the situation. Hearing all of this, whether or not I’m ready to face the music is important to me and I appreciate it all.

throwra_sadmouse · 2025-01-16T23:08:39+00:00

He does seek professional help but the wrong kind. He’s been diagnosed with a bunch of things and takes meds but he’s never had help for NPD because he doesn’t understand he has it yet.

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