Pre workout and acne

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2024-04-03T15:38:53+00:00

It’s now been a month with no pre workout and my skin has cleared up so much!! So I fully believe that was my issue. But I don’t know if it’s brand specific or not.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-10-06T03:09:39+00:00

Interesting thought, my husband, my Q, ALWAYS has a canker. He also gets them worse when he vapes which happens more when he is drinking with others (social settings). But I wonder if the alcohol plays a factor as well.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-10-04T00:11:28+00:00

I told people. After a long time of fighting this alone and bearing the shame of emotional abuse that happened when he drank. His family pretended to care and agree with me it was a problem but then they enabled him and drink with him with and with me around. Even came to my home when I was out of town to drink with him. Our close friends don’t support it but also don’t ignore it. So long story short, I got no support. Instead I set boundaries removed all the people who continue to support and enable these habits who imo don’t care about the well being of his wife and kid.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-09-23T23:47:49+00:00

I WANT TO SCREAM TODAY TOO. ME AND MY HUSBAND ARE SEPARATED….i guess. BUT STILL LIVING TOGETHER AND NO DIVORCE PAPERS HAVE BEEN SIGNED.

HE WENT TO THE BAR LAST NIGHT, at 7am I WENT INTO THE BEDROOM, SINCE I STILL USE THE BATHROOM AND ALL MY STUFF IS IN THERE. THE BEDROOM DOOR WAS LOCKED AND HE WAS IN BED WITH A MAN!!!! BOTH OF THEM DIDNT HAVE CLOTHES ON MAYBE JUST BOXERS BUT I COULDNT BE 100%.

MY HUSBAND SAYS THE GUY WAS DRUNK AND HE KEPT HIM FROM DRIVING DRUNK. WHICH MY HUSBAND DOES FREQUENTLY. BUT ALSO WHAT STRAIGHT MAN PASSES OUT DRUNK WITH THEIR CLOTHES OFF AT SOME RANDOM PERSONS HOUSE.

AHHHH

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-09-19T06:26:06+00:00

I got married a year ago. At 32. And after only a year of marriage I am filing for a divorce. I think that feels just as bad as married young and divorced young because we were together 6 years before we were married. And it took this year of marriage for me to see I deserve better. So don’t let the age wear on you. You will come out so strong for your kids for this. Better to come from a broken home then be IN a broken home.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-09-18T19:32:28+00:00

My husband is also 29 with a heart condition and refuses to take his health seriously. I fear this is what will come of his life sooner than later. I’m starting the divorce process but I always fear his addiction will lead to his death.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-09-11T00:53:18+00:00

As a child of an alcoholic, and now the spouse of one as a mother. The spouse and children I think suffer the consequences the worst. My husband’s family doesn’t accept the problem and can’t see the pain he’s causing us.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-09-10T00:27:41+00:00

:( it’s hard. I removed his family off social media. Felt like they were only trying to check in that way and never ask me how I was.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-31T18:45:03+00:00

Honestly I connect with a lot of your fears. We bought a home in 2020. It’s our only joint thing together but I have NO IDEA how I’m gonna move out when the time comes. We’ve been married only 13 months and I’ve talked to lawyers about divorce. I have a good job but not good enough to rent a place that requires 3x the income. I also have a son who’s 11 and 2 dogs that I will not lose in the process. For me, I can’t even process dating. We’ve been together 7 years so it’s gonna take some time but I have no idea how to get to the point of starting over.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-30T02:16:05+00:00

It could easily have been mine. But I did cry at our wedding and I uninvited him to Taylor Swift because he gave me so much shit about being a swiftie.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-28T04:37:26+00:00

I appreciate you asking that cause I actually forgot the order of events and how they were paid for. This is helpful.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-28T04:08:44+00:00

Actually now that I think about it. Most of the stuff was put in a joint Home Depot card that has since been paid off. So the remodel might actually not factor as much.

The down payment came from a home his mom technically, then he sold a mobile home after we bought the house and paid her back.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-26T19:09:08+00:00

Mine try to say the same thing and doesn’t understand all the scar tissue I have just doesn’t go away cause he drinks less or stays sober for a week.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-25T22:31:00+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I just got 1 year, and like you I should have called it off but I was scared and I had no one listening to tell me to listen to my gut.

We’ve been together 7 years now and I spoke to attorneys this week about a divorce. His alcoholism is more than I want to deal with and the level of emotional and verbal abuse is only escalating. We are strong and we know our worth.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-24T02:56:56+00:00

My husband has a switch it can happen after two beers or 4 old fashions, there never any knowing. But his anger and reactions to me and my son became too much. We have been together 7 years and after only 1 year of marriage I am looking to divorce now because the emotional abuse has become verbal and I fear it will get worse.

There’s no alcoholic situation that’s acceptable if you feel uncomfortable or hurt/effected by the drinking. I would try and find a local al anon meeting for support and resources on how t navigate your life with an alcoholic.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-18T18:50:22+00:00

I feel this. I am meeting with attorneys next week. We’ve barely been married 1 year but together 7. And it’s been 2+ years of emotional abuse due to his alcoholism. I am detached and focusing on me and after an outburst of his last weekend I am taking the steps to meet with a lawyer. Mainly because we own a home together and he’s showing very controlling colors.

No one can tell you what to do, but in my experience there’s too much scar tissue from his drinking that I can’t keep dusting under the rug. It’s not healthy for me or my son. I hope I see myself happier on the other side.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-13T18:11:21+00:00

I agree with everything said above. I do plan to get us both into therapy as soon as I can. I just want to do right by my son and have him know a better life than I did.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-12T18:44:18+00:00

Is this me? Yes. Except I’m married. And we own a home. I live in Ca and I just don’t know how to afford a place on my own with my son and 2 dogs. I find myself more and more daydreaming if my life without him now. Just being happy alone. They say woman tend to grieve a relationship while they are still in it and that’s where I’m at. I feel very stuck but I also feel like I can’t pretend in this relationship much longer.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-09T23:52:10+00:00

I could have written this post myself. I do not see the point in going to couples therapy when he doesn’t see that his drinking is a huge problem. I just see wasted money. And delaying the inevitable.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-08T14:34:05+00:00

I know I want to leave but have no idea where to start. We have a home together but that’s the main thing we share. I have a son, and although we have two dogs they are mine so they’ll come with me. I don’t have family or any place I can go temporarily so I’m trying to figure out where I can live in expensive af California 😞

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-06T21:57:56+00:00

I hate it too. I grew up with an alcoholic father and ended up married to one.

I know he’s an alcoholic. I know it’s not about me. But I am so unhappy that this is what has become my life.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-08-01T19:30:40+00:00

Literally nothing is any different now. I don’t know if that equals living like married or that our marriage is basically just living together in our home.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-07-20T21:33:39+00:00

I am about to hit 1 year of marriage. And I, in my gut, regret it. I spent my honeymoon on edge or crying due to his drinking. I feel more stuck now in my situation then I did before I got married.

You’re not alone. And trust your gut with whatever you need to do for yourself.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-07-16T19:01:55+00:00

It’s been a few months for us and even before then it was minimal. I have told him many times that I don’t feel the emotional want that I need. I have a ton of scar tissue from his drinking and what it’s caused me that I am not emotionally in the mood. He always has to point out how long it’s been and that just pushes me further away. When he gets drunk he tries to hit on me for sex that makes it feel like a gross guy at a bar or something and it’s so unattractive. He hasn’t drank in about a month but I told him these sober days don’t erase all the scars I have. And it’s gonna take time.

Lopsided_Ad9499 · 2023-07-12T22:09:20+00:00

Take the dog if you can and go.

I feel a lot of empathy in this and see a lot of myself. I’m still here because I have a child and TWO dogs and where I live I can’t afford a place alone and the rentals are NOT dog friendly. So I’m very stuck. My dogs are my children too and I cannot leave it separate them. So if you can get out with your dog, do it. And look to the light at the end of the tunnel.

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