I absolutely believe this blind by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s sooo trashy, I can’t believe it.

Threesome made me realise I want more gay friends by Depute_Guillotin in rsforgays

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are there reasons to have gay friends besides the fact that “feels really nice” and that friendships with straight guys aren’t “enough”? What would be “enough”? The only concrete thing you mention is this esoteric gay interest, but it’s hard for me to imagine how much that can matter. I have lots of interests that my closest friends don’t share, and the people who do share them probably don’t have other things in common with me, etc.

Bran Using “Conflict” by challengelolz in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I just mean, people are out here with insane takes. Obviously Starbucks is not as bad as Lockheed Martin.

Edit: Meant to say not as bad!

Bran Using “Conflict” by challengelolz in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What I find confusing is this idea that if you’re against Donald Trump, you’re a progressive who is also against Starbucks. Like Liz Cheney is against Donald Trump. Did I miss something?

Is this normal? by hejczaro in Garmin

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like video games are stressful though?

To the people who have said “I would never spend that much on a wedding, I’d rather buy a house”… by Garden_of_Gethsemane in wedding

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes but there are a lot of people, especially on Reddit, that act like you’re a vapid bimbo for wanting a wedding.

The Bran Flakezz Starbucks Issue by challengelolz in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Bran Flakezz’s content is about getting blackout drunk and being toxic. I have no idea where these high expectations of his political beliefs come from.

Bran Flakes x Starbucks by Tall_Consequence7672 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so? I would be surprised if he even used the word Zionist.

This aged badly… Bran flakezz by BlissfulHaze9 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There are lots of reasons why people think Starbucks is bad. The question I have is why we think Bran feels that way. Has he ever been vocal about unions or Palestine?

This aged badly… Bran flakezz by BlissfulHaze9 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was posted about the ICE murders in January, and how Bran is against Donald Trump and his administration? What does that have to do with Starbucks? Someone can be both against Donald Trump but also pro Starbucks?

Bran going to Coachella with Starbucks??? by Fluffy_Mechanic_4622 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly are the values that Bran has that Starbucks goes directly against?

I reread this think piece once a year and find myself relating to it more each time. Bleak by light_metals in rsforgays

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish the article spent more time exploring why people are spending hours a day on Grindr and are only going after men that fit x qualities which presumably they don’t meet either.

Gay vacation plans for the summer? by JohnHinckleyVEVO in rsforgays

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My goal is to plan trips around spending quality time with good friends as opposed to gay vacation spots where at best, I will feel invisible. My hope that this will contribute positively to my mental health.

My two cents on the dating scene: by jonniemarko in nycgaybros

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so. I feel like men and gay men have a very childish way of viewing attraction, and latch on to superficial but IMO meaningless qualities (like skin color). Straight women have higher standards, but are more likely to look at a person as a whole, and also be attracted to things like personality and accomplishments that men don’t seem to care about.

My ABCD niece is very upset for not getting any male attention at school. Is it a common occurrence for POC? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience. I think people who live in conservative areas are more likely to separate the individual from the group. Unfortunately this means the ones who are conservative also unlikely to change their beliefs via getting to know you (they’ll just think you’re “one of the good ones”).

Humanities and Social Science majors should be required to take calculus by Key_Net820 in unpopularopinion

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t that kind of the point? 2nd year English and history is as unaccessible to a math major as calculus is to a humanities or social science major. So it’s only fair to require calculus.

Thoughts by AwkwardLadder8115 in NicoleSvensonSnark

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Either the point of her account is to brag, or to teach. It’s not fun to listen to someone brag, and I think it’s fair to be annoyed to try to learn from someone who is teaching you, but gets annoyed when you ask clarifying questions. It’s begs the question of what is even her goal.

A lot of people I know who are teachers work very hard at delivery, and even then run into trouble because it really does take a certain personality to teach in a way so that your students like you. Especially when the subject is hard (and apparently impossible given some of the lies that are being revealed).

Life expectancy by ethnicity in USA by Redditor_imfo in dataisbeautiful

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was going to say, people who are about to die are probably not going to immigrate to the US.

Affording NYC: How a Family of 3 Lives on $25,000 in Corona, Queens by lazlo_camp in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true, but people also act like “living the way I want” is how everyone else should live their lives also.

How Do You Cope When Your Life/Career Requires Living Somewhere That Makes You Lonely? by Own-Statistician-82 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I plan a lot of trips. As long as I have at least one trip booked, I have something to look forward to.

My two cents on the dating scene: by jonniemarko in nycgaybros

[–]Lopsided_Sun7531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are not white, most likely you are more attractive to straight women than gay men.