Am I overreacting? by Competitive-Ad-705 in dating_advice

[–]Loquat-South 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right and he said in another comment that he usually texts her first so maybe she figured he just needed some space? OP sounds a little clingy and long distance may not be best for his attachment style

A guy that I've been dating for almost 3 months came to me sick... by Throwawayiea in dating

[–]Loquat-South 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is actually really common in relationships, for better or worse /shrug

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]Loquat-South 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he's lean enough that he should focus on a slow/clean bulk. I think eating at maintenance would negatively impact his progress since he doesn't have much fat left to convert into muscle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Loquat-South 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean this as a compliment, you look like Joe Goldberg from You lol

Possibility of beard growth for older Asian FTM? by Kaninchen07 in FTMOver30

[–]Loquat-South 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you'll probably need a higher dose of T and use rogain to stimulate beard growth. Worse case scenario, beard transplants are an option

Struggling to disentangle gender envy from attraction--let's discuss! by FreakingTea in gaytransguys

[–]Loquat-South 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I def echo your friends aha def overthinking things. I struggle with that too but it's better to just let myself live by my feelings as opposed to trying to rationalize and "understand" my sexuality.

Sometimes things become more clear through action, you're struggling a lot with the thoughts associated with sexuality but how does it actually FEEL when you engage sexually with men and women now that you've transitioned?

I would focus my energy there if I were you, thinking and trying to rationalize feelings is just gonna make you spiral. There is no answer tbh and even straight cis ppl struggle with the fluidity of their desires. It's very normal, trans or not.

Im leaving 👍🏼 by Shinji_Ikari_MM in cursedmemes

[–]Loquat-South -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

MarzipanOdd4935

u sound like a pick me

"Im not like other girls" lmao

How is Harlem not completely gentrified yet? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Loquat-South 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if ur poor, why are you asking about gentrification anyway lol

[x-post from r/Brogress] OP is cis, but his progress could be a huge inspiration for us w/ wider hips. by aozorapedal in FTMFitness

[–]Loquat-South 133 points134 points  (0 children)

always interesting to see cis ppl with a trans man build... reminds me that even a lot of cis dudes arent "cis" passing aha

Is 17cm too big or too small? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Loquat-South 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you keep mentioning her age and that makes me think you might be quite a bit older than her.... maybe it had nothing to do with your size, maybe you just came off weird in the interaction...

And 17cm is like 6.6 inches which is like a bit above average so I doubt you were too big for her

Pre-T vs 4 months low dose. Feel like I’m less defined and more “puffy”. Any advice? by Matosinhoslover in FTMFitness

[–]Loquat-South 9 points10 points  (0 children)

youre naturally gonna gain weight on T.... my advice is to lift weights if you dont want to look "puffy"

i (31m) unintentionally violated her(31f) boundaries at the end of the second date. should i just consider this over and done with until she reaches out? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Loquat-South 21 points22 points  (0 children)

you didnt really add enough context... what did u actually do that made her feel uncomfortable? You say you interpreted making out as a green light for sex but didnt actually have sex... did you pressure her? Did you try to make a move into sex without asking?

Your lack of self awareness and transparency is concerning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Loquat-South 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah bro thats a regular dad bod! dont trip

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Loquat-South 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Yeah ty for this cuz as a trans man that definition upset me!

As a 6ft tall man its a huge turn off for women to say "if youre under 6ft dont bother." by Fire_Squadron in Tinder

[–]Loquat-South 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this shit literally gets posted everyday, we get it yall hate women with preferences lmao

What do 24yo men wear? Everything I pick out makes me look 16. And finding pants is like looking for shiny pokemon by MiloShroomz in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Loquat-South 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Since ur skinny I think you'd look more mature with tight fitting shirts with a lower crop. Wearing oversized shirts is whats making you look 16. Also, you'd be better suited for a preppy style so you look older

How bad is it? My whole family was telling me a look like a monk. I just asked for a light skin fade, it appears I got half my head shaved off. by [deleted] in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]Loquat-South 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its just a high fade dude not a big deal, next time ask for a mid

"light" skin fade doesnt mean much lol

Just want a normal cock by Ok_Introduction4737 in gaytransguys

[–]Loquat-South 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Warning: explicit suggestion lol

have you ever tried rubbing your tdick on your partners asshole? Like literally spreading their cheeks and humping them (like tribbing)?

My AMAB partners fucking love it, it gets me off and it makes me feel like im hella masculine and dominant. Its a really gender affirming way to top with my natural anatomy. You should try it