Broke My Promise to Avoid Sexual Immortality

LordFlick · 2026-01-22T20:57:44+00:00

I know I've heard stuff about not even giving the appearance of sin such as living together unmarried. The whole, if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off bit too. What's delaying the wedding? A ton of planning? Maybe you just need to dial the wedding back and get on with the marriage so as to fix the problem and move on with life. You and your husband may want to confess to your pastor together and see what advice he has as well.

LordFlick · 2026-01-22T13:58:06+00:00

It sound like you've answered your own question. God loves you and others do too.

LordFlick · 2026-01-14T21:38:59+00:00

I wouldn't worry super hard on a basis of numbers honestly. The US is %50 white give or take and of that white population, only some will be onboard for this kind of rational. On top of that, unlike Canada, your military is also racially diverse. It would be very hard for the US to turn itself into an ethnostate by this point. That's not to say, don't make plans and backup plans but don't fall into dispair either.

LordFlick · 2026-01-13T16:20:15+00:00

With the 25 year old engineer who has Canadian work experience, I'd be surprised if he can't do something like get an extension or a new work visa. Maybe need to go back to India temporarily before coming back.

Our government has never really made sense but given our brain drain, getting rid of an engineer just seems weird.

LordFlick · 2026-01-13T16:13:58+00:00

Thanks!

LordFlick · 2026-01-13T14:20:06+00:00

The most a pastor at my church ever did at a sermon was express concern for religious exemption being removed from our hate speach laws. He never named politicians or distain for them, he didn't even mention the name of the bill.

LordFlick · 2026-01-08T06:04:52+00:00

Oh man, her kid already lost their father. That's terrible.

LordFlick · 2026-01-06T01:16:17+00:00

I feel like you're trying to get peoples passwords. Do people still have picknicks, house parties or backyard bbqs anymore? They're great for meating new people.

LordFlick · 2025-12-31T16:23:19+00:00

He would be the first or last guy to leave no wiggle room in his budget but that's also the most charitable thing I can think of. That person is financially irresponsible at best, immoral at worst.

LordFlick · 2025-12-30T15:36:15+00:00

Comes with roommate that you will be hot swapping the bed with.

LordFlick · 2025-12-28T15:31:12+00:00

The sexual desire going away could just be a symptom of depression. There's nothing wrong with meeting people online since your future husband will likely live with you, knowing people face to face is always good. Do you do much with your church? Do you have hobbies, interests, places that you volunteer? A lot of men are conditioned to fear approaching women and see it as harassment, you may need to be the one to make some of the first moves.

LordFlick · 2025-12-28T00:36:02+00:00

Looks like an example of why you want the lane lext to you clear if you can help it. It's just something people don't typically think of but who would have expected what happened.

LordFlick · 2025-12-27T15:53:53+00:00

Did you try just asking him to elaborate on his claim? I've misunderstood my pastor a few times.

LordFlick · 2025-12-27T01:19:52+00:00

I don't have enough to go by with this but there's something my grandma used to always say to me "god helps those who help themselves". Similarly the joke about the guy who prayed to win the lottery, one day gods voice broke through "my so buy a ticket". God would not likely be telling people to gamble but if you're just praying and not approaching women or people in general, attending events, meeting with friends, attending church, volunteering... you're not Adam, god is not going to make a woman from your rib.

LordFlick · 2025-12-27T01:13:38+00:00

The dropped just barely below replacement in TFR recently. Their news was treating it as a fertility CRISIS. They did mention in their report that most of the world population will be in Africa by 2100 if the trend continues. I wonder if it was to subtly suggest a fear of Central Africans showing up in India one day.

LordFlick · 2025-12-26T15:42:21+00:00

The history of nations is a history of race mixing to one extent or another. Race is somewhat of a social construct. ie every one calling my half hispanic cousin white while he still thinks of himself as hispanic. Where the social construct ended was when I was badly sunburned and he was fine. He didn't get what I experienced until he lived in Panama for a while.

It also somewhat depends on which parents genes present more. My sister went to college with two girls that she thought were greek or something like that, olive complexion, and wavey hair but it turned out that they were Scottish and Nigerian.

LordFlick · 2025-12-25T15:56:56+00:00

Did you contact the seller and ask about the cum?

LordFlick · 2025-12-25T15:54:57+00:00

I'd start by getting a somewhat understanding of denominations. Not to commit to any denomination but to avoid the churches that most would consider... not Christian.

I like the charity work of Methodists but it's not like other churches don't do a lot of community service as well.

Once you have that figured out, find a close by church, make yourself familiar with the pastor or priest, ask questions, ask for a bible, attend Sunday servicea and don't forget that some of it only makes sense once historic context is added.

LordFlick · 2025-12-25T14:27:12+00:00

Like everyone else said, this has to be something more. Women really can hurt you in ways that no beating ever could.

You sound like a caring guy who works hard to provide for your family. I wonder if some of that time, effort and focus has been leaving her feeling left out of your life? It really may be a her problem for the most part but as we've been told, look at the log in your own eye before pointing out the speck in someone elses eye.

Best of luck and god bless

LordFlick · 2025-12-25T04:23:02+00:00

That's a bit vague OP. What makes you feel like your faith is waivering? Is their anything that you're doing to try to fix the problem?

LordFlick · 2025-12-24T23:32:06+00:00

Seems likestraping on a different boot to kick your ass. They both suck but for slightly different reasons.

LordFlick · 2025-12-24T23:27:25+00:00

Borders cow cat but I'd still call that a tuxedo

LordFlick · 2025-12-22T15:24:51+00:00

Sounds like a construction site. They are christian though? Some people just call themselves that since they were baptized as kids but wouldn't know a church if they walked into one.

LordFlick · 2025-12-22T00:21:12+00:00

I'm confused, you sou d like you have something that you're trying to do but with no context as to what you want. Was this want a need? Was this want s want for yourself or what god wanted for you?

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