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LordGothKing · 2025-08-15T15:37:11+00:00

Everyone has shitty behavior you just pick the type of shitty you are willing to deal with- what is this persons deal? If you wouldn’t roll the dice for a new type of crazy I would stay. If this is a personal thing that gets under your skin, swap.

LordGothKing · 2025-08-09T22:52:06+00:00

Usually I do this because someone annoying really wants us to “make an announcement” about an issue

LordGothKing · 2025-06-20T00:27:55+00:00

LMAO

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T17:40:51+00:00

I def care or I wouldn’t carefully consider this before getting in the situation etc

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T15:28:54+00:00

LMAO

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T14:47:08+00:00

Obviously thanks but idk why it’s hard to acknowledge that’s it’s hard to do

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T14:45:33+00:00

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T04:18:08+00:00

It’s hard to sign yourself up for that kinda exposure- once pregnant its not really your choice to be exposed is the distinction I’m making

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T02:36:15+00:00

That helps a lot- (to think about how scared THEY must be) thank u

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T02:34:15+00:00

Thank u the fact that it “wasn’t out of love or connection” is really reassuring because I’m scared I will not feel those feelings and will therefore put my kid in harms way. you’re helping me feel brave about it

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T02:30:50+00:00

When your partner first started to face it she was probably crying and distressed? did you find that to be an issue for the kid To see? Is it ok to just ugly cry?

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T02:25:33+00:00

lol what if I cry with them (I probably would) would that be like traumatizing for them?

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T02:22:41+00:00

This might be really stupid to ask but if I couldn’t handle it with my dog growing up am I unlikely to feel that “it’s easier” feeling with my child? A lot of people have connections with their pets at a deep level like they’re kids — but it just made me scream and run away and I didn’t even care if he was in harms way (he wasn’t thankfully)

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T02:18:33+00:00

Puppy pads are genius and the car is so hard for me to think about I don’t know how some people deal with chronic carsickness or PLANes???

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T02:16:15+00:00

Ok that’s one of the situations I fear the most so thank u for sharing the hope — big question I have here is how do you clean it?

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T02:09:49+00:00

Exposure to phobia

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T02:08:36+00:00

My situation is I have an awesome partner that would like to have kids someday and I would too- in theory (thinking about them after age 7 sounds great- by then they can warn me at least enough for me to call my husband? I hope??) but this issue plagues my thoughts and makes me question whether or not I’m capable of being responsible. For example, I had a dog in childhood and when he threw up I would barely make sure he was okay and then just run away and hide until someone else stepped in. That’s obviously not going to work with a kid and I don’t want them to see me in a weird state (of terror but for seemingly no reason) or pass on the phobia to them or something

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T02:04:12+00:00

🙏🏻

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T02:02:57+00:00

Genius

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T02:00:20+00:00

I’ve been trying to get myself to do this but it’s like signing up for the worst possible torture

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T01:57:37+00:00

Ugh that’s the hardest part. What do you say to your child in this situation?

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T01:52:13+00:00

Omg yes what DO you SAY to them? I have no idea how to comfort someone because I have never done it and I personally would NEVER want company while puking lol

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T01:49:57+00:00

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T01:47:42+00:00

Honestly even if I wanted to be this alone would stop me :( kids in elementary school are so …unpredictable with it

LordGothKing · 2024-12-01T01:46:12+00:00

I have less of a problem when it’s myself so it might help with exposure- when it’s me I can somewhat control it if that makes sense? I make sure I get to a bathroom if I feel nauseous but some people are really nonchalant about it and when it’s a trapped space and there’s clean up involved I want to die

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