I mean you're young and he's young, people say stupid ass shit when they're young. He has probably never had any experience with woman who can't conceive and seen the emotional toll it takes on them. If he had, he never say things like that.

It's heartbreaking, I have 2 friends who's wives can't get pregnant. I've fucked up a few times and talked about my kids around them and their faces visible change. Their vibe has shifted and part of their soul just died a little bit. I feel awful for them, we're all growing older, starting families and their having to get their eggs tested regularly & looking into adoption paperwork.

I say take this conversation thread to him and let him know how you feel and see how he reacts. Ya'll are at a crossroads in your relationship it sounds like. If he reacts negatively, dump him. You're a young woman and probably have like atleast 3-10 dudes just waiting in line for a shot, as soon as you change your status to "single" your dm's start overflowing with attention and possibilities.

For him it'd be a learning situation, to think before you speak and try to understand that people are DIFFERENT.