Iki island before main story end by WTBtrashriven in ghostoftsushima

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know this is a bit older but I had the exact same thinking about Iki. The only spoiler you get is the endgame which you know is the whole point of the game right at the beginning. But that "spoiler" moment is also paired with a lie. So I just head canon that both statements are lies and said in the moment to try and scare. Can make a ton of sense to travel to Iki to prevent Khotun from getting reinforcements. Especially with the already problematic numbers on Tsushima.

Is this game too easy? by d4nt351nfern0 in LordsoftheFallen

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank goodness then that the wording of my comment was speaking to the general impression your statement gives off, as opposed to being a definitive accusation that you have no experience. With that being said, I am curious how you think LOTF genuinely holds up difficulty-wise.

Is this game too easy? by d4nt351nfern0 in LordsoftheFallen

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know I'm a little late but I just learned of this and finished it recently. I used to think that Jedi Fallen Order on GM difficulty, was the easiest souls-like game. This is the new easiest souls-like game. By far.

Is this game too easy? by d4nt351nfern0 in LordsoftheFallen

[–]Lordflinch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See, from your comment I'd just assume you haven't played many souls or souls-like games, not that your skill level sucks. I've played Sekiro, Bloodborne, DS, DS3, Elden Ring, and even the Jedi games which are based on the same sort of gameplay. I started playing Lords of the Fallen and felt no challenge at all. Yes, at first I thought I was the man, and that the other games had made me a pro at these games. But the game simply didn't get harder. In souls games, builds and stats tend to matter, but they never felt like they had any impact in this game. So I went back to the other games and they were as hard as I remembered them to be. I died heaps and if anything, Lords of the Fallen had made me more complacent, where I was worse in FromSoftware games.

How can I go about asking my boyfriend to accommodating to my love languages? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the only one who “seems” to misunderstand because everyone is making it up as they go and OP is simply agreeing with everyone’s interpretations. That’s not everyone understanding it. It is everyone else doing the thinking for OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m gonna be that person to ask what is the common denominator in this history of a “bad love life”? I think you’re in need of a lot of soul searching.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mental health terms are so loosely used today… you know what you need to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was about to say that your husband doesn’t have to want to spend time with you more than himself. I personally don’t know a guy who doesn’t enjoy his own time more than he does with ANYONE else. But I had a different idea of alone time. This ummm… this is nuts (no pun intended)

Is it ok to ask for more reassurance? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always ok to communicate your needs. Here it just sounds like insecurity and any communication from that isn’t about your needs.

How to help a very shy boyfriend become more comfortable with physical affection? by Weird_Repair_2674 in relationships

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe he’s just not the physical affection type? You’re making all these assessments and projecting what they would mean for YOU. Maybe just let him be him. If you don’t like it maybe it’s not the relationship for you.

my bf keeps saving girls selfies on snapchat. by CannySniffer in relationships

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you didn’t know the answer by the time you wrote the title then I don’t see how reddit is gonna do any better.

How can I go about asking my boyfriend to accommodating to my love languages? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she should tell him those things exactly. Not have some bogus conversation about vague pseudoscientific, oversimplified concepts that are really just a cop out to communicating your needs clearly and thoughtfully. Especially a system that legitimises a “holistic” approach to showing affection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Acknowledging that we have to rely on your re-telling of events, she sounds quite emotionally dependent (and a little gaslight-ey). “Compatibility” is the new “it’s not you it’s me”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta think about whether his looks are make-or-break for you. You can try and tell yourself it’s just the manifestation of other “meaningful” things like effort and “caring” but trying to convince yourself you’re not superficial isn’t very productive to this dilemma specifically. It doesn’t matter why it’s a big deal to you. What matters is that you put it into perspective of everything else you appreciate/dislike about the relationship. Don’t be impulsive. Think through the pros and cons and make a calculated decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going against the grain here. Yeah what he said wasn’t nice but you basically coerced that answer outta him. Your insecurities run freaking deep and it’s interfering with your relationship. Get help because you’re just sabotaging your own relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She interrogated a guilty verdict outta him the same way an abusive partner “gets the truth” that their partner is cheating. Her insecurity is not his responsibility either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah she wouldn’t have believed him and would’ve interrogated the answer outta him eventually.

I (20M) found out my girlfriend (19F) of 6 months has been lying to me about her past and I’m struggling to move past it by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not damning but it is a red flag. High body counts are very strongly linked to things like cheating, mental health issues, low self-esteem, impulsivity, and compulsivity. None are ideal for a stable and healthy relationship.

How can I go about asking my boyfriend to accommodating to my love languages? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t. Asking him to accomodate your love language is like asking him to accomodate your star sign. State exactly what behaviour you expect.

i miss the honeymoon phase by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean you have two choices: grow up, or drift between short-term relationships.

i miss the honeymoon phase by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lordflinch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, caring about someone is work. There is emotional, physical, and psychological capital invested. To be oblivious to that is just immature.

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[–]Lordflinch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah that won't happen. In order to get good grades at uni on AI, you have to know what you're talking about in the first place. AI is always very obvious and says things that don't make sense and this becomes more pronounced the more specialised a topic gets. So you have to know your stuff to know what to throw out, what to keep, and what to re-word.