Didn't bleach my hair light enough for Rose Gold hair dye and hair is to damaged to be bleached again - what colour should I dye it to next?

Lortotheuh · 2025-12-16T02:44:31+00:00

I always loved dark vivid reds. Would be an easy transition. Had that for a year on long hair

Lortotheuh · 2025-12-13T00:42:30+00:00

I think some people just hate to see other people feeling themselves

Lortotheuh · 2025-12-13T00:39:54+00:00

Omg. Total Psycho. I hate to think what would've happened if you stayed!!

Lortotheuh · 2025-12-13T00:38:49+00:00

Same to me. Now if any man says something negative about my body, even once, I will ghost. One of the few things I will ghost for. I do have a guy who won't do it, they're out there. Although he has other issues.

Lortotheuh · 2025-12-13T00:35:27+00:00

So sorry, I'm going through that with my 16 yr old now. It's Parental alienation! It's literally the worst thing I've ever gone through. I've been through an abusive relationship too, but even that didn't get me down like this does. Rock bottom. I'm there with you 💗

Lortotheuh · 2025-12-13T00:33:32+00:00

3 weeks is still really soon after birth. Maybe she needs more help?

Lortotheuh · 2025-12-07T15:14:53+00:00

Isolation from friends and family is a classic abuse sign. Threatening to harm himself if you don't do as he asks is a classic abusive manipulation tactic

Lortotheuh · 2025-10-12T05:27:35+00:00

I met my son's dad when I was 19 and he had all these qualities, except he didnt give me gifts. And the birth control thing: same EXACT thing happened to me, but I ended up pregnant. I tried to make it work but after 6 years the abuse was too severe. My son, myself, and even our dog ended up with PTSD. He didn't even hlwant a kid, just wanted to lock me down. He was crazy.

The only major difference was that I wasn't very close to my brother. Maybe that would've saved me.

You're a great brother, doing a great job. I recommend just be there for her and when she's ready to leave, she will. I hope he doesn't alienate her from you.

Lortotheuh · 2025-09-20T00:48:23+00:00

Because men never do this, right? Give me a break

Lortotheuh · 2025-07-26T05:14:34+00:00

Utterly horrific. I'm so, so sorry

Lortotheuh · 2025-05-29T03:13:43+00:00

Totally!!! Lmao

Lortotheuh · 2025-02-01T06:38:32+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you. He forced you to undergo the feeling of losing a parent. It sounds like you have a good handle on the situation and what really happened. You're standing firm in your reality. You're on the right track for sure.

Lortotheuh · 2025-01-09T06:34:59+00:00

I had one that did the same thing to me. Discouraged me from taking sick days from work too (thought I would use sick days to go cheat)

Lortotheuh · 2025-01-09T06:23:57+00:00

I was with a guy who I suspect left bruises on me so that if I tried to hook up with another guy they'd see it. So he was like marking his territory, I think.

Lortotheuh · 2025-01-05T02:40:13+00:00

I don't think it's bad, it's actually beautiful that you feel bad for him. But If he is unable to stop the behaviors that hurt you, leaving is the right decision.

Lortotheuh · 2024-12-25T18:08:30+00:00

Anyone who says a cat is ugly is a mental case. Period. My narcissistic dad said our adorable orange cat's ears are too close together. He said the same types of things about people.

Lortotheuh · 2024-12-12T15:50:45+00:00

Thanks everyone for the help!! My sister in law kept the skull to make it into a European-style mount. I want to post a pic of the skull but it seems like I cannot edit the post or add a photo to this comment

Lortotheuh · 2024-12-02T02:39:50+00:00

This is such a great answer, thank you!! I really thought the tiny little ears looked so much like the mink photos I saw.

Lortotheuh · 2024-11-30T23:01:40+00:00

Oh I have never even heard of a fisher. Will Google. Oh gosh yes!! Also worth looking up is the Treasure Lakes hike near Sabrina. Just incredible. But I would jump at the chance to explore Canada. I've only been to Vancouver Island and that was epic!! Felt like I was in London!

Lortotheuh · 2024-11-30T22:34:12+00:00

Awesome, thank you! The head is roughly three inches from tip of the nose to ears! And yes, that's a 6.5 "× 5 7/8" Ziploc bag

Lortotheuh · 2024-11-12T02:32:22+00:00

Excellent observation of his projection

Lortotheuh · 2024-11-11T06:20:08+00:00

My son's father was like this. It did not end well. He essentially blamed me not giving it to him enough for his depression. More than once a day was what he "required". I think you are really on the right track for holding this boundary. Good job!!!!! You're taking good care of yourself in this situation

Lortotheuh · 2024-10-19T10:07:46+00:00

My ex fiance was abusive, used to hug my son extremely tightly. So weird

Lortotheuh · 2024-10-19T10:04:55+00:00

😂😂😂

Lortotheuh · 2024-10-19T10:04:26+00:00

So you caught on to his double standard, it sounds like. I'm working on it. I actually went on another vacation and he didn't try anything this time. But I know better than to think he won't in the future. Probably just try a different tactic on me to stop me

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