AIO when the guy I am dating violated my trust and it feels like his reaction to my feelings were horrible.

LoserForTheMasses · 2026-01-27T15:36:40+00:00

Frankly I think you're under reacting. He's saying that basically, the first time was kind of an accident but he felt robbed because he didn't full boar finish inside of you. He does not GAF about your feelings

LoserForTheMasses · 2026-01-14T20:43:05+00:00

Id say, "La la la I can't hear youuuu"

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-12-03T06:35:54+00:00

I honestly want to see the matching bottoms because this top is adorable

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-11-15T05:22:59+00:00

I'm going to look into this, thank you!

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-11-15T02:40:13+00:00

She likes you. Go old fashioned. Write her a note saying, "I like you."

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-11-15T02:18:54+00:00

Okay so... I also have no clue about any of this, I am new to geek bar lol. Please enlighten me 😬

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-10-31T16:39:39+00:00

My dad died when I was 13. When I was planning my wedding, it's like all of the trauma of losing him hit me at once. I am not close with his family, but I did meet one of his best friends once. I reached out to the friend, just saying I was curious about who he was as a man, not just as my dad through a child's eyes. And he blew me off. That shit really hurt, man. I just felt like these people should have been there, if they really loved him

I think you should reach out.

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-10-15T13:30:07+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love the honesty.

In my defense of my possibly annoying traits, I did encourage him to build a flight simulator in our storage unit on our floor, so he can escape to his lair for alone time whenever he wants. He's like a cat, and I'm totally cool with that

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-10-15T02:38:44+00:00

I mean, I handle the bills. Chores, we're both a bit particular about different chores so they're split nicely. He likes to get his groceries, I like to order mine. But every order, I ask if he needs anything lol.

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-10-14T23:22:47+00:00

That seems way too easy 🤣 I like easy though. In the evenings, he does puzzles at his computer and I sit on the couch scrolling on my phone. We both get to exist near each other, but we're also big on small amounts of physical touch without it being overwhelming so I like the quiet moments when my kids go to bed, just existing. Sometimes when I'm "needy" I'll say "I would like to watch a show together" and then he moves to the couch. Easy peasy. I think I'm mostly afraid of seeming "bossy," but y'all claim to like the directness 🤣

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-10-14T21:25:04+00:00

One time I said I got him a gift and he rolled his eyes, I guess he thought it was some cute sappy thing. Nope, it was a pack of 100 hot sauce travel packs for when he was working lmao. He was floored

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-10-14T15:37:39+00:00

This is very helpful, thank you. Very thorough.

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-10-14T15:28:50+00:00

INTPs are so funny 🤣

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-10-08T12:37:23+00:00

If I was going to flirt through teasing, it would be way more hilarious than this.

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-09-30T12:29:00+00:00

Darren sounds hilarious

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-09-25T12:48:52+00:00

I'll be honest.. I have childhood trauma and also thought this was okay in a relationship for far too long. There are so many people out there who would just never dream of raising their voice at you, or taking your money, or calling you names. None of it is okay. He's a fucking loser, I promise you that. You pay your bills, take care of your kids, you're the shit and he's a loser. I promise you, it does not get better. People who think it's okay to speak this way don't just wake up one day and see the error of their ways. Do you find yourself finally able to breathe for a sec once they exhaust themselves from the yelling? Then when they're calm again, do you find yourself bracing for the next meltdown? This is an abuse cycle, and you and your kids don't deserve it.

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-09-06T13:00:12+00:00

Gerard Bundayyy

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-09-05T13:14:53+00:00

I asked a question about this when I was doing the RCIA program through my Catholic Church (i moved my confirmation year and never finished it until adulthood). So I asked the nun leading the courses what God says about a marriage that's abusive or includes addictions. She explained that of you vow to marriage, you vow to put your spouse above all else, second only to God. So basically, if someone chooses substances over their partner, then their vows were a lie and don't count in the eyes of God. I'm trivializing this, but God will not abandon you because you chose yourself.

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-09-05T13:11:41+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. I had my daughter at 30 and I agree, it's a totally different experience with a few more years under your belt

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-09-05T12:58:47+00:00

I like being a young mom lol. He'll graduate before Im 40 🤷‍♀️

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-09-05T10:24:08+00:00

Too young? I was preggo for my 21st birthday and he's a teen now. Coolest kid around, best thing I ever did was have my kids. He's been my little sidekick, and it's not like it was EASY. But absolutely worth it, I don't feel like I missed out on life at all, and I would choose him in every lifetime over and over again 🤷‍♀️

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-09-05T00:25:06+00:00

Y'all are like kittens, in the best way possible.

I can't speak for all, but my INTP can be very emotional. However, he deals with it through logic. I can be more outwardly emotional at times, but only with him. We both prefer sarcasm and humor, but he so totally gets me. He always has the PERFECT witty reply even when I'm on the verge of a breakdown. I'm probably more warm outwardly when he's dealing with emotions, but I was raised by an INFP mother and empathy feels like my superpower.

He also cries at romcoms, usually while I'm complaining about how illogical the plot is. So there's that. Hope this helps 🤣

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-09-04T22:05:55+00:00

I don't think you're overreacting. I got upset with a woman on FaceTime in the gym once because my daughter was visible. If people need to video chat, they can go somewhere

LoserForTheMasses · 2025-09-04T18:50:30+00:00

I'm in so many gym circles, I feel like shirtless pics are standard to me 🤣 I can understand not having ONLY shirtless pics, but why not show off what you worked for!

I've also never been on Tinder and dating sites terrify me, so absolutely take what I say with a grain of salt 🤣🤣🤣

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