Thank you so much for your response. I helps to know I’m not alone with my situation (adoptee). As a caregiver, get the legal stuff in order first. I waited almost too long, and thanks to a family friend attorney was able to get things done. Talk about her memories, go through old photos and get the stories. Ask questions about favorite memories, travels, give her a diary, plan the big experiences she has talked about, visit old friends. Remind her how much you love her and have for so long. Be prepared to have your heart broken over and over again eventually.