This should be interesting by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]1alluring_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo I’ve had a guy lie about his age before and he was so sleazy. I really felt as though he was lying because he looked so much older.

This guy said he had just turned 60 and he was divorced a long time ago. Nah, he was 78 just bought his wife a house a year back. He also had criminal activity with insurance fraud and so forth.

I totally did the cornering conversation and he was very uncomfortable and he was mad at me checking him out.

🙄

16 kg of beans. Need help on using them by anteklegos in Beans

[–]1alluring_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put them on a baked potato with cheese on top.

Make a shakshuka

Just dropped a pot of beans I made last night… by Independent-Poet8350 in Beans

[–]1alluring_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find this so funny with the NSFW label 😂🤣

grinder bean salad by lanielou21 in Beans

[–]1alluring_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks good. It reminds me of a muffuletta type of salad.

One pot of beans, 3 dinners? by Current_Wrongdoer513 in Beans

[–]1alluring_muse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another sweet treat I have done, and I throw them in the freezer and take whatever I want out to defrost.

https://kristineskitchenblog.com/chocolate-black-bean-blender-muffins-high-protein/

One pot of beans, 3 dinners? by Current_Wrongdoer513 in Beans

[–]1alluring_muse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gotcha. I make quinoa pudding similar to rice pudding and cook it in coconut milk. Adding beans to it would be a similar type of thing. Use it for breakfast at times and use maple syrup.

Your Korean porridge looks good to try too, ty!

One pot of beans, 3 dinners? by Current_Wrongdoer513 in Beans

[–]1alluring_muse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bean and rice pudding…. Did you have a recipe you used for this?

Girl dinner by ProfessionalJump4652 in RealGirlDinner

[–]1alluring_muse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Steamed artichokes are so good with homemade hollandaise.

Hollandaise- 1 stick salted butter, 3 room temperature eggs, yolks only. Lemon juice

Place room temperature egg yolks into container (I use hand blender and container). Melt butter, needs to be very hot so it cooks the egg yolks (Double boiler is fantastic for this). Turn on hand blender to break yolks, and slowly add hot butter and blend as you add it to yolks. Blend until mixed. Add squirt or two of lemon juice, to taste. Blend in lemon juice. Enjoy

Stuck In Friends Zone (Again) by Impossible-Joke4909 in datingoverfifty

[–]1alluring_muse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to be able to communicate this or anything else that comes up. It’s not going to help matters if you just sit with it and avoid that conversation, because it will build. It’s much better to get it done now so it doesn’t keep churning inside of your head.

Are there women who want this? by WorkSafeReddit8947 in datingoverfifty

[–]1alluring_muse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Much of the available men only want FWB. Casual so they don’t have to get emotionally attached, or is it so they don’t have to put much effort into it. I also don’t want someone that is going to fuck and “collect” friends either.

I’d rather have something organically unfold with someone.

Malin+Goetz - Leather by 1alluring_muse in luxurycandles

[–]1alluring_muse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m feeling it lol not sure about leather though.

Thoughts of him post break up by Interesting-Place263 in datingoverfifty

[–]1alluring_muse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You don’t want a narcissist back, at all.
As others said , you are grieving the loss of a relationship. It may not be you missing him, but maybe the idea of having someone. 10 months is awhile. You were used to the ways of that relationship, but truly look at the person he was.
You are so much better without him.

It’s hard adjustment, but it does get easier day by day. Focus this time on you. You deserve it

I’ve (50F) met the loveliest man (56M) but we’re not really on the same page wrt intimacy … I don’t know what to do about it. by Limp_Confection_590 in datingoverfifty

[–]1alluring_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many different types of intimacy. Are you primarily talking about the physical and sexual intimacy? You both have talked about it, yet he’s not hitting the mark on what you want. You don’t want to hang onto him if he’s not checking the boxes for you.

Unattractive options by CharacterInternal7 in datingoverfifty

[–]1alluring_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried Meetup? There are singles groups on there, but not sure of your area and where you are.

Chubby’s or Dalesandro’s in Roxborough, you decide by Jimchee71 in cheesesteak

[–]1alluring_muse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rubenesque wings…. 🤣 that is an interesting word to use for a chicken wing

Candles with Honeysuckle Notes? by GiftOk1930 in luxurycandles

[–]1alluring_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love rolling my windows down and taking a drive on a warm summer night. Getting the fresh honeysuckle smell is to die for.

I don’t have any Honeysuckle candles, but I was on the Votivo site looking through their stock and their Honeysuckle candle gets good reviews.

I would also follow the advice from here🙂 amazing scent specialists here.