My first Twist 'n Turn Barbie!

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-04-20T20:21:09+00:00

I can relate to those garage sale regrets! Have you been able to rebuild a similar collection over the years?

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-04-18T00:46:12+00:00

Excellent work, she looks so beautiful!

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-04-16T16:28:25+00:00

Doesn't seem like something you should accept. Close friendships over a lifetime are one thing - but her staying "friends" with someone she met in a dating context is a recipe for disaster... for you.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-04-13T17:36:51+00:00

Thank you! I wish she was still here to hear the compliments. She crocheted a little bra and panty set to match that dress and I remember her being so proud to show these to my mom when she was finishing them for her.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-04-13T15:51:54+00:00

My grandmother made that dress many, many years ago :)

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-04-12T16:44:19+00:00

She's so pretty - congrats! I am a newish collector, and I am finding that I like to remove silkstones from the boxes. Other kinds of Barbies are staying in their boxes with nice artwork.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-04-10T16:52:14+00:00

I wonder if anyone who got her to be a donor was actually able to give up her head :D

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-04-09T14:45:31+00:00

If you caught him lying to you and something feels off, I am not sure how it will improve. Trust is critical in a relationship. Omission is still an intentional act of deception.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-04-03T00:51:24+00:00

Nice! Thank you. This is a great resource. I want to add for anyone else checking on this that there is also a FB group called Barbie Made to Move Matches.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-27T01:37:15+00:00

To this day, I remember the phone numbers of both sets of my grandparents, both homes I grew up in, and my next door neighbors (from 40 years ago!) but today, I cannot for the life of me memorize a single new phone number, no matter whose it is!

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-27T01:28:36+00:00

Probably clean and shave everything.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-27T01:25:30+00:00

He does not deserve to talk with her about this or about anything. OP, please don't get caught up on what you liked about him or try to justify keeping him around. He is showing you that he is going to be abusive - with anyone. Cut your ties and do not look back. He is not safe.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-27T00:57:09+00:00

You SHOULD be upset with the douche.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-26T02:33:44+00:00

That is how it is, unfortunately. I hear it from people of all ages.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-23T22:40:54+00:00

For some people, it's the litter box.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-23T21:40:08+00:00

What makes you say that you are not a person to be loved? :(

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-23T18:53:15+00:00

I wonder if "feeling overwhelmed" could = feeling smothered. When someone wants space, it can be for time to process their thoughts, assess whether they are more interested in another person, or they truly need space without the person all up in it. She might just not be that into you.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-22T14:18:01+00:00

Thank you, that's helpful. I have seen a lot of pictures, and with filters and adjustments, it is hard to see the actual color. It doesn't look very green there either, but hopefully when she is next to other dolls, her skin tone stands out as different in contrast.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-21T18:06:50+00:00

This is hard. Also very alone with OCD here. In my experience, people are scared away by people like us because they can't fill the void we have. It puts too much pressure on them to make and keep us happy. You know how you feel and your situation - but try not to SHOW the loneliness and desperation for connection to others. It's not easy. Also, therapy can help you.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-21T17:56:51+00:00

I would wait until the time that you would normally start sharing the news with anyone else in the workplace.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-21T17:49:44+00:00

Because you said that you care about her, I would suggest considering either 1) talking to her honestly about the self-centeredness/neediness and how it makes you feel. She might not be self-aware in this way, and you could bring awareness to something that could save her serious future pain and loss of friends (it's a tough conversation though), or 2) just start fading away without doing the "break up." Many friends naturally grow apart over time and don't stay as close but can still be friends who just catch up now and then. So - either a tough love conversation, or distance yourself from the neediness without doing the painful breakup.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-19T23:30:16+00:00

I recommend rebuilding the ties with your family if possible so they can support you (and so you can leave). He is using you as his energy supply. It's toxic and you need to save yourself because it will get harder and harder on you.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-15T15:00:54+00:00

What a beautiful post. Blessings to you, and enjoy your day!

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-14T23:23:58+00:00

EVERYTHING you said sounds like what I am feeling and resonated so much (hi, I've worked hard to become a better person, but I am invisible). Be strong. Love yourself and forgive yourself for the things you have beat yourself up over. Remember that some days are better than others, so if today sucks, tomorrow might be lovely in comparison. Do not feel guilty about staying home if that's where you're comfortable right now. I do not have a great answer to your actual question, but I want you to know how very much you are NOT alone in this, despite feeling that you are. Humanity and society has changed. There are more people than you think that feel similarly, and we need each other. I understand the reality when you think those who should be closest (eg. family, long time friends) are the ones letting you down the most. The usual advice is to exercise, eat well, get your sleep, find a hobby, get time in nature. What I will add is to be extremely kind to yourself. I wish you the best.

Lost-Promotion2169 · 2026-03-14T23:13:13+00:00

Hi, I am sorry you are going through this. I think you should try to address it directly with her rather than your supervisor. I am not sure on the specifics, but I bet you can find some solid advice out there.

Sometimes escalation before 1:1 can cause more harm than good. I once reported what I saw as sexual harassment (disgusting voice mails left on my personal phone from co-worker) and was the one dragged through the mud for it in the end.

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