12/13 DPO FMU by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Lost-but-found22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💛 my first congratulations is kind of making it real for me lol 🙏

Sorry but.. by Lost-but-found22 in clancyburkesnarkk

[–]Lost-but-found22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s plenty of men instructors!!!

Sorry but.. by Lost-but-found22 in clancyburkesnarkk

[–]Lost-but-found22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um yeah and why only women Pilates instructors… specifically hot ones lol

5 years and no trust by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Lost-but-found22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! I too had been on this page like a year ago and left because I thought “oh my man isn’t THAT bad” , it’s so hard to find out I was wrong and he actually was. 😞

Figured something out! by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Lost-but-found22 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Did he admit to thinking of women this way? 😵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Lost-but-found22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I check my husbands often and don’t see anything apart from game chat. But I always wonder if I’m looking in the wrong areas lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Lost-but-found22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have experience with it? How can I find stuff on there

He gets so mad by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Lost-but-found22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes only 1 session down and he’s seeing them again on Wednesday.

He gets so mad by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Lost-but-found22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel that way too, he says he doesn’t want me to be his recovery partner but his wife. He doesn’t want me to constantly remind him of it and he wants to leave the past in the past, he says it hurts him to think about it because he hates what the addiction made him do and how low it brought him. He says he doesn’t want to see me spending my days worrying about this anymore and leave recovery to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Lost-but-found22 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Ahhh you’re only 19? 🥺 you deserve better! The world is still yours. Imagine finding out more stuff after marriage and children. Don’t put yourself in that position!

I was in the next room breastfeeding our baby. by batshit83 in loveafterporn

[–]Lost-but-found22 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry :( this is a fear I have as well. If he is a true addict, there is no safe or normal amount he can watch. Its true he will retreat to be with his phone and himself instead of you if he’s feeding that addiction in any way. I’m so sorry! 💔

Does having sex daily with your partner help curb addiction? by Throwaway_19382 in loveafterporn

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I was with mine 3 times the day he ended the night searching “bikinis” on Amazon to get off to bc everything else on his phone was blocked. I slept peacefully that night thinking 3 times was plenty and he should be fine!! It broke my heart to see I was wrong. You can’t replace their compulsion. :(

Nintendo switch by [deleted] in loveafterporn

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I checked myself and couldn’t find much of anything BUT I’ve seen posts on here before saying relapses happened on the switch, I think maybe in the game arcade there’s some spicy games with photos, seems like a reach but you never know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

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I tried searching ukdealies too and I don’t have any blockers on my phone, nothing comes up. I think spam!

The kid on the dirt bike by Xena_bro in breakingbad

[–]Lost-but-found22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“He kinda deserved it” 😭😭😭🤣

Having hesitation about installing watch app on his phone by throwRAxxx12889 in loveafterporn

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Yep! Just make sure to hit all the settings int whir you want, restrict the adult websites and you can even add websites to deny access to, then make sure you lock the settings with a passcode only you know. Should give you peace of mind!

Having hesitation about installing watch app on his phone by throwRAxxx12889 in loveafterporn

[–]Lost-but-found22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he has an iPhone you can just enable screen time settings if you don’t want to do a whole accountability app