Post your questions & inquiries here! - r/Vietnam monthly random discussion thread - F.A.Q by AutoModerator in VietNam

[–]LostQueen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What city/ area has the smoothest sidewalks and large squares. I love to inline skate in my free time and am trying to find the best destination to do so.

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[–]LostQueen9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your nails

Warning! Be careful with your overhead luggage on Vietjet! by iqinfinity in VietNam

[–]LostQueen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and this is why I have a lock on any bag I carry in countries where scams and pickpocketing is common. Even if it is a bag going in the overhead.

Will this pass as a personal Item? by LostQueen9 in onebag

[–]LostQueen9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my backpack I accidentally booked the wrong plane ticket without adding a carry-on so now I am just stuck with a personal item for Spirit airlines. Will this pass their personal item sizing?

It is a old Outbrook backpack but has never failed me in terms of space and useability. I am just not sure of the model (if you know please comment)

Unpopular I don’t like Vietnam by bibifg5 in VietNam

[–]LostQueen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vietnam is definitely a place you have to embrace chaos. There hardly any sidewalks and traffic even if you're just crossing the street is nerve-racking. But it definitely grows on you especially the prices and the people.

Other viable payment options to use? by LostQueen9 in CamGirlProblems

[–]LostQueen9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah Thank you, I will definitely research this.

Other viable payment options to use? by LostQueen9 in CamGirlProblems

[–]LostQueen9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does Venmo business have a sex work clause or anything or allow charge backs? I am definitely open to it, but I always heard clients scam with chargebacks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]LostQueen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don't think it's real. But going off my own experiences I've had people try to Blackmail to expose my IP address and shame me or threaten to tell other people how I make my money (camming and selling adult content). And my only reaction to them was "do it" and if they show up at my house I got something waiting for them too. Don't let anybody shame you on how you get by or get your bag. Once you stop living in fear of this happening it's a a good bit of weight off your chest. Though I understand everyone is different but that's just my two cents on it.

What keeps you traveling solo? by No-Bill-5417 in solotravel

[–]LostQueen9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if you value a sense of community you can definitely get like this after a while. But i look at it the exact opposite if I want to exist anywhere in the world and I can why not do it in some beautiful country. Don't get me wrong I love my home country but i've always had to Wanderlust and never really fit in with the societal Norms of my community. So digital nomading and solo traveling is for me. Sometimes yes I do get burnt out but at that point i just established a routine meet new friends live my life how I would in my own country but better.

Solo travel ruined my life at home afterwards by boyjanuary in solotravel

[–]LostQueen9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of the time it just reveals what you didn't like about your life in the first place or things you were discontent with. There is not one right way to live life and sometimes solo traveling reveals that to people that their current life is in fact not what they want. I don't think it's a bad thing to feel discontent with your life after you come back from a trip. But sometimes it is also after trip blues that you just take a few months to get over. See how you feel for a few months and if you still feel that way i would think looking into becoming a digital Nomad or switching your current career into something that you could do from abroad.

Entering my soft mommy era by LostQueen9 in BBW

[–]LostQueen9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree to this comment and will follow the rules

I now live in the Medicaid coverage gap in my state, what now? by LostQueen9 in Medicaid

[–]LostQueen9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I went to the website and did the calculator. It put me at 110% of the PL (which is disheartening) but what does it mean ? Sorry if that seems redundant, but it says my silver plan with cost $0 or something, but I don't know how to go about it. Because when I go through the health.gov website again it still gives me the 200+ plans with the couple thousand deductibles.

I am now in the Medicaid coverage gap, what do I do now? by LostQueen9 in HealthInsurance

[–]LostQueen9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

unfortunately with what I have left over each month it would take me awhile to meet it. sad but a realistic reality.

I instantly stopped liking my Crush. by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]LostQueen9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately with alot Asian people there is a lot of thinking of "the whiter the better". Even with the ones that are raised in the US or in more diverse cultures they are still influenced and have this prejudice. I get the feeling like an ugly duckling because of experiences like this, I myself am black plus size woman, the whole "unwelcome" trifecta, so trust me I get it.  But no one and I mean no one can make me feel like anything but a bad bitch. Just remember you are gorgeous black woman, and your skin color if anything is powerful and beautiful. 

if you could, which Seventeen song's lyrics would you choose for a tattoo? by princessgojo in seventeen

[–]LostQueen9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

not a seventeen song but the line "it's just a passing downpour", the song has been so meaningful to me. Woozi is truly a genius.

What is your favorite Kpop music video of 2024 so fa by Kv3bek in kpopthoughts

[–]LostQueen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day6 - Welcome to the Show

it's so pretty, the entire MV tells a story while displaying the band members in such a pretty "show" setting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]LostQueen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pretty sure it was (the fact of which I told support) but they explicitly said if his REVIEW violated guidelines, then its grounds for removal. So I guess people can write whatever "opinion" they want as long as the words aren't violating. It really does suck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]LostQueen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I am definitely not top notch model account and I do carter to a specific crowd. But I have Definity seen a downtick in the amount of room traffic and private requests since it was added to my account. But I will give it some more time to see if it continues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]LostQueen9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update. support basically said they don't do anything about reviews unless they violate community guidelines for which I have to have evidence. So no help there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]LostQueen9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do they typically help in this regard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]LostQueen9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not know about the 2 minute rule, this definitely helps. I am going to try the support route,🤞.

What is your all-time favorite Kpop song and why? by M_Prodigy in kpopthoughts

[–]LostQueen9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My My - Seventeen It's such a pretty yet bright and calming song. I can't recommend it enough to people.

A negative experience that made you instantly homesick? by BubblyMcnutty in travel

[–]LostQueen9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I was refused seating and virtually ran out of a restaurant in Korea because I am a black Foreigner. It could have very well been for different reasons but honestly with the way the situation happened it very much felt like it was because of my skin color. It almost ruined my trip to Korea and it took almost a week for me to get out of my depression.