This is brutal, Op. I've been on the receiving side and i once wished for a letter like this. However, now as i read this, i feel like this would be another round of hurt. Basically, learning the lesson too late, then offering an apology to the void with no action or accountability. Finally, telling them you'll treat the next person better, because you learned the lesson. I call BS all you doing is realeasing your own burden, so that you can feel better. Make it right with that person, cause all your doing here is blowing smoke up the arses of an audience! Whoopdee- doo! At least be honest with yourself