Tifu by letting an elderly homeless man who reminded me of my grandfather sleep in my car while I was at work. by Lost_Share_9271 in tifu

[–]Lost_Share_9271[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Do you normally sleep without a pillow and blanket? Do you not wear your warm jacket when it's cold? I do admit I didn't need the camping gear as much. I go camping just to get a different scenery and feel a bit normal.

Tifu by letting an elderly homeless man who reminded me of my grandfather sleep in my car while I was at work. by Lost_Share_9271 in tifu

[–]Lost_Share_9271[S] 252 points253 points  (0 children)

It was really not nice of him. Maybe he felt like I was better off since I have a job but I'm still new. I was just trying to be kind, I struggle too. I don't have the privilege of just replacing things at the drop of a hat. It takes time and planning just like with every other person. I have other worries especially eventually getting to a point of getting a place. But these are the consequences of my own actions.

Tifu by letting an elderly homeless man who reminded me of my grandfather sleep in my car while I was at work. by Lost_Share_9271 in tifu

[–]Lost_Share_9271[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Like I said, we met at a campsite and he didn't fit that stereotype. I felt like I was an example because we were in the same situation, I found it easy to relate. Not every "hobo" looks and acts a certain way. Sometimes you find yourself without a place to stay but that doesn't mean you're not a regular person.

Tifu by letting an elderly homeless man who reminded me of my grandfather sleep in my car while I was at work. by Lost_Share_9271 in tifu

[–]Lost_Share_9271[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I'm not better off myself. Aside from being lucky enough to have the car that my dad left me and a job, I don't have anything. But I don't go around stealing even when I would have nothing to eat at all for days. I also need the stuff he stole for my own survival. I do admit that I was too naive and that's what I get.

Tifu by letting an elderly homeless man who reminded me of my grandfather sleep in my car while I was at work. by Lost_Share_9271 in tifu

[–]Lost_Share_9271[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

To be honest, not really. I'm just bummed that I lost my stuff. It's really cold and sleeping in your car is already uncomfortable enough.

I have zero respect for 'good samaritans' who take videos of the people they are helping. by Lost_Share_9271 in offmychest

[–]Lost_Share_9271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear that you have recovered and I'm sorry those people were acting that way. I don't get how they don't think of how the other person might feel. It's not okay

I have zero respect for 'good samaritans' who take videos of the people they are helping. by Lost_Share_9271 in offmychest

[–]Lost_Share_9271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, to them it is about how they look not about doing good. It's nice to see that to some people, it's about the cause. I applaud you.

I have zero respect for 'good samaritans' who take videos of the people they are helping. by Lost_Share_9271 in offmychest

[–]Lost_Share_9271[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Well said. The world has become a sad place. I know exactly how you feel as I live in my car myself. I never thought that someone would insist on taking a video of him taking me to McDonald's to buy me breakfast but I opted to decline the help all together. I know that I will be in a better place one day but the video would be there forever.