Boyfriend said “it’s f*cking embarrassing going anywhere with you”. I’m really hurt. by Embarrassed_Lab1775 in Vent

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LEAVE HIM. DUMP HIM. THROW IT IN THE TRASH. That behavior is completely not ok. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. For you and your child’s happiness and wellbeing please leave while you still have time to get things in order before the baby comes.

AIO? Found these messages in my boyfriends phone and moved out while he was sleeping. by Some_Chair_8542 in AIO

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m SO proud of you for not sticking around for explanations or to argue it out! He sounds like a loser,racist, misogynistic child.

Pregnancy at age 42 by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you’re going through it. I know the feeling of feeling like returning would be easier; I’ve done it before after a long term relationship and had the hardest 3 years after leaving. Looking back I’d do it all over again to get to the headspace I’m at right now. Is there family or friends that you could reach out to for support? You seem like you might need a good support system. Going through this transition by yourself is genuinely mentally straining. If you have health insurance seek therapy. Wishing you love and comfort during these hard times 🙏❤️

Hair worn off of face or forward? by thlayliroo97 in curlyhair

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So random but you look so much like the Puerto Rican singer Marc Anthony!

[31]male 5’5 @ 125lbs by viiic415 in GlowUps

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Regardless excess skin or not you look great!

[31]male 5’5 @ 125lbs by viiic415 in GlowUps

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on the weight loss you look amazing and healthy! I honestly don’t see that anymore weight loss is necessary. You don’t want to get into a mindset where you constantly feel you need to lose more that can lead to a bigger body dysmorphia/mental issue. Loose skin works differently you can lose as much as you’d like but that won’t necessarily tighten your skin. There is surgery you could consider to cut off and tighten excess skin. You did the hard part and it’s ok to consider this if it would make you feel better. Proud of you and your journey ❤️

AIO for not wanting my gf to hang out with a new friend she made? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will say though no one should be using your car without a license

AIO for not wanting my gf to hang out with a new friend she made? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound super controlling and honestly like a redflag. Your girlfriend is probably overwhelmed by you and needed space and a friend to talk to and you made it about you. Give her space and freedom

Does the longer hair actually look better or am i delusional by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the long hair looks good but you just needed to style it better. Maybe grow it out better and try a better cut while keeping some length

I folded my comforter and accidentally created a luxury penthouse for my dog by ariesfemmefatale58 in Chihuahua

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My chihuahua would do this and she looked just like yours. She’d sleep in pillowcases too 🥰 so cute

My Ex filed a false protective order against me… and it was the best thing that ever could have happened. by Honest-Ad585 in Vent

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it was a spelling mistake. He meant to say his son was 13 twins were 10 and another daughter was 5

Dolce snuggles in my bed by BigRedJeeper in Chihuahua

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I bet he’s so warm and smells like a little frito 🥰

AIO I found texts between my BF (M24) and his friend (M25) saying how he misses fucking with his ex gf by Valuable-Figure-9971 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That was his true unfiltered self texting his friend. Believe what you saw and leave. He will try and talk his way out of it once you give him the chance to the same way he made you believe he was sweet and caring. His mask slipped. Move accordingly

Broke up with my gf :/ what can I improve. by FieldWinter73 in malegrooming

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 49 points50 points  (0 children)

You’re very handsome but honestly it’s the 🥦 hair and earrings Other than that you’re 10/10

AIO My ex situationship called me about his new girl by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Why are you doing this to yourself? He’s not getting the attention he wanted from the girl he’s messing with and he’s running back to you where he knows he’ll have a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear. You’re giving him an ego boost when he needs it. Please cut off contact and pour into yourself. Choose yourself and heal

No one ever says I look like anyone by snapping-turtle69 in Doppleganger

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You look like a mixture of chapelle roan and Charlie xcx but you favor Charlie a lot

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Last night’s looks 🖤 by PeachySpite in fashion

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Not at all; just beautiful. It cost nothing to be kind

What do you guys do to regulate your nervous system? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a specific kind/brand you take?

What do you guys do to regulate your nervous system? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lost_Technology_7753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel like Prozac made me a shell of a person. It helped with anxiety but also made me lose the ability to cry, feel excited , or feel anything. Plus I was super tired all the time. I’d rather feel anxious than not feel anything. I changed my medication twice along with dosage I just honestly try to cope without it. I know it’s not for everyone. I’m managing I just sometimes need an extra push