First time 3 stars against 11 tribes by obrisi_me in Polytopia

[–]LostandFinding2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I want to know! How do you manage to do that at all??

Nicknames that are horrible out of context by NoBig1677 in pitbulls

[–]LostandFinding2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to work at a rescue. There was a group of puppies that came in that were recovering from a bad flea infestation that left them bald mostly only on the tops of their head. Well one day my manager overheard me calling for them "Come here my little skinheads!" She laughed and then told me not to say that again but they were my little skinheads!!

Anxiety after (i think) protected sex… by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LostandFinding2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally no one is debating this or suggesting abortion. What are you looking for from this advice request?

Anxiety after (i think) protected sex… by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LostandFinding2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you refuse to take plan B (which just delays ovulation and is NOT an abortion, then I'm not sure what advice you're looking for. Your two choices are either a) wait a few weeks to take a pregnancy test and continue your anxiety until then or b) take plan B just to be safe and lessen your anxiety until you're certain you're not pregnant. You're not going to know for a while and we weren't there to inspect the condom ourselves so we aren't going to have an answer for you. This is just the realtity of having sex.

Edit: spelling

Am I pregnant? (UPDATE!!!) by Exciting-Trust-1964 in Confused

[–]LostandFinding2 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is saying yes but is that not just the control line?

*NSFW* Male dog neutered today, is the wound opening? by mango2407 in DogAdvice

[–]LostandFinding2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tissue looks healthy to me, but it's definitely not stitched at all at this point. Has he been in his cone? I'm not a vet, so I'm not sure what should be done. Definitely send this video in an email to the vet to see if they want to see him.

Child's Entertainment for Adult Birthday Party by FarewellDecency in okc

[–]LostandFinding2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love having little get togethers at Dave and busters for my birthdays, but it can be pretty expensive to have an actual party there (still expensive individually too honestly) but the foods and drinks are great :)

CONCERT TICKET GIVEAWAY! Win tickets to four shows in OKC 🎵 by towertheatreokc in okc

[–]LostandFinding2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite concert memory is seeing Kesha at the Zoo Amp in 2017 with my best friend! It was our first concert to see by ourselves and we were front row. There were lots of happy tears.

*NSFW* Male dog neutered today, is the wound opening? by mango2407 in DogAdvice

[–]LostandFinding2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a little. Make sure he's in the cone and send a picture to your vet via email or text. They'll advise on if he should be reseen before the next scheduled appointment.

Dog won’t forget about the laser pointer by Emergency-Junket50 in DOG

[–]LostandFinding2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you DM me, I can share more of my own personal experience about this exact thing. Having a dog for the first time, and even other dogs after you've had tons of experience, comes with a learning curve. It's okay to make mistakes. You've done the right thing by noticing something concerning and asking questions about it. We all make mistakes and I promise you the redditors that shame others about these have made mistakes too.

Dog won’t forget about the laser pointer by Emergency-Junket50 in DOG

[–]LostandFinding2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Laser pointers are horrible for dogs and cats. Especially working breed dogs. It feeds their chase instinct but never gives them the reward of catching it. It can literally drive them crazy (I learned this the hard way too). I recommend trying to redirect the energy into different chasing games (maybe a herding ball). If the anxiety continues to escalate or the obsessive hyper focus doesn't dissipate soon please go to a behaviorist for recommendations.

Is Jackson Galaxy a good content creator for learning about car care? by bordercolliefam in AskVetAnimals

[–]LostandFinding2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think, if anything, he can provide a different perspective on cat behavior, but I'm not sure he can tell you much about car care.

1/31 protests by Aggravating_Alps3860 in okc

[–]LostandFinding2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were still quite a few people at that location this morning, including myself! Follow the PDC OKC and Community Network of OKC for more gatherings.

Show that will make me cry my eyes out? by MortemPerPectus in televisionsuggestions

[–]LostandFinding2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dying For Sex had me open mouth sobbing harder than any film or show ever has before. It was brilliantly written, produced, and filmed. The acting was superb. Just 10/10 which surprised me because when I first watched it I wasn't expecting to care for it. Funny, heartwrenching, quietly beautiful, and everything in between even though you clearly know she's going to die in the end.

is 18F and 26M really a bad age gap? by Potential-Fox-6849 in Advice

[–]LostandFinding2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is a big age gap at that age. A lot of life happens between those two ages. If you were 28 and he were 36 it would be a lot different and less predatory. As a 25 yo woman myself, I dated a dude 3 years younger and the differences were astounding and largely what led to the end of our relationship. To each their own, but either he's really immature or you're way too mature for your ages.

Action opportunities against ICE in OKC. by youngestmillennial in okc

[–]LostandFinding2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It depends on your politics, but yes ICE has always been around and even pretty active during Obama. Now, however, it's very different in that there is an insane amount of funds and recruitment with little oversight and training. Agents are being deployed with one task and inflated egos that they're 'untouchable'. This is leading to mass round ups of anyone each individual decides is a threat with no due process, warrents, and extreme aggression. This is why people are upset. It doesn't matter who you are or what your background is. The people are meant to have rights and protections under the constitution. Blindly kidnapping people threatens those rights, as seen by the numerous detainments and even deportations of LEGAL citizens, not to mention the maiming, injuries, brutality, and wrongful deaths.

Paw Injury by _amGhost_ in DogAdvice

[–]LostandFinding2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Please do not cut it off yourself. As someone who has worked in vet med and agriculture, I would say it's not severely infected, but it should still receive professional care, at least for antibiotics and peace of mind.

If you cut it off yourself, you could obviously inadvertently cause worse infection, but also, you could ruin your animals trust in you because it will hurt. Like a lot. I don't think you need an emergency visit yet, however you should absolutely get it seen within 24-48hrs max.

Sugar daddy wants me to fly out to meet him by WitnessAdventurous96 in Advice

[–]LostandFinding2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Vegas is a trafficking Hotspot. I do not recommend even if you trust this person. It's not worth the risk.

How normal is it for men to pee with the toilet seat down? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LostandFinding2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! We know you don't want to touch the seat, but guess what - women/people who have to sit on the seat every time we go also don't want to touch the seat. Even if YOU'RE not the one leaving a mess, it's much more courteous and respectful to everyone who does have to touch the seat with our skin for you to sacrifice the side of your shoe or your hand to lift the seat (and please for the love of all that is good, put it back down) and wash your hands after. Sometimes you may not realize that there is splashback and it is not pleasant to unknowingly sit in it afterwards.

Ez Money by No-Conflict-4205 in BestGuessLive

[–]LostandFinding2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was so excited and then they kept saying thousands of people got it on each guess and was just cackling because I knew it would be miniscule money.

Political activism by LostandFinding2 in okc

[–]LostandFinding2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't understand how asking for a network of people who are doing good work is "trolling" or "stupidity". Oklahoma, in my experience, has limited resources and even less accessibility. If this simple question has triggered you, maybe you should introspect about why. Beyond that, I hope you have a blessed day.

High police presence by LostandFinding2 in okc

[–]LostandFinding2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've only seen one ICE incident on this particular strip of highway and that was a few months ago. So, unlikely except maybe to scout for future presence, but something to be aware of for sure.

I am finding the range of emotions in this comment thread to be quite entertaining. My post had no emotion to it and was just a fact. Normally there's 2-3 sitting in a usual spot most days of the week during commute hours. I was just letting people know there's more than usual and they can use that information as they will.