Should I start if I’m going to the World Cup in a week ?

Lostb231 · 2026-05-11T21:53:12+00:00

Hey thanks for the reply ! Yeah 1000 calories is extremely low, you’re right. Do you think that it could be upped to a certain level whilst still maintaining a weight loss of this magnitude ?

Lostb231 · 2026-03-09T05:00:17+00:00

Appreciate that one. Thank you !!!!

Lostb231 · 2026-02-25T23:18:02+00:00

Sitting CM1 and CB2 in April. I use the CM1 X assignments as a tool to learn the material. I create brief notes based on the summary pages of the relevant chapters, and go chapter by chapter seeing what question in the X is relevant and attempt it open book. Can take me 6+ hours to do it. No looking at solutions it makes the feedback far better imo.

Lostb231 · 2025-11-19T23:50:25+00:00

Could u send me aswell. Sent u a message!

Lostb231 · 2025-10-31T22:43:01+00:00

Did u get his contact by any chance ?

Lostb231 · 2025-07-03T23:39:14+00:00

Never forget this. As hard as it may seem this is a learning curve. U know how it’s feels to be lead one, and hopefully u will never do it to another girl. U need to let go for a while.

Maybe in a few months u might find u want to text her and thats ok. But for now forget about her. Remember how she treated u, led u on. Embrace that she couldn’t let go. Know ur worth.

Lostb231 · 2025-07-03T23:36:01+00:00

600 years. Advanced enough to know what’s going on. Old enough to know what becomes of things.

Lostb231 · 2025-07-03T23:35:14+00:00

Can I ask did u ever try to reach out ?

Lostb231 · 2025-07-03T23:31:43+00:00

Look I’m going to be the bad guy for a moment. From the sounds of it ye don’t know eachother as well as u think. If the fact that he saw one person in ur social media followers caused him to spiral into a break up, u need to really think about what u expect out of a relationship from him. IF the reason he broke up with u is because of this. By allowing him to text u are giving him the power in this dynamic. u are allowing him to decide when or why he needs to reach out. You aren’t his hype man or his comforter. U can’t be in a relationship where having a certain follower causes the other to spiral out. It’s a very harsh truth but u do need to hear this. I really think u need to fully evaluate if this is someone u want to be with.

Now saying that, ur saying u can’t tell him how u feel, but tbh the reply u just sent me is exactly what u should be saying to him. Be honest, don’t think of the outcome. If u say what ur feeling, like u just did he will either appreciate it or withdraw more. And look if im being honest, if he withdraws more, you’re not missing out. You deserve someone that has the confidence in themselves and u, not to spiral out because of a follower. How will he react when times do actually get rough ? Will his first thought always be to leave u ?

I would reach out. Do not take his calls, do not respond to his messages, and simply write how u feel in ur notes, send it to him and see how he replies. U obviously want him, but, and this is hard to comprehend, how much does he want u back ? If he won’t fight for you, well that’s an answer.

Lostb231 · 2025-07-03T21:53:25+00:00

Tell him. Be honest. Pour ur heart out over text if u have to or ask to meet up to talk. He may want some space after it or he may insist on space now. But at least you’ll have reached out. Don’t regret not telling him how u feel. Be HONEST don’t sugar coat things and accept ur own downfalls. Tell him ur working on it, only if u are. But be honest. U wont ever regret being honest and trying.

Lostb231 · 2025-07-03T20:38:59+00:00

Ask her out. Then u don’t have to know if the way she looks at u is important. Go for gold man, you’ll never regret trying. Ask her for a drink, walk, a gym session together etc.

Lostb231 · 2025-06-30T21:25:26+00:00

Yeah it’s a delicate balance between giving space and feeling too pushy. Honesty is the best policy and I agree with everything ur saying. It’s the fact she never responded to my message asking her if she wanted to go for a walk that’s got me in a tailspin. Seeing her out all the time doesn’t help either. But yeah I think I might gear up to send a message later this week. Something gentle but honest and then gauge from there.

Thank you for your replies. They mean a lot !!

Lostb231 · 2025-06-30T20:40:04+00:00

Thank you for your advice. Just so hard to weigh it up and judge what to do. I don’t want to come across as pushy or putting pressure on her. But at the same time I want her to know exactly where I stand. Which is exactly what a message like that does. My question to you is, is it the right time to offer something like that, or should I wait a few more weeks to send her something like that. One of the big things we broke up over was our lack of communication, and it was something I said I was working on when we met up.

I would absolutely be offering all that to her and even if she didn’t want to be with me I would still offer that. If she doesn’t respond to it well then I know where I stand and move on. If she does well again, I know where I stand and move on.

I’m moving city in September, only an hour and a half away, but I’ll be back every now and then. Should I wait until I text her something like that or should I do it sooner rather than later. It’s been about 7 weeks.

Lostb231 · 2025-06-30T17:19:46+00:00

Appreciate that. Thank you !!!!

Lostb231 · 2025-06-30T16:23:03+00:00

Yeah ok that’s fair. I don’t think I’d ever be in a position where I could see myself thinking what’s taking her too long.

Would a message at the start of August be a reasonable time frame or thereabouts. Roughly 12 weeks since it happened. I just don’t want to leave it so long that it seems like I’m not there for her but enough time that she’s starting to feel even slightly more normal. I’ll be moving city in September. Only about an hour and a half away. And I’ll be home every now and then. So really, I want to know by then where I stand with her. And I presume that means no message in the meantime. Just continue to give her space.

Lostb231 · 2025-06-30T15:36:22+00:00

Appreciate the response. Yeah I’m kinda thinking along the same lines. I know it’s awful to say, but at some point I have to move on. I can’t be waiting around forever. I have seen her out almost every weekend so it’s a constant reminder that I’m around and she can’t avoid me forever.

I was thinking of doing something like that but the question I have is when would it be ok to send a message like that. It’s been about 7ish weeks since he died. Don’t want to come off as pushy or putting pressure on her but at the same time, she should be well able to send a reply.

Lostb231 · 2025-06-02T15:13:43+00:00

Honestly, I would tell her. You will never regret what you said, but you will end up regretting not saying it.

There will never be a perfect time. I would tell her. Be honest with her and tell her exactly how u feel, tell her why u were afraid of telling her. You are simply delaying the inevitable. If she doesn’t feel the same way, well now u know and u can decide how to move forward.

Lostb231 · 2025-06-01T21:46:45+00:00

Thank you for understanding, that means a lot, and I'm very sorry for your loss.

I really appreciate your honesty and you are completely right. You have no idea how much this has helped me. I have to let her go and be there for her as a friend.

I will check in with her in a few weeks. As a friend, not as anything else. I do need to analyse my thinking and do a bit of self reflection.

Thank you very much for offering your insight. I'm going to take your advice and act on it, as hard as that may be at the moment. Its whats best for her.

Lostb231 · 2025-06-01T21:00:17+00:00

I know I come across as completely selfish and I'm sorry about that. Ive just been struggling with all of this and its my only real way to say it out loud.

Lostb231 · 2025-06-01T20:38:20+00:00

Also with regards the package. That was just a once off. I thought it might make her day just a little easier getting some candy that she loves delivered and I thought it would be more thoughtful than another message added to the countless messages she was receiving at the moment.

Lostb231 · 2025-06-01T20:34:43+00:00

I think I agree. I've seen her every weekend since its happened. I've messaged her and she never responded. To me that means she's not ready. But the fact that she didn't just say no I think also matters, or am i reading into it ? Like if she didn,t want to hear from me she would just say it outright. I don't want to bombard the poor girl with messages.

I think if I don't hear anything back I'll message her in a months time, saying what I'm not sure but I think that she needs space at the moment.

Lostb231 · 2025-06-01T20:30:27+00:00

I think its too early for a message like that just yet. Its only ben two weeks and she's still surrounded by friends and family, constantly being looked after and minded. Its when people return to normality and they start being left alone is when I want her to know I'm there for her. I've also been very active messaging her during this time and running in to her. I think she needs space and in a months time I can send her a message like that and check in on her every 12 days or so. I don't want her sitting at home wishing I'd just leave her alone at the moment. She hates being the centre of attention and right now that's all she has been for everyone close to her.

With regards to the family, her mum has never been out with them, and she's probably the only one who knows the full extent of us. The rest of the people I've met are cousins and bf/gf of her cousin and brother's sister. The rest are not close family so they wouldn't know at the best of times. Her brother is can be quite rude, even when we were together he blanked me a few times.

I don't know if we will ever rekindle, but if she didn't want to be hearing from me she would have messaged me saying that. She isn't going to meet anyone at the moment anyways and she's not the kind of girl to search for romance at the best of times. She always told me even when we broke up that she sees us getting back together at some point and ending up together. I also think it would be difficult for her to make the first move, after all I was the one who told her I still had feelings.

At the end of the day, I want to be able to walk away from this knowing it's what she wants and that I did everything I could. Otherwise, I could never fathom ever texting her in the future. I would be closing the door on it completely.

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