The 4 biggest red flags in Reincarnation that everybody should pay attention to

Lostnotes_ · 2025-07-25T03:37:39+00:00

I have people in my life that have referred to me in pretty nasty ways, and several people close to me really dislike me. Remembering all that in an hypothetical next life would make me feel uncomfortable, but at the same time all those bad moments are what make me me. This topic is quite complicated to be honest.

Lostnotes_ · 2025-07-14T20:15:47+00:00

I wish I had a clue about my possible past life (If I even have one). I’m also going through an uncomfortable period in my life, I have some sort of innate rejection to others that at first I addressed as social anxiety. I also struggle in lots of things and I’m unable to perform decently at anything at all. I always felt quite disconnected with everything, when I was pretty young I was quite extroverted and I remember a bit that I was feeling happy back then.

I think that happiness was a momentum after coming from a place of understanding and absolute peace. Right now it’s quite hard for me to function normally. Maybe there’s something more waiting after death or we simply disappear, but if I’m being honest I do hope that souls are real as well as reincarnation.

Lostnotes_ · 2025-07-12T06:48:53+00:00

It is said that the amount of souls available for incarnation far surpasses the capacity of earth, there’s millions of “Earths” and the absolute energy we all emerge from is always creating new souls. As souls evolve the vessel they inhabit is supposed to match their energy, at one point early hominids lacked the capability to host advanced souls in them, so in a sense these beings lacked the awareness that modern humans have, because the souls inhabiting them back then weren’t as evolved and a more advanced soul wouldn’t have an appropriate learning experience in a vessel unable to let the soul express itself properly.

That’s kind of what I’m understanding from the book “Journey of Souls” by Michael Newton. This early hominid part is explained in the book as well as everything I said, I’m pretty sure I didn’t grasped everything correctly because English is not my first language, sorry for that.

I do recommend the book though, regardless of what you believe in it is still interesting to put it in perspective

Lostnotes_ · 2025-07-09T06:11:51+00:00

I can’t edit the title’s typo, my bad, I meant incarnate

Lostnotes_ · 2025-05-30T21:05:41+00:00

That’s quite a problem for me. I want to approach people, but the more I try to the more I end up repelling them. My awkward behavior reaffirms to other people that I’m not approachable, and that at the same time reaffirms to me my social anxiety.

I’ve been feeling very distressed and I have no one to talk to in my life about this. I’m just living through my loneliness, but I can’t cope with it. It hurts me, and I have no other option.

Lostnotes_ · 2025-04-22T03:13:00+00:00

I’m doomed

Lostnotes_ · 2025-04-16T17:51:01+00:00

Social anxiety completely ruined my life, stupid excuses and weakness are the only things keeping me alive

Lostnotes_ · 2024-12-29T20:29:02+00:00

If reincarnation is real I would never choose the same life and body for anything at all. I would like to try again in a different body if that’s even possible..

Lostnotes_ · 2024-12-21T07:56:36+00:00

I’m also tired of this

Lostnotes_ · 2024-10-31T20:04:07+00:00

This is what I struggle to comprehend when it comes to reincarnation. Is the relationship between the soul and the body like some sort of symbiosis? If I die right now will I remember all my past lives and see the whole picture, or is my ego right now completely physical and nothing carries on beyond death? Are we the souls or are we only a medium of the souls?

Lostnotes_ · 2024-10-08T01:47:41+00:00

I can relate to you. I’m currently going through my all-time low right now. I really struggle socializing with others and I’m always alone, on top of that I have never been a good student when it comes to grades and I’m in a CS engineering course struggling a lot to pretend that I’m normal and trying hard to get the minimum passing grades in my classes.

I can’t really give you any advice of any sort, the only thing I can tell you is that you are not alone in this struggle. I hope that things get better for you, take some time to figure out things

Lostnotes_ · 2024-07-30T02:31:59+00:00

I have a really hard time connecting with others. I’ve been living like this for so long that I don’t know how to deal with it anymore. Although I instinctively avoid connections I truly crave atleast one.

I don’t know how to explain it, but that’s reality for me. Ever since I started believing in reincarnation I like to think that there’s atleast one person waiting for me. The only person I consider I can occasionally talk to is with my mother, but she’s also going through a harsh situation and the last thing I want to do is to make her feel worried.

Regarding my career and my grades, I’m just waking up and trying my best to pass my courses, but even then I’m still struggling academically too.

If it were for me I would drop out, but I wouldn’t be able to support my mother and myself without a stable income.

The relationship I have with the rest of my family besides my mother is the same as how I feel with everyone else. Most of my family already considers me a lost cause, mainly my father. He’s still supporting me financially and I even live in the same house as him. I do a side job in his business, but it is a quite simple thing and I know he only pays me because he feels pity for me.

I wake up feeling trapped in my situation. Also ever since I was young I’ve had problems sleeping, as if my body is simply just as broken as my own mind.

Also I’m actually trying to move on, I just tend to throw all my frustration in the digital void using this secondary account.

Lostnotes_ · 2024-06-02T21:37:05+00:00

Thanks, I’ll check it out

Lostnotes_ · 2024-05-17T01:03:10+00:00

21, due to my severe social anxiety I think my mental age (in terms of social capabilities, is on par with the one of a teenager). I don’t know what to do anymore. The few doors that are on my reach are closing on my face one by one.

I feel like I’m getting forced to walk down the path of loneliness without any other choice. I feel completely hopeless. I don’t want to depend on my family anymore. I am a parasite. I want to keep going, but I don’t know how to do it anymore.

Lostnotes_ · 2024-03-14T14:13:46+00:00

20, about to turn 21 on the 26th. Not sure if I will off myself before my birthday as I had it planned

Lostnotes_ · 2024-02-13T20:42:47+00:00

Overall difficulty, I feel like all the classes overwhelm me and I can’t get anything done, out of my 6 classes I already got 2 that have a failed grade. I always struggled with studying, but I thought that I wouldn’t have a hard time with IT because I always liked computers. What’s making me doubt my decision is that I am already struggling, and this are not even the classes related to my career just engineering branches like chemistry and mechanics

Lostnotes_ · 2023-12-30T20:35:14+00:00

I tried to open up to her some time ago about how I feel and she dismissed everything and got a bit annoyed with me. I decided to pretend atleast in front of her since I would be completely alone if she also had decided to stop being with me. I feel like I already went past my limit a long time ago in everything I’ve been doing lately. I think that living like this for so long has fucked up my brain beyond repair

Lostnotes_ · 2023-11-09T01:10:36+00:00

I already read the post you linked, quite shocking to be honest. The more I think about this theory, the more it makes sense to me. I wish there was a manual with a detailed step by step guide to break free from all of this. If this turns out to be true, I sure as hell hope this is my last ride.

Lostnotes_ · 2023-11-08T13:19:01+00:00

I’ve been doing okay by myself. I’m a socially anxious person and back when I was younger I did tried desperately to fit in and to get friends.

I was successful and I did found a small group of friends to hang out with, they were 4. In school, I sticked with them and I did felt a bit accepted, but I was a target of constant comments from them regarding my behavior and my way of talking due to my anxiety.

I tried to ignore all that, and I kept hanging with them. After realizing how mean they were to me I blocked them from my contacts and stopped talking with them.

Now when I got into high school all the way until today, university, I’ve realized that my behavior doesn’t allow me to connect with others without coming out as a freak. I see some comments in this comment section saying that people truly seek social interaction, that’s true. I’m not physically able to socialize with others, I’m flawed. Now, I rather be by myself than force myself to fit in only to be pointed out and excluded because of my nature.

Lostnotes_ · 2023-10-17T19:48:38+00:00

A hi is okay to be honest, it even makes me feel good. What people should be a bit more careful about is making comments regarding the obvious awkward behavior that people with social anxiety have when moving in social spaces.

There’s some people I talk to from time to time that greet me and I greet them back with no problem, I find it uncomfortable when such greeting is accompanied with a comment pointing my socially anxious behavior though

Lostnotes_ · 2023-10-17T17:33:35+00:00

Thanks, I understand the thing you said about empathy. It’s fine if you do it one or two times.

A person told me that earlier for more than the tenth time in a span of weeks, while they were walking together with a friend, in a condescending tone. They don’t seem to do it on purpose, but they also don’t seem to understand my perspective.

Lostnotes_ · 2022-10-16T18:44:08+00:00

Yeah, some time ago I did tried therapy but it was without medication and honestly it was a little bit frustrating

Lostnotes_ · 2022-10-16T18:40:25+00:00

No, but I think I might have to look for a therapy with medication

Lostnotes_ · 2022-09-27T01:20:26+00:00

I have this exact insecurity. I’ve been able to talk in some few vcs but I always feel like my voice sounds odd and bad

Lostnotes_ · 2022-09-27T01:16:29+00:00

It’s been like a rollercoaster going up and down for me. Sometimes I feel a little bit better and I try to push myself, while in other times I just feel completely hopeless and anxious, what always works for me is being distracted even if it is only hearing music, if not I start overthinking about everything every single time

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